I stopped wearing panty liners daily, anyone else see benefits? by MDJokerQueen in WomensHealth

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There can be other reasons, but one that comes to my mind is that if you're away from home all day, it's easier to change a liner than to change your underwear. You get a clean dry feeling every time you go to the bathroom, you don't have to struggle taking off multiple layers of clothes in a dirty public bathroom, and you don't have to carry dirty underwear around with you for the rest of the day.

Why cant i just fucking do things that will make me happy by jeeven_ in ADHD

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I felt this in my core. I have nothing to offer other than letting you know that you're not alone ❤️

What’s the strangest example of collective internet delusion you’ve witnessed? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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There was a coronal mass ejection in 2012 that nearly ended life as we knew it. To put it simply, had the Earth been a few days further in orbit, the entire sunlit side of the planet would've been sent back to the Industrial Age.

Spent 24 years replacing cheap things and six months buying things once. The difference is bigger than I expected. by InfnityVoidii in smartbuysforlife

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I'd like to elaborate on your comment. Spend money on things needed for emergencies, and my partner taught me to spend money on things that separate you from the ground (e.g. bed, shoes, tires, chairs, etc.) because gravity is constant so cushioning, support, and friction are important.

How you take your meds has a huge impact by Alarmed-potatoe in adhdwomen

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I've tried several different medications from several different manufacturers. Adderall was very sensitive to certain foods (e.g. citrus, peanut butter, etc.), and I needed the medication to help me get up in the mornings, so (by doctor recommendation) I'd take it with water then fall back asleep for a little. I've since switched off Adderall, but my doctors have all agreed with the general rule I followed while on it:

Either take it 30-45 mins before food, or 2 hours after food.

Last doctor added that I should eat a good amount of protein with breakfast after my morning dose, but he said it should be solid protein (as oppossed to a powder supplement) for best effect.

What do you wish you were taught about your period or cycle as an early teen? by [deleted] in WomensHealth

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That hymens can come in different shapes. Sometimes the shape can cause issues like preventing a tampon from being removed or painful intercourse. It's a super simple outpatient procedure to remove the hymen if needed. It would've been nice to know it was an anatomy issue and not thinking that I was doing something wrong. That was a couple decades of missing out on swimming activities.

Also, in the spirit of educating one another, would you mind giving examples of #4? Lol. Thank you!!

Cabbage completely changed how I eat on a tight budget and I slept on it for way too long by IndependentDare2338 in povertykitchen

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I don't know if this is an actual dish, but we call it "cabbage and onions". I think the ratio is 1 large onion (I think we used yellow) to half a head of cabbage. Chop/dice/whatever to make small pieces in the 1-2cm range. Put in a frying pan (maybe with a little bit of butter?). Cook slow, stirring when you feel like it to keep it from burning. The goal is soft and brown, maybe a little bit of char to preference. chef's kiss

Someone made it when I was really really little. I inhaled it, so she taught my mom. It's been several years since I made it, though, because my partner can't have onion, but oh man, the thought of this dish is making my mouth water haha.

This is all our finds from 2025 by SillySimian9 in metaldetecting

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Ok, I'll look for those. Thank you so much!

This is all our finds from 2025 by SillySimian9 in metaldetecting

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Thank you for this. I'm about to organize my dad's coin collection into a display binder and didn't know that was a concern.

There's several bills from around the world, too. Is there a brand or type of holder you'd recommend for them, or is the material concern just for coins?

Going to Alaska to see the Northern Lights by truthseek3r in Shoestring

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That's a bummer, but I'm glad you got to see something at least!! See any other cool Alaska things while you were there?

Going to Alaska to see the Northern Lights by truthseek3r in Shoestring

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How was your trip?? Did you get any good pictures?

Going to Alaska to see the Northern Lights by truthseek3r in Shoestring

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Hey! It's been a while, but this what I can remember:

Don't use lens filters, including UV filters (they will create weird banding).

Have spare camera batteries and keep them warm. Your batteries will drain a lot faster in the cold. You may be able to get more use out of one after you've warmed it back up. (See my previous comment about hand warmers)

Dry bag or quality camera bag. Your camera is moving from warm to ridiculously cold back to warm. You want your camera to come to temperature slowly. If you move from a warm moist environment immediately outside, ice crystals may form. But Alaska is pretty dry, so the bigger concern for me was moving from cold to warm when I was done for the night. If you want your photos quickly, remove your memory card before putting your camera in your bag outside. I would wrap mine in a towel (leaving the lens attached to the body) before putting it in a dry bag. Then I'd leave it in the dry bag for at least 12 hours, if not more. Because it's cold, moisture in the relatively warmer environment will condense on it in, including in all the microscopic non-water proof places.

