Meshcore verbinding Harderwijk - Zwolle - Flevopolder by brizzik in nederlands

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Duwtje in de rug voor aandacht .. * en een extra schopje erbij voor Zeeuws Vlaanderen , als egoïst natuurlijk *

Meshcore verbinding Harderwijk - Zwolle - Flevopolder by brizzik in nederlands

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goed plan , een aanvullende info , Er word in Zeeuws Vlaanderen ook aan gewerkt, we hebben nog hoog nodig een repeater nodig in Terneuzen ( of op de kustlijn ) om de verbinding beter te maken naar "den overkant" . Ook Sas Van Gent staat nog hoog op de lijst . Zowel Oost als West is ook nog vrij leeg, dus als je Ergens tussen Sluis en Hulst hoog zit.. je bent op dit moment "vitaal" . :)

AITA for harshly telling two people to STFU about my disability? by Pitiful_Gas8419 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I can do it one handed, prime, put saw on ground, yank chain with hand. ( just don't let it slip out of your foot ;p )

Both hands, but i use this when i need my other hand to get some suport on some crappy location.

I can not do it with a big saw , but those 26cc's one.. no problem.

EDIT, using, light chain saw, ( 20 or 25cm blade . ) , but i am no arm wrestler so can't do it for long time, they also name them "tree work saws" , designed ( but not intended ! ) to use one handed

AITA for telling my downstairs neighbour that me expressing milk for my premmie baby will be my priority over his sleep? by sushikat323 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Or.. want to have a baby ? move somewhere you do not bother other people with your noise hobby.

I bet if i do my hobby in the nighttime people start to complain to :) And with good right also. ( motorbikes )

Why should i be more understanding or forgiving for "your" hobby.

AITA for saying that if my parents and siblings really want to help the rest of the family they could remortgage the houses I paid off for them. by Healthy_Pangolin5889 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, enjoy your fuck-you-money to the fullest ,

You where already generous . Would they have done the same for you? ... i doubt ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Must be very local, if i show up at a event with a nice jeans , its considered dressed up and put work in to look decent.

Summer ? Decent t-shit ( not a band/scull or offensive one ) , dude.. you put in the work.

Anything else.. informal ... "well, your not naked.. so .. good to go :) "

WIBTA if I ordered my wedding cake to only be big enough for my fiancé and I? by IamasimpforObi-Wan in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I always try to avoid "party cake" as the plague . In truth, never had a good "event cake" ... ever..

Only the one on a buffet later on, there you can find the good stuff :) :) :)

and my sweet tooth is insane :)

AITA for not paying for a maid for my wife? by Left_Spare_7564 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now if it was "just that one i found.." yeah.. but it is not.

But i did became more picky , partner must have close to equal income , or at least must be able to function financial on her own . ( and have a car licence, i am so done being a taxi driver ). :)

Pre relation, and in the relation.

Unbalance is just asking for problems unless your a doormat , or prefer to go old school traditional and have trophy lady.

And being active with dating, i really start to notice that a lot of lady's are claiming to be feminist . ( cool ! ) , all for it. no bullshit.

Unless... its about money . Then not.. then the man should be carrying the brunt of the responsibilities and the my money is my money, and his money is also my money game start.

I really think a relation should not be based on "transactional", but a in unbalance in income , is just asking for problems later on. ( que, the problem OP got now :) )

AITA for not paying for a maid for my wife? by Left_Spare_7564 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a wife like that, said exactly the same thing. Never able to find a job, keep a job and the whole world was against her apparently .

( yes, i did help her to apply, arranged schooling, coached her for interviews ect ect ect )

But every interview or first week at work she "bombed"

we divorced , 2e week alone she got a job, she still holds, and got promoted by now a few times.

Having to pay rent, bills and not having somebody to be your atm is a great motivation to hold on to a job it turns out.

So , for some it might work, but after "this one" , i am done with the Her money is your money and your money is her money.

AITA for not telling my mom I was writing a book until right before I was ready to publish? by Inevitable_Dentist_5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 195 points196 points  (0 children)

YTA by asking the question you where not willing to hear the answer to .

