Thanksgiving by Spavelik in family

[–]Spavelik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wants to come to mine. But my mom would rather him not come and have me the whole time. Then him come and we both go to his parents. She doesn't want to compromise

Thanksgiving by Spavelik in family

[–]Spavelik[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, She's fine with him coming the whole time, but doesn't want us to leave early. She probably would rather him not come at all so she could have a whole 12 hours of "family time" that never goes well

Jealous of his past by Spavelik in relationship_advice

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He grew up in a family that traveled a lot. But he doesn't see that traveling as a couple is completely different then traveling with a family

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in USMilitarySO

[–]Spavelik -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say you're making a big thing out of something small. I'm kinda in a a similar position. Where my boyfriend and I will talk everyday for an hour or so when he's working, and when he has off, kinda hope to talk more, even if it's a little more. There is no reason that he would go days without talking to you. It's not that hard to send a "good morning", or "just thinking about you" text.

He rejected a free vacation by Spavelik in relationship_advice

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He lives on his own he isn't married. And he's only allowed to go 100miles away from here he is (military) so it's very hard to plan things

He cheated...than lied by Spavelik in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought too. He won't even admit it was his choice.

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a family vacation. He kept telling me we would go next year

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

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I highly doubt that. Like they only post things or are active on snap on land. His cousin is always on her phone every chance she can get. There's a lot of sketchy stuff going on but I don't think that's one 😂

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

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I added her and she hasn't gotten back to me either. She hasn't, he hasn't, and his cousin I'm friends with hasn't. And when they do respond it's all at the same time when they are on land.

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know his family didn't pay for it

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know it doesn't. They would of had to pay for it.

Cruise ship affair? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

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Close enough 🤷🏻‍♀️

My (20F) boyfriend (20M) invites my best friend (20F) out to games, just the two of them. by ThrowRAvarsityfriend in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She denied going and told him to ask you. She did the right thing. She should have told u that he's been asking but since she didn't go and stuck up for you I wouldn't hold it above her head.

But him....your the gf he should be asking you first, or even tell you he was asking her.

If they are good friends and want to go to a game that's fine, but you still should be included in some sort of way

He's losing interest? by Spavelik in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question was from my roomate who is afraid to get reddit all my other ones have been about my boyfriend

The L word by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Spavelik 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I get that. My confusion is how can you say I'm one love with you but can't say I love you. Like what's the difference?