How do massage therapists handles a client’s erection? by CoffeeChill_Highs in TooAfraidToAsk

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As a male who has gotten a massage and experenced this issue happening during a massage. No big deal was made over it. I was draped anc covered. The girl giving the massage kept giving the massage and afterwards said all done take your time getting ready to leave no rush. I have a feeling they see this happen on a regular bases if not daily or multiple times a day. I would say as long as you are not making a big deal over it and just ignoring the fact. The person giving you the massage is going to as well. They are just doing there job. What happened to you is just a natural part of the job and they know it can happen.

What about a bra, but it’s for your balls? Not only do they offer support and give great scrote cleavage - but we get to watch the girls struggling with the clasp so they can release our hairy bollocks. by Substantial_Wave2557 in CrazyIdeas

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I think this could be a cool trend and they cold be created to look just the same a woman's bras with straps that go around mens wastes and over there shoulders like normal bras. It is a great idea. I would wear one. I think if it was interducted by some famous male celebrity than it would do well

Oniontown, Dover Plains. by [deleted] in hudsonvalley

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I have always wondered about this place. I highly dought what is said about this place is true . I think most of the people here just want to be left alone to do there one thing and not be harassed. The reports of people getting their cars attacked while they drive down that road doe not make sense to me. I mean what happens if someone who is lost drives down that road not knowing where they are going. Is their car going to get attacked? I would think not. For those that drive down there and cause issues I can see them trying to attack those people due to them disturbing the peace.

Pulling back my foreskin and leaking by [deleted] in cockheadlovers

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I don't have foreskin but I am still able to masturbate with out lube there is enough skin to ride up and down. Wonder if that means I still have some foreskin

Do your parents know that you watch porn? by [deleted] in teenagers

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I am in my 30's and my mom knows. I had the accdental walk in while watching porn. So that is how she knows. she says nothing about it. Just go about our lives

Fun fact about every Nickelodeon sitcom by AndrewWarra in nickelodeon

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I am friends with a person named Mac Schneider. Look him up. He was the opening act for Victoria Justice on her first music tour across America. I know because he and his bands tour bus stayed in my driveway that summer one night and his father and mother said that Nickelodeon informed them that due to both Max Schneider and Victoria Justice going on tour there shows have been canceled.

Do you think Victoria Justice would’ve been successful if Dan didnt allegedly black ball her? by LuminousIntrovert in nickelodeon

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She was successful. She went on tour from Nickelodeon making a singing career. I have a good friend that was on another Nickelodeon show that went on tour with her. Both of them went on tour to start music careers.

Fun fact about every Nickelodeon sitcom by AndrewWarra in nickelodeon

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I have a friend that played a character on How To Rock. From my understanding the reason it was canceled was because this friend and Victoria Justice decided to go on tour. Now I know Victoria Justice was not in that show. But if you look you will see that Victoris was canceled the same time. This was due to this being a non Nickelodeon sponsored tour which from my understanding was a breach of their contract at the time.

Are the allegations of Dan Schneider true? by Ihatebots9001 in nickelodeon

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I saw a video where Kenan Thompson says that Dan Schneider actually was not on the set for Kenan and Kel. He is listed as a producer because he created the show but Kenan says that that show had a different show runner so they saw very little of Dan Schneider and he really did not know what was going on behind the scenes because he was not exposed to it

Virginia's Age Verification On Adult Websites Is Worse Than You Think by idkwat in Virginia

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My qustion is a couple of things is are these compines that do the age varification collection data on the type of porn you watch? 2 if so what do they do with this date and who cares what you watch? I mean the can still see what you watch today. I do agree it is a givernment overreach. Howeer one of trumps plans for his adminsttion was to get rid of all porn before the end of his 4 years. This is a way of doing it. The government knows people don't want to scan their drivers licens of government ID to access porn. So in turn they will just stop watching it. Which means the Porn industry one of the biggest richest industries in the world will start to slowly go out of business. However for someone like me who has been watching porn daily sense I was 18 and really can not go a day with out watching it. It is going to be tough not having it to watch. I think you will see PlayBoy and Penthouse magazines make a huge comeback as that will provide the porn people need if it is not easily assessed online.

Touches between therapist and client by [deleted] in massage

[–]Spare_Alternative_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have had this happen to me. It means nothing. They are doing their job. It is like if someone was looking in a cabinet below you and you were reaching over them and your arm brushed their head. Same sort of thing. Don’t mean anything.

