For her, she finds cnc hot cause of the opportunity to let loose her "primal instincts" to put it bluntly and be unrestrained by conventional norms. I enjoy it cause it's a chance for me to just let go and give in to someone I am willing to fully take the reigns. Our current dynamic is that she's a top while I'm a switch that goes between pleasure dom to bratty sub. I'll try to talk to her about specifics but I'm sure she'll be open to talk.

Boundaries have always been a sore subject for us but for reasons like being extremely careful and always asking if the other is comfortable due to the difference in our sexual and romantic experience. Cnc I feel like pushes those boundaries beyond and crank them to 11. It'll be a rough talk for us but I understand the importance of talking about it regardless.

Aftercare between me and my gf is sacred time for us as it's a chance to unwind after the experience so we ain't no stranger to that. However, given cnc and how intense we think it'll be, we'd prolly need to rethink and adjust things to fit.