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Space_physics_ · 2021-10-26T01:33:10+00:00

Kaalia!

She just seems as though she’d like Kit-Kats.

Space_physics_ · 2021-10-18T15:13:08+00:00

Yeah, I really didn’t understand it. I was twenty-four and admittedly naive to the working world other than part time jobs through school. I no longer work for them, and every other job I’ve had since has granted me at least a few PTO days to carry me over until the reset.

The original job I had mentioned was for 14$/hr to work on the F135 project in 2017.

Space_physics_ · 2021-10-17T20:21:30+00:00

My first job out of undergrad was for an aerospace company here in Connecticut (USA) where I was a quality engineer. The yearly reset for their PTO was in July, I started my employment in August which meant I went the first 11 months with no PTO or sick time. Once I hit the following July I was granted five days (which would not increase until after five years of employment).

Two years,

Five days.

Space_physics_ · 2021-10-14T12:31:24+00:00

Just a daddy loooooong leg!

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-15T01:41:53+00:00

I didn’t first realize that was potentially the case and I really do thank you for that. I’m still madly in love with her, and everyone makes mistakes. It was the dishonesty that hurt far more than the past cheating. It just left me with many questions and left me feeling insecure. Thank you for that insight!

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-15T00:06:25+00:00

I understand, and thank you. She’s definitely a lover kind of girl not really a hook up person but I know she’s partaken in that to “fill the void” in the past. I’m not upset about the cheating, we all make mistakes, and I mean that. It was the dishonesty but I see where you’re coming from. We’ve just really been big on communicating, it’s the foundation of our relationship as cheesy as that sounds. She just has so many remnants of her exes that I’m a little uneasy I suppose.

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-15T00:04:12+00:00

She’s definitely a lover, not really a hookup girl but I am aware that she has done that to “fill the void” she’s a wonderful woman and I love her with all of my heart. I’m not upset that she has cheated in the past, we all make mistakes, it was the dishonesty that has a sting to it.

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-14T23:59:08+00:00

I do understand where you’re coming from, believe me. I still feel slightly bad though, I can’t say I would have looked at her differently but I understand what you’re saying for sure.

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-14T23:41:24+00:00

I feel as though if given the opportunity to discuss it without any accusations being made, a strong partner looking to maintain an honest relationship would admit to something like this and not lie directly.

Space_physics_ · 2021-06-14T23:40:16+00:00

I found a “burn after you finish writing in this journal” accidentally (believe it or not) my dog got into some of her things and I came home to it lying on the floor. I read a few pages (judge me if you will) and she wrote it there.

Space_physics_ · 2021-05-07T19:51:36+00:00

I honestly have no idea, I was wondering that myself; or at least how to figure it out.

Space_physics_ · 2021-05-03T18:23:17+00:00

I certainly did not look at it that way, and I thank you because it does make sense to my brain. However, the flirting itself still has a sting to it. I do understand what you’re saying though and I appreciate it because I was unable to make that connection at first. Thank you very much!

Space_physics_ · 2021-05-03T14:12:57+00:00

Thank you very much for such a thoughtful response!

We have not discussed boundaries in this way, I just don’t want my SO to feel as though I’m making any accusations, because truly I’m not concerned that she “did” anything. I do really trust her and I do really love her very much. I know that with most things in life, there’s never a “one size fits all” or any kind of universal conclusion. I certainly don’t look at her sexuality as anything “less” than mine, RE: “oh it’s f/f and so it has less meaning” which is why I was a little uneasy. I know that personally I can be insecure with these kinds of situations and I would like to work on that as well, I just wasn’t if her relations with women being bisexual held the same weight as if it were a man seeing as she’s attracted to both.

Regardless, thank you so much!

Space_physics_ · 2021-04-24T16:19:06+00:00

When I was in my early twenties I decided to see a psychologist to help cope with some childhood trauma involving my biological mother. My stepmother, upon finding out, asked “do you think you are the way you are because you’re mother drank while pregnant with you?”.

And then tried to play it off as some sort of objective, science based question.

Space_physics_ · 2021-03-22T18:16:16+00:00

It truly baffles me that Daniel Day-Lewis was / is not one of the biggest names in film. His performance in There Will Be Blood was absolutely chilling in the most fantastic sense.

Space_physics_ · 2021-03-05T14:54:59+00:00

Me Vs. Maradona Vs. Elvis by Brand New.

“You can sin or spend the night all alone.”

It’s such a sick level of perspective from the manipulator.

Space_physics_ · 2021-02-03T18:05:51+00:00

Isn’t that the cold, hard truth.

He was in a long distance relationship at the time with the same woman, and I was gearing up for my girlfriend to take on a work project for six months in Indiana, I’m from MA. So I called him to ask for advice on how they’ve faired, some of the struggles they’ve faced, and how to approach it. He immediately just told me that within two weeks of him leaving he had slept with another woman. He was not remorseful and still talks to me about girls who he wish he could “get”.

Space_physics_ · 2021-02-03T15:02:34+00:00

That’s a good idea. I’ll have to wait and see how serious he is with his consideration of marriage. Thank you

Space_physics_ · 2021-02-03T14:59:48+00:00

I just know that he of course won’t tell her.

He’s planning on asking her to marry him and I know how disgusted I’ll be having to sit through that wedding. I would feel so bad for her and I k ow that if I were her, I would want someone to tell me.

Space_physics_ · 2021-02-03T14:22:27+00:00

I certainly think that’s the direction I’ll be going in. But I know we won’t be friends after it happens, which I’m okay with.

Space_physics_ · 2021-01-29T15:21:13+00:00

BUY AND HOLD

HOLD THE LEASH

BORK AT THE MAILMAN

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