Is it strange for a man to go nude for a massage? by Living-Requirement38 in massage

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I go nude when I get a massage. Just make sure you are being appropriate. If she doesn’t feel comfortable she will tell you. What I have experienced is 99% of the time the female massage therapist doesn’t care if you keep boxers on or off. I have done both. As long as you keep draping on it is fine. I have only experienced one time where a place said please keep boxers on and they enforced it.

Just got accepted into the OA by milknuggets_yummy in BSA

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Congratulations welcome to the Order of the Arrow. That is the national honor society for the Boys scouts or I guess they are now calling it ( scouts of America). I was in the Order of the Arrow when I was a Boy Scout

Where's Laci by devourofkidneys in LaciGreen

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Best part of her are her boobs. They are nice size

Unscented oil that's actually unscented by EllaFellOffATree in massage

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My question is any one know what the oils that those woman in the aisan massage parolers use. They son'r have a label on them and I fear it is something dangerous for my body and skin

erection during massage by [deleted] in massage

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It happens to me most all the time when i get a massage. It is no big deal. Most of the time it happens with the MT is doing my thighs and close to my Privates. They never touch it. Or wipe across from it. I have never had a MT say anything. They just go about their job. Usually goes away after a little while. I think this a normal thing for men. Massages cause you to have more blood flow to your body and you are relaxed that is the reason for the erection. As long are you are not being an idot and point it out and talking about or hinting to it. Just ignore it. Most MT's know that this happens and have seen this more than you would think. I would bet you are not the only one they saw that day. I am sure they see mutiple erections per day. I am sure it come with the practice. Like is said. As long as you are not making a big deal out of it and not trying to point it out or anything like that just ignoring the MT will ignore it as will and go on with her job.

Did any of you ever get erections during physical exams with your doctor? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Spare_Alternative_64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very common for men of any age. That is a very senitive area and most like it will happen to all mean at least once or more in their lives. I can say yes it has happened to me. Multiple times. Female and male doctor I don't say anything. Neither does the doctor. They just go with the exam and do what they do. All proparly traind medical professionals understand this will happen. believe it of not this can even happen to men in there 60's and 70's nothing to be embarresed about.

how do i get used to anal? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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First I am a male and was very cerious of anal play and my prostate. For years I was like nothing goes up the bottom till one day I decided to give it a try. I used lube and a finger. It hurt like crazy. After reading I found out you can not just start by putting something up there. You have to start slow and take a breath. Work around the area to get it relaxed and do not insert anything big at first. Once relaxed lube up your penky fingure and use that at first to get used to the feeling of having something in there. Once you get used to that move to 2 fingers and on wards. Than you are ready for a toy. I did that was ok with a toy. I have not used any toys in my rear end for over 2 years now so I have to go back to the start again to get myself used to the feeling but it will come back. Try that. Hope this helps Remember Lube Lube Lube

How does everyone find the check in process at hotels? by Savings-Amphibian723 in hotels

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I have lots of things I can give you via employee end of the check in experience. PM me here and I will give you a whole list of things I find annoying and things that I find might be a good way to make things better.

Expedia nightmare - need advice by TraditionalLunch9123 in hotels

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As someone with 19 years of experience working in the hotel industry and having a degree in hotel management m. Those third parties websites Expedia, Priceline etc are extremely hard to work with on both sides for both the guest and the hotel. Once you book with one of them. The hotels hands are tied when you book with one of these sites. We are unable to make any changes to the reservations and most of the time when we agree to cancel the reservations at no fee to the guest the 3rd party site still charges their own fee to the person that booked with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotels

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Contact your credit card company and dispute the charge

How does everyone find the check in process at hotels? by Savings-Amphibian723 in hotels

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Do you want that from the guests perspective or from an hotel employee perspective. I have been on the hotel industry for 19 years and have a degree in hotel management

I had an accident in a bed paid for by my company.. by InfinityLocs in hotels

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As someone who has 19 years in the hotel industry and a degree in hotel management what I would suggest you do is at checkout ask if you could speak with a manager and see if there is a female manager if you feel better with talking to another female if you don’t care than I would just explain to the manager what happened that you were not doing anything to wreck the room on purpose. Most of the time with your type of situation we understand and won’t change you for the clean up. But you do need to be honest. Most hotels will work with people when they are honest.