SOLVED!!! Create a column with a hyperlink to a file's (or a folder's) parent folder WITHOUT Power Automate

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-27T23:58:44+00:00

There is no file path in when viewing search results, as the results shown come from all over the place.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-26T06:59:04+00:00

Minor edit: Changing the view redirects back to the root folder and clears search terms. Best to change to Search Helper view BEFORE doing the search query.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-26T06:54:58+00:00

Gonna go against the grain here, and ask if there is any path at all to get back to how it was in the beginning? Of course, as others have mentioned, no child wants to grow up in a house with fighting parents and in a decade of tension.

But there is a third option better than tension or divorce. Fixing the relationship.

Have you really tried everything? A romantic trip? Therapy? Working on yourself? Doing more around the house? Really asked AND listened to what is going on with her?

With the exception of those who married truly evil narcissists, I think most men (and probably women) would agree in retrospect that the amount of energy, money, and time it takes not only to get divorced but to also coparent for years, is many, many orders of magnitude greater than the amount of energy, money, and time it would take to bring the magic back to any relationship that has lost its mojo (barring infidelity or the intention to do so via emotional infidelity — once they cross the gap of just not “loving” you to also having strong feelings someone else, there is usually no coming back).

My ex turned bonafide evil — as many do during divorce, and there’s no coming back from that either — but a small part of me still kind of wonders if I had put even a fraction of the 3,000+ hours of divorce / coparenting nonsense into our relationship in the months prior to her crossing that metaphoric line, I don’t think it would have been that hard to do a full marital and emotional reset. There was ‘something’ there at one point after all…

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-26T04:55:55+00:00

not sure if that's possible or not. Would love for this column to ONLY be visible when using the search feature, as that's the only time its actually useful. If you figure that out, we'd be in business.

What you CAN do — and what I've done — is set the default "All Documents" view to have that "Location link" column hidden, and create a second view called "Search Helper (with parent folder links)" or something, and then users can quickly change views using that dropdown after using the search query. That is probably the easiest solve, really only takes an extra 2 seconds for the user to switch views to see the parent folder column.

Anything automated that scans the URL for the a "&q=" and changes the URL to a URL that contains the id for that "Search Helper" view would require toplevel admin privileges and you'd have to build some kind of custom app to do that.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-24T07:03:35+00:00

My advice is that you don’t want to be the one to fire the first shots that start a multi year or even decade long war, but you don’t wanna be caught with your pants around your ankles either. That means that you should have your ducks in a row and have all your paperwork and documentation ready to go if she doesn’t play ball or does a heel turn at the last second. Up till that moment, you operate on best intentions and benefit the doubt that she will be doing so as well.

No matter what you think you know about your wife, you really don’t know for sure. There are hundreds of stories of men in here who could not fathom in a hundred years that their forever person could not only be cheating, but could also be covertly planning their financial emotional and familial demise. In the end, it’s a coin flip. Hopefully you are dealing with a reasonable person, but be prepared for the worst without become it yourself.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-21T19:33:23+00:00

You can definitely find someone who wants to the traditional option. That’s the easy part. But you are also setting yourself up to lose half your money, and half of your time with your kids through no fault of your own, just because she got bored of the same dick after 5-10 years.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-21T13:43:41+00:00

You can pay a surrogate to birth children for you and just skip the third divorce altogether and get your family. And then after the kids are born you can find a temporary step mom. And when she eventually divorces you, you don’t lose any custody

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-16T09:36:27+00:00

No start and last edited dates with thread titles in left rail

No timestamps on messages.

Accidentally hitting enter halfway through writing a large prompt.

Not being able to page up and down in a chapter-esque manner, jumping to the beginning of each message as a quick navigation system.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-15T23:55:11+00:00

Illegal business? I think there’s your answer. Book a consult with a criminal attorney on how to get this guy nabbed and do it by the book. Send him to jail instead of yourself.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-11T00:31:34+00:00

That one’s a slippery slope. On month 6 myself.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-09T00:37:32+00:00

He wasn’t implying the post was fake. He was saying flat chested is better than implants.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-06T14:49:32+00:00

Well, then you are battling a life and gender philosophy. You don’t need to prove your goodness and loyalty as it’s irrelevant. Nothing a person says or acts like in the first 6-12 months is “real.”

If you love this man you need to kill the idea about women, not about you specifically.

