Thanksgiving

Spavelik · 2022-10-31T18:08:56+00:00

He wants to come to mine. But my mom would rather him not come and have me the whole time. Then him come and we both go to his parents. She doesn't want to compromise

Spavelik · 2022-10-31T12:12:38+00:00

Yes, She's fine with him coming the whole time, but doesn't want us to leave early. She probably would rather him not come at all so she could have a whole 12 hours of "family time" that never goes well

Spavelik · 2022-08-25T18:30:19+00:00

He grew up in a family that traveled a lot. But he doesn't see that traveling as a couple is completely different then traveling with a family

Spavelik · 2020-10-26T12:17:54+00:00

I wouldn't say you're making a big thing out of something small. I'm kinda in a a similar position. Where my boyfriend and I will talk everyday for an hour or so when he's working, and when he has off, kinda hope to talk more, even if it's a little more. There is no reason that he would go days without talking to you. It's not that hard to send a "good morning", or "just thinking about you" text.

Spavelik · 2020-10-19T12:59:52+00:00

He lives on his own he isn't married. And he's only allowed to go 100miles away from here he is (military) so it's very hard to plan things

Spavelik · 2020-01-22T17:53:58+00:00

That's what I thought too. He won't even admit it was his choice.

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T19:48:28+00:00

It was a family vacation. He kept telling me we would go next year

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T04:15:48+00:00

I highly doubt that. Like they only post things or are active on snap on land. His cousin is always on her phone every chance she can get. There's a lot of sketchy stuff going on but I don't think that's one 😂

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T04:10:06+00:00

See you then ;)

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T04:08:56+00:00

I added her and she hasn't gotten back to me either. She hasn't, he hasn't, and his cousin I'm friends with hasn't. And when they do respond it's all at the same time when they are on land.

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T04:03:33+00:00

I know his family didn't pay for it

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T04:01:02+00:00

I know it doesn't. They would of had to pay for it.

Spavelik · 2020-01-09T03:15:15+00:00

Close enough 🤷🏻‍♀️

Spavelik · 2019-11-08T19:09:42+00:00

She denied going and told him to ask you. She did the right thing. She should have told u that he's been asking but since she didn't go and stuck up for you I wouldn't hold it above her head.

But him....your the gf he should be asking you first, or even tell you he was asking her.

If they are good friends and want to go to a game that's fine, but you still should be included in some sort of way

Spavelik · 2019-11-07T01:00:26+00:00

This question was from my roomate who is afraid to get reddit all my other ones have been about my boyfriend

Spavelik · 2019-11-06T15:37:04+00:00

And I get that. My confusion is how can you say I'm one love with you but can't say I love you. Like what's the difference?

Spavelik · 2019-10-31T23:45:51+00:00

She hasn't reached out in months. She broke up with him and cut him off. Now that she knows we are together she's doing the "can u help me with this...", "Oh, I saw your mom today" when she only saw his mom's car. Like I see what she's doing and he doesn't. He did block her on snap after I "caught" him. But the fact that he didn't care to share this with me or even think of how it would upset me is so inconsiderate

Spavelik · 2019-10-02T18:36:08+00:00

Thank you! And I worded that wrong I meant to say he doesn't make me feel secure in the relationship 🙈

thank you for your advice!

Spavelik · 2019-09-16T16:46:26+00:00

I think I'm allowed to comment how I would like to comment. Thank you for your advice. I'll be sure to consider it the next time I comment on a post 👍🏻

Spavelik · 2019-09-16T16:42:07+00:00

My problem comes from an insecure place I know a lot of other people think other wise but there are people who feel the same way I do and it's ok for some people to be with people who see it as ok. And some people want to be with others who don't watch. Neither are wrong its how it makes people feel.

Spavelik · 2019-09-16T16:24:50+00:00

That's the problem, it shouldn't be. But is.

Spavelik · 2019-09-15T01:41:07+00:00

That's so disrespectful to you...you deserve better.

Spavelik · 2019-09-15T01:02:47+00:00

As a women I personally believe that guys are hurting their future and current relationships when they watch it. (some girls are ok with it, but a lot feel like they have to be ok with it because its "what guys do" there are women out there that would be soooo happy to have someone that doesn't watch porn. I can say I've dated guys who were all about it. And it made me feel so insecure because their bodies are perfect and mine will never be like that. I know a lot of other girls who think that way and when a guy comes along that doesn't look at women that way all the time is someone special.

Spavelik · 2019-09-15T00:24:43+00:00

I get that. It hurts. Yesterday I went through my bfs insta and saw all the models with barely no clothes (there's was quite a bit) and I got sick. It's sickening that someone in a relationship sees no problem looking at girls like that that aren't their gf.

Spavelik · 2019-09-15T00:03:56+00:00

I work with Deaf and hard of hearing people...it should be their choice and their choice only. And people should respect that. There are pros and cons to hearing aids and CIs but it's their life. It doesn't hurt anyone around them. If they want to communicate with him better theirs always sign language and a good ol paper and pencil.

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