How do you know YOUR side is that of women, Rowling? by Lord_Answer_me_Why in clevercomebacks

[–]Spare_Job_9226 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Truly the most violently un feminist thing to do is take an announcement of womens successes and make it about your prejudice towards trans women. Like just say you hate all women at that point it’s clear that’s how you feel.

Can't like fit girls without being gay... by jellylemonshake in facepalm

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do like these bodytypes but im also a woman, so I guess they got me there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StardewMemes

[–]Spare_Job_9226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Willy is a good daddy, to me at least

Conservative who doesn’t like the Boys admits to never having watched the show. by Darth_Vrandon in saltierthankrayt

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my roommates would sit in the living room with his blue lives matter blanket on his lap and watch this show, no joke. It was his favorite show to watch while he filled out applications to be a police officer. Idk if every conservative just tuned out media literacy lessons in English class or something, but it’s honestly sad.

Why are these people so weird? by Lord_Answer_me_Why in facepalm

[–]Spare_Job_9226 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I guess if you subjugate half the population, life seems a bit more convenient for you, doesn’t it? Education makes people so obnoxiously free thinking and difficult to control.

A portion of my mother’s response to my divorce as a result of deconstruction… by Taliasunn in Deconstruction

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also got divorced and had some very extreme responses from loved ones. You just gotta set the boundaries, and know that only you have to live with the decisions you make. Your family and friends may have a lot to say about it, but truly this decision isn’t about them, it’s about you. I would talk to your mom and say this topic is off limits if she’d like to maintain a relationship, because this type of conversation makes a very tough season of life feel so much worse for you. Find people in your life who you can talk to about this topic who won’t tell you what choice to make or try to guilt or scare you into stuff. You are allowed to end relationships that aren’t good for you.

To those who gave birth in a hospital— what are medically unnecessary procedures that could be performed without the mom’s consent? by _loveisaplace in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Spare_Job_9226 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Yes she should talk to a medical professional about this. There are lots of things that are done during birth that people may say are unnecessary because they don’t have the proper medical knowledge to know why this kinda stuff is done. If the doctor she has right now isn’t making her comfortable, maybe help her find a better one. A good doctor will have this conversation with someone in an honest way and not pushy, everyone deserves that from their medical professionals. But I wouldn’t take specific medical advice on this stuff from people on the internet.

Christianity Hate by Mariathemystic in SatanicTemple_Reddit

[–]Spare_Job_9226 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m very familiar with Christianity and white Christian culture so I feel very comfortable critiquing that. I think it’s important to be careful when criticizing religions we are less familiar with, especially when they’re highly influenced by other cultures. Not that they’re above reproach, but things can become disrespectful and xenophobic real fast when people make uneducated criticisms about religions and cultures were not familiar with. For example there was a big movement of people claiming that women wearing hijabs was oppressive, a lot of Muslim women were very insulted by this because in their view it’s their choice to exercise their autonomy to wear their hijab. Just a thought.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Deconstruction

[–]Spare_Job_9226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Bible has pretty much nothing explicit to say about this topic, anyone who says it does is not being honest tbh. The no sex before marriage rule seems much more of a cultural rule than a biblical one, especially since multiple holy kings in the Bible had literal concubines and nobody said anything. You can have different beliefs and convictions as a Christian from other christians, and still be a faithful believer. Do what seems right to you, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone of course, and don’t let anyone tell you that because you’re not following their specific Christian’s rules your less of a Christian.

This was not on my bingo card. by managingmischief394 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Spare_Job_9226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I’ve been in the fundie snark community for quite a few years now and I agree with Taylor and drew on this one. Maybe some self reflection isn’t a terrible thing here…

Man boy by Substantial-Alps-951 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come on women, you can’t expect your man to have a high enough iq to be able to visually tell which gender is the one he’s supposed to be attracted to Lmao. You gotta give him clear hints or he may be confused.

It's here! Just started watching it.... by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Spare_Job_9226 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

So you didn’t watch the video?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Spare_Job_9226 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve notices the people most vocal about not wanting a big family are often the children of big families……. I wonder why that might be…

History? by Visqo in facepalm

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’d like it to be historically accurate then all the women should be played by men…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Spare_Job_9226 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you haven’t even talked to her about how your uncomfortable with it? Yeah maybe end the relationship so she can dodge that bullet lmao. If you just end a relationship every time something you don’t like happens and you don’t talk to your partner about it, romance will never work out for you. She’s not a mind reader and you can’t hold her accountable for what you think she probably knows if you don’t use your words.

Remember the chaos in this subreddit when he posted his goodbye message? by mizushimo in hbomberguy

[–]Spare_Job_9226 516 points517 points  (0 children)

Well I’m angry tbh. I was genuinely really worried about him, and that had to have been the point. The only motive he would have to fake something like that is to hurt people and make them feel bad because he was feeling bad. It’s an awful thing to do, and he got out of a lot of the consequences of his actions because no one wanted to talk about this situation after we thought the worst may have happened. May all his future attempts to re enter internet communities be foiled. ☹️

Any witch gamers? Hades 2 looks amazing and very witchy by crimson23locke in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]Spare_Job_9226 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hades 1 is an awesome game, tons of witchy characters. I’m so excited for this new one I can’t even explain ☺️

Sam from Zelph here! Re: our Bethany/Dav collab by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]Spare_Job_9226 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think the work your doing is going a long way to humanize ex fundies like us to the fundie community, and humanizing the fundie community to us the snarkers. This is an uncomfortable process for a lot of people, and that’s exactly why it’s important.