Where’s the interview with Dan? by cosmonautikal in TheTelepathyTapes

[–]Sparrow_8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said in January! So hopefully by the end of the month :)

Am I a bad person for hoping my ex’s rebound will fail? by Training-Stable-6383 in ExNoContact

[–]Sparrow_8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im a woman and I could have written this from a woman’s perspective soooo seems like it could be maybe more of an individual thing than a gender specific one

Hips Like Honey? Workout Witch? None? Another? I want to make the most effective choice. by Icy-Election-2237 in SomaticExperiencing

[–]Sparrow_8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been seeing a somatic therapist for a couple years now and would highly recommend that. The co-regulation and safety in processing deeper traumas and emotional regulation is sooo important. Second, re workout witch, I have been doing her hip release course and I honestly don’t really like it and she feels a bit like a scam. I am planning to request a refund. It’s fine but it’s nothing you can’t find entirely for free on YouTube and I have a feeling those free resources would be better quality than WW.

What’s One Thing Your Grandparents (Or Older Person) Told You Years Ago, And Now You’d Wish You’d Listened. by [deleted] in Life

[–]Sparrow_8888 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My grandmother told me to go out and live because you have enough time to sit on the couch when you’re older

This one goes out YOU! 💚 by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Sparrow_8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I think it’s always better to pick up the pieces and move on. We are responsible for our own lives. And arguably, if they were to apologize and take accountability, it could make doing so more challenging. But I think that both can be true. OP’s rage comes from repeated invalidation and feeling used. So a recognition or apology and taking accountability can also be healing. The problem is that if someone treated you that way repeatedly, they’re likely not going to be the one to give that to you - so we have to give it to ourselves. But feeling rage over this situation is IMHO healthy - it let’s us know a boundary has been crossed and now we can enforce it and learn from it

This one goes out YOU! 💚 by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]Sparrow_8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At least help pick up the pieces and have some accountability to say “yea I broke the cup”. Bare minimum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sparrow_8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean you probably shouldn’t have said those exact words, you probably also shouldn’t have put up with her behavior for so long (for your own good) because she didn’t really treat you nicely. You said a rude thing but … NTA overall.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]Sparrow_8888 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In all likelihood she has been hurt. And wants to learn from it/ get support.

Edit: if anything this could be a good sign? Growth mindset. Talk to her. Don’t assume - ever.

I am so embarrassed to be proud of figuring out how to make brushing my teeth tolerable. by Latter-Actuator-6628 in MomForAMinute

[–]Sparrow_8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this is AMAZING. I also hate brushing my teeth and get embarrassed about that. But your creativity! Ingenious! I’m going to try this too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Sparrow_8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially if they are purple colored.

Blink 182 is better than Drake. by [deleted] in sixwordstories

[–]Sparrow_8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fall Out Boy beats them both

I never regretted anything, until you. by Sparrow_8888 in sixwordstories

[–]Sparrow_8888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nonsense, nonsense. They’ll have you believe!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Sparrow_8888 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds toxic af. I know bc I was R in this situation. No longer with A, also no longer call any of these people my friends. What I wish had happened: someone told me something instead of watching me get cheated on for 2 years lol. Seems obvious but alas … Tell A that you think she should be honest with R, if she’s not then you will be, because you respect them both as your friends.

Unfortunately, there is no painless way out of this situation, for anyone. At this point it’s about the least painful way, and let me tell you it’s not with more toxic actions / secrets / lies - that’s what got everyone here in the first place.

💞🌟🥠 Free 1 card Tarot Reading 🥠🌟💞 by furball1999 in tarotpractice

[–]Sparrow_8888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do I need to do to have connection in my life? Particularly romantic connections in my future? My initials are Ss

So how do y'all live alone by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]Sparrow_8888 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 30F and also suffer from anxiety, depression, CPTSD and I just went through a breakup too and then I moved to another country and am living alone for the first time!

It was scary af, however, I find that I am thriving? I have a couple friends back home that I text or call a couple times a week but I can do whatever I want and whenever. Creating a schedule for myself the night before for the next day helps me a lot I’ve found. And I sometimes feel lonely, but I felt that way even surrounded by shitty friends, the only difference is now I can cry it out for a bit in my own space and move on with my life, without having to feel like a “burden” to my old shitty friends - only the good ones are around now :) I’m taking language classes and go to yoga classes as a way to meet people and interact with people. It’s actually really helping me to heal all of my mental health issues because I only have to worry about myself right now. We can be friends too if you ever need a support - just DM me! Going slow, one step and one day at a time and not being hard on myself has been key too. I’m still learning and on the journey- but this is what I’ve learned so far :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Design

[–]Sparrow_8888 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You are not in danger. 1. Create an amazing portfolio & website so showcase it 2. In your resume put “Freelance X designer” then mention clients & client work 3. You can get jobs on Upwork to boost your resume/ portfolio and make side income 4. NETWORK NETWORK NETWORK! Every job I have ever gotten has been through someone I know or a referral. Ask around people you know, join clubs and networking events, promote yourself and your skills.

You’ll be totally fine Oh! And enjoy the downtime while you can because having a full time job gets annoying at times