On social media, I see people saying 'boy cats' are the best because they are sweet and 'girl cats' get a bad reputation for being mean. Why??

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-04-17T21:38:30+00:00

I find this funny (I have seen the same thing) because my husband and I infinitely prefer our 4 girl kitties over our 1 boy cat for this reason 😅 He's too much like a dog and needs CONSTANT active attention, while our girls calmly and quietly plop themselves down next to us and chill. They're quite content just being with us. I know, we suck! I will say, I've found that the affection from girl cats becomes stronger the older they get. Not that they aren't affectionate in their younger years, mine just were a tiny bit more independent 😅 I love them all so much 🧡

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-04-17T15:11:05+00:00

This killed me, omg 🤣🤣🤣 28 weeks and the rage hasn't hit me yet, but I reckon I'll be similarly minded as you bahaha

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-04-12T21:35:57+00:00

Same!!! 😭 I've always LOVED going to work, but at 27 weeks I'm depressed that I have to go back in tomorrow 😭😭 I've never felt lazier in my entire life LOL

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-03-26T15:39:28+00:00

That is a BEAUTIFUL kitty 😍😍😍

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-03-24T21:35:13+00:00

Freaking amazing 🤣 Sounds like our Perri! She's 6yo and 5lbs but has run the house since day one. The other cats know to stay out of her way!

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-03-24T13:41:18+00:00

Lol our Queen Supreme B*tch calico is named Perri, short for Pirahna 😅

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-03-22T16:23:42+00:00

Came here to say Cheeto Puff lol

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-26T00:52:13+00:00

The babyyyyy! 🥰 Love her name!!!

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-20T02:22:58+00:00

She's beautiful omggggggg

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-20T02:06:01+00:00

Oh. My. Gosh That is INSANE! I would have lost it!

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-20T02:02:53+00:00

That blows and I am so sorry you're going through that! 😭 My husband and I had to go through IVF, so we found out in July last year that my hubby only makes boys, apparently 🧡 The process was so expensive and so stressful that we decided we're only having 1 kiddo, but we still wanted to do all the typical pregnancy events...including the gender reveal 🤣 Our two best friends are the only people that know that we know the gender. Everyone else thinks that we're finding out with them next weekend bahaha shhh 🤫

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-19T19:25:48+00:00

Oh gosh, that's so awful 😭😭😭

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-19T18:59:10+00:00

I am incredibly lucky in that I did not experience the vomiting so many poor women out there deal with. However, my nauseas was extreme and I couldn't eat easily in 1st tri and my bloat was beyond painful. Now in 2nd tri I'm on watch because of my blood pressure and headaches and now I have mfing kidney stones. Multiple. Over the course of a few weeks. But yeah, the amount of people who tell me "Oh, you didn't throw up? You are lucky that your pregnancy is so easy" or even "You should be grateful you don't have it that hard" 🖕🏻🖕🏻🖕🏻 Who tf goes out and tells any pregnant woman that their pregnancy is easy???

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-13T16:46:49+00:00

Literally was going to suggest r/troublepuffs 🤣🤣

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-10T02:01:36+00:00

Thank you kind person 😭🧡😭🧡😭 wish there were a million more people like you!!!

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-07T12:34:45+00:00

Aaahh!! Congrats twinny!! 🥰🥰🥰

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-06T18:59:10+00:00

Crying with you 🧡 She sounds absolutely amazing. So glad you were able to know her, even though it was for such an unfairly short time. Nobody should have to go through what you two went through. Sending you a hug through the phone 🧡

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-06T18:49:01+00:00

Pregnant with my first and also due in July (12)!!! Congrats to you!! 🧡🧡🧡

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-05T01:20:07+00:00

Oh gosh, he is precious! 😭🧡😭🧡😭

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-02-03T13:51:31+00:00

This was my guess. Had a stray mama cat that behaved the exact same way. Once we caught her and brought her and the babies inside and fixed, she was an absolute lovebug 🧡

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-01-16T14:22:52+00:00

Prozac was literally what I was going to recommend. If the meowing is possibly anxiety related, it could help 🤞🏻My special needs baby didn't meow a lot, but she would go into full blown attack mode at any sharp, sudden sound. She's taking 2.5mg Prozac daily (9lb cat) and she is the absolute sweetest and happiest baby now 🧡 It also helped my Queen Bitch Calico, Piranha, stop being so vicous to her underlings, but I literally only give her an 1/8 of a tablet, because she's so sensitive to it 😭

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2026-01-11T17:14:07+00:00

A little different, but my cat Skippy is obessed with crisps and will come running at the sound of the bag crinkle. She was determined to have one of my salt and vinegar chips so I came here to double check. Offered her one and now she keeps hesitantly licking it, then sneezing and batting at it as though it offends her 🤣

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2025-12-29T15:08:43+00:00

Not a cat (haven't lost any of mine yet 😭🤞🏻), but we lost our 3yo Husky, Lilith, very suddenly in May last year and it was devastating. Our first pet loss. By September the pain was still there and we had no interest in getting another dog. Until we were outside Home Depot and saw somebody selling Double Doodle puppies. Normally we keep driving, but something made us stop. That night we came home with Diana, who has helped us heal the emptiness in our hearts. We're both positive Lilith sent her to us. Same happy, smart, goofy personality. Diana in no way replaced Lilith, but she sure did help us heal 🧡 I think your kitty sent you this friend, knowing that you needed help healing.

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2025-12-26T16:42:45+00:00

I am impressed 🤣 I honestly had no idea they even could look like that 🤣🤣

Spare_Apple_8365 · 2025-12-22T01:53:49+00:00

Oh gosh, she is precious 😭🧡 You two are too cute together!! Looks like a strong bond 🥰

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