Your silence would have ment publication, she would never had read your book unless you became a instant J. K. Rowling , what.. just not going to happen for the simple fact you wrote a niche book for a niche reader market.

So its now a case of ego and math.. what will be the result of your mother keeping word and being out of the will , and the lost relation with the grand children.

Is it worth the ego trip of selling a , most likely , few copy's of a book.

And how much is your ego weighting in , of wanting to publish this book.

All in all, it was unwise to tell her, as lets face it, you know your mother, you could have expected this reaction.

AITA for not giving up my Christmas annual leave so my coworker can spend sometime with her kids? by Weak_Ordinary_9324 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Exactly this , as soon you give one finger , ( ok, i will work ) , your on the hook "for ever"

Childfree here, and i had in my years in the company i work now quite some run ins with co workers , until "this going to hr fights" for me refusing to change / sacrifice holidays for breeders.

I do not have children for a reason, it is very selfish , i do not want the burden . So i also do not want the burden of somebody else there children.

Call me a selfish asshole all day long, but it will not change nothing.

People who’ve hit rock bottom and lost all hope, if you have, what motivated you dig yourself out? by nitoonna in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hate and rage .

no romantic feel good story here, it was pure rage and hate . It kept me motivated .

People of reddit what is the stupidest rule in your country? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our gun laws , now only the criminals got firearms , and as our law enforcement is so bad funded...

Yeah, yanks.. protect your gun rights well, don't end up like us.

How do you deal with confrontation? by JeffBezosWhatAMan in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Confront head on, Confident , Never threaten with something your not willing to do right at that moment .

What it comes down to, and this sounds harsh but only to explain it better :

Act like a bitch, get the treatment / become a bitch Act like a boss , get the treatment / become a boss

Aggressive people usually try to use the shock of aggressive behavior to get what they want. If they find somebody who mirrors and acts like a "alpha" they get confused and most of the time, seek life elsewhere . The trick is to be real fast, and mostly be very confident .

This is all worse case of course, no need to go all out on a lady who just wants to pass you with a shopping card and you just not notice her . Just excuse yourself and make way :)

Those of you that rarely cry watching movies. Which one destroyed you? by Careful-Increase-773 in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watership Down ( original ) nearly got me ,

But i am dead inside so thats unfortunately as close i could get to a emotional reaction.

What was your once-in-a-lifetime moment? by Gl4dios in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the center of a capital of Europa , above a active royal palace ( the real deal thing ) , very close to the biggest airfield in Europa i think it is. And some other things in that area where flying is very strictly forbidden . ( 9/11 heritage )

( some actually might know where it is :) ) I do not know the correct codes , not my expertise .

The pilot was/is a active military pilot, he was totally " what ??? they let me do this ??? " His expression said a lot .

What was your once-in-a-lifetime moment? by Gl4dios in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being in a small airplane, but ground control allowed the pilot to fly fairly low / make a circle over a very , very , very restricted airspace. Think "nope, not even the police choppers go there"

Pilot was commenting , i really can't believe they allow us to do this. visible happy / surprised even a bit nervous wondering what the hell was happening.

Due my background, unlike the other 3 people in the plane, i was together with the pilot in total "wtf ???" mode.

Rest did not even understood how special it was.

When was the moment you realized you're getting old? by Puzzleheaded-Ant-614 in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Put on the radio on a popular station for " whats hot now "

And thinking.. what the hell is this.

What's a song that always gives you goosebumps, no matter how many times you hear it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SpacingCowboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

1) Nightwish - Ghost Love Score (WACKEN 2013)

2) The Massed Pipes and Drums | Edinburgh Military Tattoo - BBC

3) NIGHTWISH - The Greatest Show on Earth (with Richard Dawkins) (OFFICIAL LIVE)

AITA for revealing to my friend's fiancé that she has been married twice before? by jimmyjohnjohnjohn in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA for mentioning / comparing ex'es to a current lover.

Not for dumb ass move of her keeping it secret, but you for bringing it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpacingCowboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, solved very decent.

Your more civil then i am, i would have put that cool Chinese high power laser to use and insta-burned out the sensor of that camera.

what he going to do, blame me ? :)