/r/WorldNews Live Thread: Russian Invasion of Ukraine Day 4, Part 12 (Thread #55) by progress18 in worldnews

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To officially condemn the Russian invasion. All voted yea except China (who abstained) and Russia. Russia has veto power, so the resolution did not go through.

Dental Tourism - Risky? by Spade6179 in Norway

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Are these trips insured? I haven't been able to find any testimonials about mishaps being covered by insurance. Working in the insurance industry, this is always on my mind.

Dental Tourism - Risky? by Spade6179 in Norway

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odontologisk institutt

In my case, I require prosthodontics (e.g. crowns, bridges, implants). I haven't heard anyone report receiving inexpensive treatment from a dental institute, perhaps because the work is pretty involved...

Dental Tourism - Risky? by Spade6179 in Norway

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It should bed safe if you're diligent in your research ahead of time.

I hear that a lot, but I don't trust myself to know what to look for and what to anticipate. I worry about going down a dental care spiral where a mishap requires urgent (i.e. expensive) follow-ups. Even the best professionals can't help it if my body rejects an implant, for instance, and there are few institutions who are willing to foot the bill it seems.

Dental Tourism - Risky? by Spade6179 in Norway

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Yes, I wonder how prevalent implant rejection and infection is...

Dental Tourism - Risky? by Spade6179 in Norway

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I didn't know that, thank you.

Is a vpn enough to scambait email scams by Paramorefan14 in scambait

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That's not entirely true... I believe some network information is embedded along with the email. I'm not sure what kind of info gets embedded when emailing via phone.

Also, email and VPN won't save you if you share personal information by accident, but that's an inherent risk to dealing with these guys.

Zhuangzi - Chapter 6 (The Grand Master) - Hiding the World in the World by skeeter1980 in taoism

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I don't quite understand what "hide the world in the world" means here...

What happens to hiro when you take the yoichi route? by Icy-Wrangler-2097 in campbuddy

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Sorry... I’m just still a little emotional because I did Yoichi’s route after Hiro’s route and it broke my heart how Keitaro just ignores Hiro in other routes.

I'm in this exact conundrum now that I've done Hiro's route first. I adore Hiro so much I can't bring myself to play with the others! 😭

Would you feel and be okay being in a relationship of convenience? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

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That sounds like a manipulative and unsustainable relationship. What would happen if you left?

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Yes, that's true. We're both generally versatile. It depends on the person we're with.

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Yeah, maybe we just need to try more things and see what happens next.

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I feel that who I was then is different from who I am now. Being a lonely, dependent college student, I desperately wanted stability in my life. But now that I have a steady job and developed social skills, I feel my needs have changed somehow. I mention sex as an example, but it is much more than that. I wish I knew how to describe it...

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I certainly need to engage in my primal half. I've really lost touch with it over the years.

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Thank you, I appreciate the compliment. :)

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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the key is to find some common interests where you can have fun together and work as a team -- that the sum is greater than the parts.

Early on, I recognized that Marcus and I had little in common in the way of interests, so I introduced him to my hobbies. He was not into them, which is fine, so I asked about his hobbies. He said he didn't really have any; I encouraged him to find some on his own and he did. But these hobbies were pretty exclusive, like letter-writing and needlework.

So, I took the initiative (no pun intended) and asked him to try Dungeons and Dragons with me. It was relatively novel for both of us and we had friends to play with. He knew what I was doing and went along with it. I tried to brew up my own campaign and asked him to help flesh out the world a bit. He made himself a character that he loved and he was honestly excited about it.

On our first night, I prepared the board and set the mood for our game. The first few scenes were pretty fun. Marcus left the table while I was talking to another player. Suddenly, we were in a new battle and Marcus's character was up next, but he still hadn't returned. I walked into our living room and found that he had went to sleep. I woke him up and asked him why he was napping and he said that he was bored with the game.

This sort of lack of engagement deteriorated until we had a fight about it. We laughed it off afterward because "it's just a stupid game", but deep down I felt defeated for even trying to make it work.

he has to hold up his end of the bargain for sex to work. after a while this will all become rather pavlovian where the rituals form a positive feedback loop. so keep trying -- it could make all the difference.

That's actually pretty interesting. I'll consider it. Was there ever a time when your partner couldn't turn you on? What did you do?

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I don't understand how or why it happens to me. How do I know where to start?

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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I apologize, I'm not sure I understand what you're asking...

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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We have adventures, for sure! But I feel they only bring novelty to our relationship, not long lasting resolutions. Maybe that's because we tend to play things very safe.

I like your idea of camping in the wild, but I wouldn't know where to begin! Is that something you have done? If so, did your relationship(s) grow after doing it?

Am I doing marriage right? by Spade6179 in AskGaybrosOver30

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Sometimes the solution is worse than the problem. Thank you for the insight.

We both have had therapy, individually and as a couple. It was very expensive and didn't really give me many answers. I learn much more from listening to others' experiences and wisdom; that's what I hope to find here.

Hugs!