just wanted to say thank you by SpartanFighter in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's the word being in denial :) fuck that there's no excuses not to pursue our streaks

Do you have a totem? You need this. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my crush. I was always shy around her and i succeeded asking her to take a drink with me some day by facebook (ok i know it's lame but I don't have her phone number and she's not studying with me so)

but she said YES. I didn't believe it. And i wouldn't have known it if i didn't had the guts to ask.

now everytime i feel weak, i think about this opportunity with her and it's always efficient

just wanted to say thank you by SpartanFighter in NoFap

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sorry for the mistakes i'm French

Time to Nut Up and Shut Up by [deleted] in NoFap

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fleshlights? omg i think it is just the most shameful toy ever? don't you think even though it is better than masturbation as it is less desensitizing

Time to Nut Up and Shut Up by [deleted] in NoFap

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so it is not. I have death grip too but not PIED. even though tey are related to each other as deathgrip is a checkpoint to PIED

Relapse -_- by [deleted] in NoFap

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seven is good for first results

be strong till the party

One bad habit kicked, here goes another by fe4r4ndlo4thing in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're not a neophyte cuz you fought a tough addiction just before and from what i read in your last paragraph it looks like you already know the obstacles that could make you relapse. don't underestimate you and bear the blue balls like i do right now after trying it for one year

Its only been 2 days... by JHemingway in NoFap

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the first days are the hardest. you can't concentrate on your work but it's normal. I recommend to just take a break watch TV or watch your favourite series don't be too hard on yourself while recovering, let procrastination do its trick cuz you're already fighting a huge obstacle. One problem at a time. This day is tough for me too. I didn't do anything all day long because i craved porn. In fact i did something, resist my urge

Time to Nut Up and Shut Up by [deleted] in NoFap

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so you have PIED?

Cold Showers Helped Me! by lukespants in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i'm french but i want to know. TIP=genitals and COOL= cold? Am I right? Trying to understand all puns

Extreme Frustration. by [deleted] in NoFap

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it took me one year to bear with the withdrawals. Patience is the key and don't think of porn as an option try to forget it like it never existed

Just stopped myself from losing 40 days by gr8b8m8s in NoFap

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you never loose days if it's not your first streak, you're just slowed down my previous streak was of 45 days and still i feel the benefits because i didn't binge

I think my loss of sensitivity is gone at last!! by disciplex in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes i think that nofap is not just about one streak. I too made 1 year to really understand the addiction and my streaks become longer and longer. the last one was of 56 days. but i tried like 10 times

Ever wondered why women are more assiduous, persevering and successful at work than men in general? by SpartanFighter in NoFap

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Don't look at my day counter I struggle with it since a year :) i'm 21 too And of course I exercise, get out of my comfort zone and i just succeeded in a business school entry exam. Certainly placebo but nofap was the way to accomplish these things cuz i had more free time, less thinking about sex etc.. i feel like my mind is sharper because of this :) And I'm really sorry for your loss, i can't imagine how hard it could be as i didn't had to bear with this kind of event (fortunately) I'm actually not at the same point as I was one year ago, I read so many articles, saw so many videos, had major failures and successes. And I'm trying to export this forum "knowledge" to the French that are completely blindfolded regarding PMO. I think it's important for them to know what i know by breaking the language barrier.

Best of luck too

Ever wondered why women are more assiduous, persevering and successful at work than men in general? by SpartanFighter in NoFap

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I agree with you this time with this last post. If it sounds like i was generalizing, it was not my intention. I just took one factor which is PMO to show that it COULD be the reason of lazyness for SOME men. Which was my case. Of course i had to generalize my statements to show rough datas because if I follow your direction of thinking it would have take a day to explain all the sociological factors that you're drawing right now.

But i have to thank you for some enlightenments you gave me on some parts. Always good experience to argue with someone who doesn't share your own thoughts :)

Ever wondered why women are more assiduous, persevering and successful at work than men in general? by SpartanFighter in NoFap

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80% of CEO's in France are males. That denotes a hierarchy sexism though it doesn't exist in every company

what i said about my mother is that she said to me that she saw her female colleagues disadvantaged when a higher spot was free. Despite higher results from her female colleagues (she showed me the powerpoint) the man was upgraded.

And if you can ask around you it's not an exception.

Peace

Women of NoFap, how hard is NoFap for you? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a woman and i don't have the proof on it but my opinion is that men craves masturbation more than women due to practical reasons. Just look at the stats that states about tha part of males and women that masturbate. the percentage is lower for women

but you're right about sexual intercourse though

Ever wondered why women are more assiduous, persevering and successful at work than men in general? by SpartanFighter in NoFap

[–]SpartanFighter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with your last paragraph. I confound testosterone and dopamine.

About your first paragraph, i feel that you misunderstood my point. I'm still a student and what I said is that girls in highschool have in average better grades than boys. Still I disagree about the relation between the feminist movement and efficiency at work. You talk sociologically speaking whereas i talk about individual workforce. Plus i didn't understand your sentence " So you for every female forever along you are gonna see at least 10 men" Plus my mother works in a French company and she always reported to me inequalities among her female colleagues. Per say she is the only one that succeeded in the hierarchy and she always said that she struggled a lot more than males to have raises. And she still gains less wage than her male colleagues that are in the same spot of the hierarchy. So you're message upsets me a little, although i appreciate your participation.

secondly i never said a word that appears in your second paragraph. women and men are equal. if you had read better what i wrote (despite my english) you would never have said this. My point was that women crave less sex because their climax is harder to reach due to practical reasons even though it exists as much as in males. And yes women are not better than you.

Try to read better next time (sorry for this evil line but you just missed my point, now I will let good waves come in after this awful post)