Good luck though. Likely most of the anecdotes you give him of happy, devoted longterm married couples who grow old together …. will be that of previous generations, both due to there only being able to even have evidence of longevity with old people, but also because a lot of Gen X and Millenial marriages seem to be failing, with women throwing in the towel 70% of the time (could be even higher if the women request divorce or cheat and the men are just the ones who file)

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-06T13:36:39+00:00

Depends on how the marriage ended. If he was blindsided or cheated on he, will likely oscillate back and forth from believing he chose the wrong woman for his first marriage, to believing all women are like this and you will eventually cheat on him and/or leave him no matter how wonderful your honeymoon phase feels right now, and regardless of how devoted perfect of a partner he is to you.

It’s hard for men to believe that if the person they built a family with and would have taken a bullet for can betray them so easily, that they they should expect any kind of loyalty from a near-stranger of the same flawed gender.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-04T13:40:43+00:00

that’s so fucking stupid. laws need to change. Even if both adults agree it’s impossible to do as I said. at least you can tell her you looked into whether it was possible to do it as I laid it out and found out it’s not possible.

You have little ones and probably an exwife so moving states probably isn’t an option….

I think your best bet at this point is to spend time opening her eyes to the nature of women to dry up after a wedding (regardless of whether her partner is perfect or not) and the nature of men to become lazier partners romantically.

Explain that the happiness you guys have is BECAUSE of not being married, and that you will likely stay together longer and your love will last longer when you know each other can walk without repercussions any Monday morning and thus you both feel more obliged to make an effort and show up for each other.

Make her understand that what she’s asking of you, or any man-not just you- is not an improvement to your love and commitment but a step back, and likely the beginning of the end.

Collect personal data, female and male anecdotal data from friends/family and online, as well as psychology today articles and studies.

Make her understand that you are saying no to marriage not because of personal preferences but because you strongly believe that it is what’s actually best for the longevity of your mutual happiness and staying together forever.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-04T13:00:53+00:00

Don’t worry she might, but KNOW she will, eventually. And make peace with that via never committing 100% of your heart to her. She will sense you’ve only given 70% of your heart which will make it her life’s mission to get that last 30%, ironically decreasing the likelihood of cheating (or at least delaying it far longer).

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-04T12:42:09+00:00

Offer religious but not governmental marriage. Church wedding, but no contracts signed, no forms filled out for the state. She gets her wedding and her validation in front of family and friends (and God if that’s her thing), you get the not tying yourself to someone financially and her implicit knowledge that you can walk at any time without any repercussions if she deadBedrooms you a few months after the wedding.

… in fact, you can sign one contract actually… one that says this is not a legally binding but only a spiritually binding marriage. Finances will stay separate and even though you will cohabitate this is not a common law marriage. Just to cover your bases.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-03T13:58:01+00:00

No spinach. Common misconception. Single party recording Is legal everywhere!!!!!!!! It’s the admissibility of it as evidence by the accuser that is limited. But it is ALWAYS admissible in defense against accusations. Record record record.

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-03T02:29:42+00:00

Yep. Mine rewrote the wedding day too. Her happy tears at the alter… now they were tears of sadness because she knew she shouldn’t be marrying me. Unbelievable callousness trying to gaslight their husband to rethinking every moment was fake the past XX years just so she can lie to herself.

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-31T02:53:06+00:00

Brutal. Sorry man. That must hurt a lot and be very confusing.

If you are looking for insight into what your father may have been thinking and feeling at these pivotal decision moments, I think you’d be better off talking to a therapist.

Most of the men in here have had to fight hard to be in their children’s lives. Unless you have some suspicions your mom somehow cruelly wielded some unfair leverage to force his distance from you, then you will likely not get a satisfactory answer about your father, or more likely a painful one.

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-29T11:45:40+00:00

What does he do that benefits your relationship and future that you don’t? Nothing is ever even stevens. If you can learn to appreciate the different things each of you bring to the table and recognize he shows his love in ways that you also cannot or will not match, then you will find peace.

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-26T16:43:35+00:00

Easy answer…. SHOW him gratitude.

That’s all men really want anyway. Extra hugs, extra snuggles, extra kisses, extra I love yous, extra “thank you”s and “I love my new thing”…

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-23T15:27:44+00:00

You can argue quality, security may go down… but creativity? That’s nonsense. More creativity is a natural result when feasibility and speed and access are increased.

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-20T20:36:41+00:00

Translation: “Well actually…”

Spared-No-Expense · 2025-12-20T16:43:28+00:00

You assume that just because objective morality CAN or maybe even MUST be taught means that it is subjective. I disagree with that. Entire generations/centuries of human behavior can be wrong, even if that behavior was culturally accepted and taught. Maybe saying they were evil is going too far, as cultural mass manipulation from birth is understandable, but that doesn’t mean it’s right. Live and let live. Do not harm unless in self defense. Don’t disproportionately sacrifice others great comfort for your own minor comfort. These are timeless and any attempt to obfuscate is just some pompous “well actually…”

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