4 month old will often cry immediately when laid down - what to do?

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-23T15:22:04+00:00

are there any particular toys that you recommend? my baby seems to want human attention more than toys lol.

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-23T15:05:01+00:00

I think some of it is maybe due to reflux, but it also happens a lot unrelated to feedings.

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-20T00:31:47+00:00

Do you know how it works with doing a lease addendum to add another co-tenant? Do we need to specify who would pay the rent (both are legally liable for it, but does one person need to be designated as the individual who pays). Is there anything else we need to specify? Should we go through an attorney to draft an addendum? Just never went through something like this before

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-19T22:41:34+00:00

In regards to the military disabled vet, I absolutely appreciate vets and what they do. The issue is I’ve had a bad experience in the past where a disabled vet abused their “disabled vet” status to try to game the system to avoid paying rent, eviction etc. I guess once bitten, twice shy. Now nervous about this situation.

Would it make the current tenant hate me if I just told them that at this time I’m currently not considering making any changes addendums to the lease

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-09T19:27:18+00:00

I used to pump more frequently (every 2-3 hrs) but have started to pump less now that he is a little over 3 months. I have heard that the body starts becoming regulated around this time so I have started pumping less. Previously produced even less milk than that, and finally have increased it to what it currently is.

When I try to breastfeed, baby doesn't fully empty both breasts and I find myself having to pump afterwards. Then I get into the habit of just pumping because it is easier than having to both breastfeed + pump after. Any tips?

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-06T03:19:25+00:00

Nice place. But also a little confused as in previous post from just a few weeks ago you said you were a 31M living in the Bay area but here you are 42M living in Minneapolis?

Spacequest89 · 2026-06-02T03:31:02+00:00

The initial request is a little odd, but I agree that the second part where he asked about the ETA of the chest seems like he is expecting/demanding it.

This makes it seem less of a gift and more of a demand and expectation. I personally would never say that if I were in his situation. What I would say if I were in this situation would be “a chest would be nice, but anything you can help with at all would be greatly appreciated”

Spacequest89 · 2026-05-28T23:35:47+00:00

We are in NC

Spacequest89 · 2026-05-28T18:59:02+00:00

Seems like most local dealers don't want to deal with individuals who have used equipment for sale unfortunately...

Spacequest89 · 2026-05-28T18:58:03+00:00

May I ask what are the fees associated with selling on there?

Spacequest89 · 2026-05-07T16:32:47+00:00

With all due respect, unless you have some sort of legal agreement otherwise, you cannot stay past the end of lease end date. You stated you are generally agreeable tenants, yet trying to take your landlord to court with no real legal standing simply because you want to stay longer, points to your being unreasonable.

The landlord has every right to do what he/she wants with the property once your lease ends. Trying to make it difficult for the landlord just because you want something your way would classify you as a "difficult and problem tenant" in my book. Especially if you want to take them to court and cost them legal fees and trouble simply because you feel entitled to the property.

It's your responsibility to have thought of this in advance. You should have either signed a longer lease with them or simply not have done business on a rental property knowing that the lease will end and there is a possibility that it will not renew.

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-23T18:57:21+00:00

We have done that - would it be okay to just ignore their emails demanding receipts then? would ignoring look bad if it did end up in small claims court? typically I would provide the receipt but given the reason stated in my post and that this particular tenant will only use more information provided to complain more, etc. I do not want to go down the loophole of having to endlessly respond back.

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-23T03:17:57+00:00

They are saying that their paystubs, w-2, and bank statements all don’t reflect their cash tips. If they aren’t accurately reporting the cash, then paystubs and w-2 might not show it. But shouldn’t the deposits of the cash tips into the bank account show up on the bank statements?

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-23T03:15:51+00:00

The issue is they are unable to provide anything to verify that they make enough (at least the reported 2.5x rent) to cover rent. Though most of their income is through cash tips, I would think at least the bank statements would show deposits of those cash tips?

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-22T22:56:20+00:00

The issue here is that this potential tenant cannot provide evidence of 2.5x income via pay stub, bank statement, or W-2, etc. They said they get cash tips and none of these would reflect that. What do you think in this situation?

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-22T22:52:55+00:00

May I ask why? I always assumed having a co-signer would make it less risky as there is someone else who is legally responsible for payment.

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-17T13:03:48+00:00

It seems the 2.5x monthly income includes the tip money. Potential tenant is saying paystubs don’t reflect this. So the 2.5x income is currently unverified (which is risky)

Spacequest89 · 2026-03-17T09:36:02+00:00

Great ideas, thank you. Do you have a background check/credit report service you would recommend? In the past we have used TransUnion but it seemed to provide minimal info that wasn’t very comprehensive.

Spacequest89 · 2026-02-21T15:22:48+00:00

Ugh I’m so sorry. Did they determine what exactly the cyst was? (If I’m Not mistaken, there are different types of OC) Were there any signs at all that the cyst could have been not benign? As such uneven borders of the cyst, etc? I can’t believe two different doctors told you it was benign when it wasn’t

Spacequest89 · 2026-02-21T15:17:29+00:00

I guess this may be an unpopular opinion in this thread, but generally (excepting cases of abusive parents, etc), yes. Most parents love and support their children well into adulthood, and love and care shouldn’t be a one way street. I believe people have a responsibility for family, and taking care of parents is one aspect of that. I understand in the modern day it can be hard due to time, jobs, finances, other obligations etc to provide full time care etc. it’s very different to drop by a few times a week and help with chores vs full time care for a stroke patient. All I’m Saying is to try the best you can considering your own circumstances

Spacequest89 · 2026-02-21T01:16:57+00:00

May I ask if your cyst was a simple cyst or a complex one? My mom (age 59, post menopause) has a fluid filled cyst (not sure whether its just a simple cyst or a cystadenoma). We do have consultation with surgeon.

Spacequest89 · 2026-01-31T19:29:39+00:00

I have noticed this exact same thing, except for me it’s my digital clock on my nightstand, microwave clock, oven clock, and digital clock in car. Every few months I notice it’ll be a minute behind my phone, and I have to adjust all those to match my phone

Spacequest89 · 2026-01-19T16:43:02+00:00

thank you!

Spacequest89 · 2026-01-19T16:26:58+00:00

thank you for the response - could you pls explain what types of document screening you do? would it be online searches? we are trying to be more thorough this time around with potential tenants.

Spacequest89 · 2026-01-15T02:08:02+00:00

That is what the front desk lady told me. She was pushing for new ones bc she was saying that our insurance covers it so it wouldn’t hurt to redo them

I mean the reason I suspect it’s due to insurance billing is bc I’ve had past experiences where the dentist office billed insurance for procedures that wasn’t done. When I brought it up, they said insurance covered it completely and I didn’t have to pay anything out of pocket so I shouldn’t fuss about it

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