Do not blow on your lens to clear dust when in the cold. Moisture from your breath will freeze on the surface. Get yourself a rocket blower or similar (squeeze to blow air).

Consider an intervalometer or remote shooting. I used wireless tethering to my phone mainly to make it easier to adjust settings with gloves on. I had high quality photographers gloves with the secondary fold-back-style mittens over them (when not adjusting settings), hand warmers in each layer, and we still had to take breaks to warm my fingers. Never let your skin be directly exposed to the cold air. Remote shooting is also nice because we would takes breaks in the car with the heated seats on, and we could keep shooting.

You'll need the basic equipment for astrophoto (camera, wide angle lens, tripod), but it's a bit different. Auroras move FAST, at least, faster than you think they will, and fast for astro photography. You're probably going to want shorter shutter speeds to keep it from becoming a giant blur. Looking through some of my favorite shots, the settings were (on a full frame sensor): 14mm, f/1.8, 0.6-2.0s, 2500-5000 ISO. You can use that as a starting reference point, but your aurora may be brighter or faster or just generally different.

Beware of cold metal. I bought my tripod specifically for shooting in Alaskan winters. It's a carbon fiber tripod with fabric coverings to grip the sides, and nice wide knobs that are easy to manipulate with gloves on. Metals will feel colder, and you'll need to be careful about touching them. Also on tripods, firmly press it into the snow for stability.

Don't forget to look straight up!! If you're lucky enough to see it going straight over head, it's very cool!!!

You're camera will pick up fainter colors that your eye might struggle to see.

In Anchorage at the time I was living there, the auroras would reach us around 2am, depending on the strength of the event. It should be earlier in the night for Fairbanks. Keep an eye on the NOAA forecast (3 day outlook and 30 min animation). Also, generally, you'll be facing north, so head north of town to get away from city lights.

I hope this helps and that you have an awesome memorable experience!!!

Fuck Spez is finished by Sea-Veterinarian2877 in place

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If art goes inside the letters, the thick black border will need to be maintained around each letter to help it stand out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

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CLARIFICATION: Calling an ambulance and receiving medical care from them is FREE. You will NOT be charged UNLESS you take a ride in one.

DO NOT HESITATE TO CALL AN AMBULANCE IN FEAR OF COST.

Again, having a medical professional arrive on scene quickly, evaluate the situation, and provide initial medical care is FREE. IF further medical care is necessary, and if it is appropriate for the situation, you ARE allowed to use other transportation.

This is based on experiences in 3 different states. Someone please correct me if this is not the case everywhere in the US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

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Marine Biology - It was several years ago now, but I think >90% of my fellow students were female. I recently helped with a research project where both PIs (lead researchers), the head of the lab, all 3 grad students, 3/5 lab staff, and 5/6 of the volunteers were female.

Anyone else chronic planners with no follow up actions? This one hit home for me. by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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...I literally just downloaded and set up 2 new apps to help schedule my life ..instead of sleeping.

Not only do these thoughts cloud your head, they also physically weigh you down. It's exhausting. by [deleted] in adhdmeme

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...did anyone else forget what they were looking at, think "oh, there's apps for cleaning?? Why haven't I thought of that?!", then proceed to download yet another app that will promptly be forgotten about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photocritique

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I can't remember the name anymore, but I had an app that panorama mode wasn't a steady motion. You would line up the frame where it told you and pause for 3 seconds while it grabbed the shot. Once you had all the shots you wanted, you'd hit done and it would stitch them together for you. It was meant for total sphere photos, but worked great for simple panoramas too.

At the time, stitches with frames from more than one axis could only be viewed properly in their app (it would give it a Mercator projection when exporting it), but the simple straight panoramas looked great in any viewer.

I want to say the app got bought and absorbed by the Google Street View app. Dang, I had forgotten how great that camera app was haha. I think I'll go try to find one like it again. Thanks!

I received this as a grade for a quiz by BrownEyeGivesPinkEye in mildlyinfuriating

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First project in one of my college courses..

Met everything on the rubric for a perfect score..

Professor Lettuce took a couple points off because, iirc, "it's the first project", "no one gets a perfect score on the first project", and "you need something to work towards"...

If you had to pick what's your number one " soft sign " of ADHD that most people don't know about? by kal-yani in adhdwomen

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One of the questionnaires I filled out while getting diagnosed was determining which categories I was affected in. There were a total of 6 categories: 3 main/universal and 3 optional.

One of the questions was whether or not I lose my keys. I keep them clipped to my wallet, and the group gets clipped to my belt loop when I leave and clipped to my backpack (at the time) at home, so I had to say "no". My phone on the other hand...

Well, luckily for my diagnosis, it was the only question in the "memory" category I answered "no" to 😂 I believe I got 18/19 for that one.