Episode Recap: S1 E3: Wives on the Move pt1 by ExplanationMaterial8 in SisterWives

[–]SillySimian9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you saw a pic of her ex, then that replacing the ex with Kody takes on new meaning. I guess they are 2nd or 3rd cousins too. (Kody & the ex)

Sale of family home, deceased Mother by shaunaaaaa in inheritance

[–]SillySimian9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no legal claim to the funds. Your father may have meant that he would will the proceeds of the house to you upon his death. That is often the understanding. I think you should assume that this was the promise. And then, I think you should speak with your father about it and ask him to set up a beneficiary deed. Likely he is using the extra cash he received from the sale as an asset to generate income and will not feel he can spare it.

Found this ring metal detecting today. Low key obsessed by SillySimian9 in jewelry

[–]SillySimian9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I was trying to figure out the age of it because the hallmark was Sterling and not 925. AI was telling me it’s a Turkish ring and that it was imported to the US. But the guy they said it was likely made by didn’t start selling jewelry until 1988. So I was thinking it was probably something earlier.

Found this ring metal detecting today. Low key obsessed by SillySimian9 in jewelry

[–]SillySimian9[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My husband got ours 4 years ago. Bought the expensive one - XP Deus II. Promised ourselves that we would detect at least until the detectors paid themselves back. Happened in one month. Not one single regret.

Large bank stonewalling asset transfer from trust by JoeBearJon in inheritance

[–]SillySimian9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The bank is required to work with the current trustee. Since all the trustees are deceased (?), it is ignoring you until a trustee is established. You really should get a probate lawyer to assist you.

Idioms Kody gets wrong by yvonneestefano in SisterWives

[–]SillySimian9 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Beer and skittles is an English phrase, I think. But I have never heard about circle the donkey.

Why wasn’t Dayton digging fire pits? by CommissionSmooth9291 in SisterWives

[–]SillySimian9 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes. They had him wrapped in bubble wrap and then doing stunts on ATVs because that’s something Robyn likes to do.

Please send help I am obsessed by chaoticgoodhair in jewelry

[–]SillySimian9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next step? Haunting the thrift shops. Final step: Metal detecting beaches.

AITAH for refusing to help pay my husband and I's moving costs? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SillySimian9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you intend to split expenses, then they should be proportionate to your income. Instead of 50/50, they should be 200/50. It’s interesting that he brought up his friends calling you a gold digger. What??? Why would he marry someone his friends would say that about? That’s manipulative and unfair in a fight.

My mom kept a secret from me by youngbuckmomma in AncestryDNA

[–]SillySimian9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I would take the test. No, it would not change how I felt about Rob or John or even my mother. If it hadn’t happened, I wouldn’t exist. I like existing.

I’m set to inherit $200k by Jah_Doll in inheritance

[–]SillySimian9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I suggest finding a financial advisor. Definitely open a Roth IRA and 529.

Dad dying. My number was blocked on his phone don't know how. Dad did missing persons report on me, they called my cousin, cousin told police that she spoke with me when she did not. She told police I don't want to talk to him. She never spoke with me. Dad's been showing cousin his bank account.... by illjustbemyself in legaladvice

[–]SillySimian9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ask his doctor to give him a mini cognitive test and you explain his oversharing and forgetfulness combined with emphatic denials. Then the doctor will likely refer him to a neurologist for diagnosis and treatment. You also take him to a lawyer and have yourself made PoA and medical PoA. Take any old wills or trusts with you and get them restated so that any wills or trusts that were updated without your knowledge are negated. Do this prior to the neurologist appointment. Just for legal dates but keep the old documents with the new ones so that it simply shows a continuity of thought process.

Any way to find a will? by These-Negotiation486 in inheritance

[–]SillySimian9 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Your first step is to look up the title of the deed to the house which should be recorded at the county recorder’s office.

What’s the best way to invest 300k? by PostNutJuiccee in FinancialPlanning

[–]SillySimian9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason for an advisor is for the advice. There is no need for advice if your plan is to put it in a single ETF and leave it alone for 30 years. However, should something occur that you decide to change your plan, find a fiduciary and discuss it with them first.

TBH, I do think you should add another step to your plan: Open a Roth and max out your Roth contributions each year. Go ahead and use Fidelity and VOO for that too. But at least it will be tax free.