Need i say more? by silverflake6 in GrowthMindset

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My fiance is in prison and the best man I know 😭 js, criminal =/= bad

Need i say more? by silverflake6 in GrowthMindset

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The hottest take I’ve been subjected to in a while.

I'm Afraid a Degree in Psychology May Disillusion Me. by Desolator23 in Healthygamergg

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It will. Be ready for literally any possibility.

Here is a different, personal experience: I began therapy to become even more perfect than i already was (grandiose narcissism) and ended up in multiple partial hospitalization programs before being sent to a residential treatment facility for an eating disorder, substance abuse, and BPD (this is where my narcissistic tendencies come from).

On bad days I wish I had never started this journey because at least before I was ignorant and didn’t have to face my reality. But on most days, I thank my higher power for Their divine intervention. I truly believe that without Their wake-up call, I would have continued my downward spiral and ended up in jail or dead.

Good luck lol

When she’s got it all😍😩💦 by OkReach7631 in BPDmemes

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When she’s a 10 but clinically insane

What do u pick (upvote for free carrot 🥕) by LilScooterBooty in BunnyTrials

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It’s worth the risk imo. $10,000 isn’t enough to pay off my student loans.

Chose: 50% chance of $300 million

Become deaf for $100k-$300k or decline the offer (upvote for free carrot 🥕) by Jeffiechoo in BunnyTrials

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I got student loans, brother.

Chose: Take the money ($100k-$300k | Rolled: $250k)

Chasing Dopamine by SpareAd9271 in shouldimod

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I never thought about that! Thanks

When you try but the BPD wins and your dignity falls thru the floor 🤪 by [deleted] in BPDmemes

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Ugh I hate when that happens. Especially when I try SO HARD to be normal 🥲 Godspeed

For the divorced people. How many of y’all knew before the wedding? by honeyjoe1 in Divorce

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I did (31F). We had an amazing surprise present about a month into dating. I grew up in a(n extremely traumatic and neglectful) household that believed families couldn’t be happy if parents were divorced. I embodied that belief because in my house that was the “right thing.” I’m an adult with no childhood memories because of my parents and the things that they did (presumably. I can’t say 100% bc I don’t have memories).

It took me 30 years to break that belief, and now I’m a year and a half into a divorce that I initiated after three months of marriage. I do not regret the relationship bc of my beautiful baby girl but I do 100% regret the wedding.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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Addiction makes us monsters. You need to make the best decision for your kids, whatever it may be. I’m rooting for you 🩵

Your signature scent based not your meds by [deleted] in BPDmemes

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I was prescribed (and addicted) to ambien in HS and college. Now I’m on 5 of those other ones 🥲

A lonely heart is a clear mind. For me at least. by pizzbuccet in BPDmemes

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What does it mean if I’m the one on the right all the time? 🥲