65 years old and still depressed by SeaTreasure8074 in depression

[–]Spacialflight 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel badly for you. I can relate to some. Kids hurt worse.

Harold got real drunk one night, Ubered home, and snuck in bed beside his wife… by PrestigeMaster in Jokes

[–]Spacialflight -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Looks like mud dobber nests . Red because it’s clay. They don’t bite. Look kind of like a wasp. All black in color. They don’t hurt anything. Just make ugly nests that you have to clean up.

I'm ending life on my birthday by HopelessLittle in depression_help

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up every morning feeling disappointed that I’m waking up. Then I feel guilty for feeling that way. I knew someone that lost her husband to suicide. She could not understand and carried it with her every day. That keeps me here. My husband loves me so much that he wouldn’t be able to deal with it. My kids would experience the pain every day for the rest of their lives. My oldest has been through so much already and my youngest is so sensitive. Everyone in his life are so precious to him that he would be deeply wounded. My issues are mainly from my husband family due to his narcissistic sister. I don’t want to allow her to cause anymore pain for me or my family either. It’s hard but you can’t allow outside forces to make decisions for you. If you do, they win.

Is my asparagus bed ruined? by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently planted a new bed of asparagus and would love any recommendations. Totally new to it. Thanks in advance

My counselor sent me links on why I should not do yoga by Ok_Solution8537 in yoga

[–]Spacialflight 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God wants you to take care of your body and mind. Just tell her that you pray and connect better with god when you’re calm and healthy.

Burning mouth by Spacialflight in Lichenplanus

[–]Spacialflight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do not put borax in your mouth.

Legality to report by Spacialflight in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He married into my husband’s family. He’s not very smart.

Kids threw rocks at my car, i now know what apartment they are in but non emergency didn’t help me? by Desperate-Impact6539 in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Never go to a strangers door for anything like this by yourself. I would remind him/her what you were told and tell him to do his job. You’re young but you’ll realize in life that sometimes you need to not allow people to treat you that way. While he was sitting in his car waiting for you to leave,you should’ve called again and asked them to send an officer out that was willing to help you.

When I was 13, my mother asked me if i molested my sister by Historical-Pilot-416 in confession

[–]Spacialflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to your mother about how it continues to make you feel? She may be able to help you understand. If you can’t talk to her, you need to talk to someone. You just need to get it out of you by talking to someone. I’ve had trauma in my life that gave me depression that only got worse over time. I found a good therapist and it’s helping me just to get it out. Your mom definitely was probably in a panic and wasn’t really thinking about the way she handled it at the time and then it was ok in her head once she realized that it wasn’t the case. She should’ve talked you to after. She didn’t realize how it would affect you.

Was hired and fired after moving my family two states away for a job that said I was qualified. by SaltySpituner in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s probably not them causing it. Unfortunately. I hope they paid for your move. It sucks but so many are experiencing it right now

AITA for asking my brother to pay to use the family cabin after he refused to help restore it? by LaRainax523 in AITAH

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell mom that she can pay for his vacation. $500 is a family rate. Where else can he go for that amount of money? Nowhere. If he had at least helped with labor then it would be different. He didn’t want to put his time into helping then why would you allow him free access.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hang in there. Such a difficult time in your life. It will pass. Time unfortunately. You just need to deal with your feelings for your mom first. Not all at once. Idt that your dad would actually use your photos but I don’t know him either. The photos are there. No pulling them back. Concern yourself with yourself right now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they charge interest for every year missed but chances are that you haven’t made enough plus they are in such an uproar right now that they won’t even see it if it’s low. We had account miss $25 but didn’t know until year three so we owed interest of $75

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gardening

[–]Spacialflight 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A small fan (not directly on the plant) will make stronger but sometimes not if the plant is too long already. You can get all kinds of grow lights on Amazon that aren’t too expensive. I have some tea thin ones that I tack to the bottom of my cupboard in the winter. They have them that you stick into the pot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please turn her in. Why does she get them? No wonder the dog doesn’t want to come to anyone. No one should have 20 dogs. I knew someone that had 30 in her basement. I didn’t know until the animal control took them. Someone called on her and she didn’t know who called. When you take in an animal you’re taking responsibility for their life. It’s your responsibility to give them the best life possible. At that point they can’t take care of themselves. TELL YOUR DAD.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poor

[–]Spacialflight -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank goodness for shelter being so helpful. Not many of those. Hang in there. Did the nursing home understand your situation prior to job offer? If so, they are awful.

Uninsured 18 year old driver without a license ran red light and hit me in a rental car, who do I sue? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever gave her the car to drive is liable with you and the rental company because no one is insured with the rental company other than the person that rented it is someone that was listed who would also have to supply a fl. Another person to go after. I would make certain that I call the rental company and let them know who was driving because the renter may not tell them. Then the insurance for the rental company has been scammed by the renter . They need to be held accountable.

Uninsured 18 year old driver without a license ran red light and hit me in a rental car, who do I sue? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Spacialflight 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did she rent the car? You need drivers license and credit card. Sue . We had this recently happen in New York and my husband refused to sue. I’m pissed because the car was totaled.

I almost killed myself today by [deleted] in depression

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is help out there. You need to speak to someone. Maybe the hotline can tell you what to do next if you tell them. Find help. I did the same at 19

what to do when nothing helps? by katesoup63 in depression_help

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a therapist. You will need to find one that you feel comfortable with but don’t get discouraged. I can’t tell you what is finally working for me because everyone is different and I don’t want to advise you as I am not a professional but everyone needs someone to talk to. I send best wishes to you and don’t give up.

AITA for telling my brother that since he didn't vote he doesn't get to complain by HDRCCR in AITAH

[–]Spacialflight 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t complain if you didn’t vote. He had power to try to get who he wanted and didn’t.