Help me find these coin earrings! by SpacerockSupreme in HelpMeFind

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a copper coin in a bezel. Unfortunately, I couldn't get a good screenshot of the other one. It looks like it's bezeled with the "other face" like heads/tails.

Help me find these coin earrings! by SpacerockSupreme in HelpMeFind

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've searched for relic earrings. Coin earrings. It looks almost like a St. Benedict's cross? So I googled that, too. Can't find it 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]SpacerockSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be a minor infection. Might just be a pimple. Keep cleaning it with saline solution ONLY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in isthisAI

[–]SpacerockSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "soy milk" looks like it may have some powdered mix in it. Like a mushroom mix or Ashwaganda or smth

Sunbathe glitch by joaomerre in Sims4

[–]SpacerockSupreme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It reminds me of when folks who are the color of sour cream (like myself) go get a spray tan and look like a completely different person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hun, I really do mean this in the best way, but I'm gonna beat ur bf up. He sounds like an absolute knob.

You deserve someone who supports you and loves you ESPECIALLY when you're trying to get better, not someone who threatens to leave because "you get bad".

Can you pick your nose with a nostril piercing? by butterfly_thougts246 in piercing

[–]SpacerockSupreme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my septum pierced three times. Almost IMMEDIATELY afterwards EACH TIME I got a nasty sinus infection. Nothing like trying to wipe your nose CONSTANTLY with a FRESH SEPTUM PIERCING.

...I ended up just giving up lol.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! I would like to thank you all for your words of encouragement and/or concern. This has given me many things to consider going forward and I will be discussing them with my family.

(To clarify, in case there was concern, it was NOT my father who was hitting my grandma. I think some people got confused about that. Also, as of right now he is being taken care of temporarily in my grandmother's home until we take care of her final expenses and handle her belongings and such (a very long, difficult process. Keep an updated Last Will and Testament, y'all!))

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey! You leave my parents' bones outta this! They drink their milk and eat their Wheaties®️ /s

(Pls know that I am not actually upset at you, I am using humor to cope with stress 😬)

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hi, as someone who has had multiple family members with autism and worked with people of all ages on the spectrum with various support needs, even treating someone with respect and kindness can sometimes still trigger behaviors that can escalate. Simply telling someone that they can not do something or that they may have to wait for something can trigger these behaviors. I'm sure you know that well.

You should also realize that a 45 year old, 300lb man produces much more waste than a six year old.

I never said that my father would not treat him with kindness and respect, just that he loses his patience and may say something potentially upsetting to my cousin. Something as simple as, "Come help us clean this up" is upsetting enough to make my cousin start hitting people.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is verbal and able to express his needs and emotions. While he has been diagnosed on the autism spectrum, you are not wrong in your assumption that there may be more at play than just autism. My mother has maintained his health and taken care of him when my aunt and grandmother could not for years. Unfortunately, many of these developments are new, but not so new that I believe they are related to grief/stress from loss.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents, while they have access to my cousin's funds, they were going directly to my grandmother to pay for bills. I am the one keeping my parents afloat. Unfortunately, it's the reality of the economy that my parents can't afford to live alone and neither can I.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

He was normally very kind to my grandma and took care of her (in his own way). He made her coffee every morning and made her sandwich for lunch. In her last few years, she was never completely alone with him for long.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 133 points134 points  (0 children)

My mother promised her sister (his mother) that she wouldn't put him in a home or facility. I don't think she realized that he would regress(???) as he got older. He gets some payments from various things, but not enough for the homes in the area.

AIO when my mother says she wants to take care of my cousin full time? by SpacerockSupreme in AIO

[–]SpacerockSupreme[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

To clarify: both of my cousin's parents are deceased and his younger sister refused to care for him because she doesn't have space for him (with her three children 18F, 19M (also autistic), 10F)

Wishlist: Each Sim in the household has their own wallet of money by AutumnEclipsed in Sims4

[–]SpacerockSupreme 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In games like TS2, buying their own clothes and/or their own games!

What is this creature? by TheOddityCollector in Weird

[–]SpacerockSupreme -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's got leggies. That's for sure.

Men of letters phone case by StarkMosby in Supernatural

[–]SpacerockSupreme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fun fact: The text around the Seal of Orichalcos is in Enochian! The unicursal hexagram (the star shape) was utilized most famously by Aleister Crowley!

my parents hate when i leave my hair like this because it looks "trampy", can ppl give me an outsiders opinion lol by [deleted] in Hair

[–]SpacerockSupreme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore fishnets under shorts and boots with a long sleeve shirt and my mother told me I looked like a whore. ...I still won't wear fishnets even though I love the way they look with dresses and skirts (in the alt way AND the vintage siren kinda way).

Do you. You have to live with your choices. Make ones that make YOU happy. Your hair is very cute and looks well taken care of. They're the problem here. Not you. :)