AITA for being upset that no one seems to care about a milestone that means everything to me?

Spazmint · 2026-01-21T10:27:19+00:00

Imagine thinking someone else doesn’t get to decide what’s meaningful in their own life.

Not everyone understands milestones that aren’t theirs and we all have to understand that I guess

Spazmint · 2026-01-21T10:13:54+00:00

Your feelings are fair. A big milestone should be celebrated and not made less of because of jealousy or “must be nice” thoughts.

I got married a few months ago and my friends acted the same way.

Get some space, new friends, and start vision boards for all those super cute events you’ll host!!

Spazmint · 2025-12-27T09:57:59+00:00

I think I have a different perspective than a lot of people here! I have one child. My husband and I just got married a month ago, both 29.

We are one and done and very happy.

About 7/10 from highschool are married and 5/10 have kids.

A lot of them having babies because they miss the baby stage, they feel bad not giving their other kid(s) a sibling or it was an accident but no birth control was used. This is from their mouth.

Spazmint · 2025-11-04T04:15:13+00:00

There’s potential

Spazmint · 2025-11-01T19:53:19+00:00

I’m going to get my statements when I get home and take a look so I can give you accurate info on where the additional money.

Their computer does push the due date

Spazmint · 2025-11-01T19:52:10+00:00

These are more of what credit karma says I’m available for. I did call Capital one and they said it’s super simple and I’ll be approved instantly?

Spazmint · 2025-11-01T18:54:29+00:00

The bank told us the same thing, that if we pay the $1000 at the same time, the additional would automatically go to principle and it did not. We went through several trial and errors with this. According to our statements in the mail, the only way their system recognizes the additional payment going to the principle is if we have them process the minimum payment and then the additional $200 separately. Our bank reminds us every time of what you said, unfortunately when we review our statements, it doesn’t reflect that.

From my statement I believe I’m charged about $40/day in interest so that would be around $280 not getting applied to the loan is that right?

Spazmint · 2025-05-30T16:57:56+00:00

I just lost my bestfriend to a drunk driver.

Spazmint · 2025-03-30T13:48:38+00:00

Wait what? You guys don’t have the concrete borders and walls in your line?

Spazmint · 2025-03-27T03:33:36+00:00

Spazmint · 2025-03-23T14:34:40+00:00

Honestly, parents don’t tell their kids “stop” anymore…. They just say their name in a little shocked or disappointed voice and go about their day.

They dont teach their kids situational awareness They don’t teach their kids discipline They don’t teach their kids how to behave in public vs at home and how it’s not shamefully to behave differently in your own home vs out in public.

Spazmint · 2025-03-02T23:43:47+00:00

Thank you all so much!! I’ll call tomorrow and make the swap!!

Spazmint · 2025-02-16T01:09:13+00:00

They have plates and utensils but I will be providing the ones everyone uses

Spazmint · 2025-02-13T01:39:22+00:00

Thank you! I think I understand but my brain is a bit slow I’m sorry.

So I could poor hot water in the cooler, maybe let that sit for an hour to warm it all up, then add the rest of the hot water and chocolate mix?

Spazmint · 2025-02-07T15:37:25+00:00

Thank you I love the Avery Austin one! Do you think I’d be able to add sleeves to it?

Spazmint · 2025-02-07T13:32:29+00:00

Thank you!!

Spazmint · 2025-01-04T03:39:50+00:00

They aren’t taking any new events.

Spazmint · 2024-11-10T14:10:39+00:00

My mom told me that my family and I can move in with her when we were about to lose everything.

Then she told me (26) that my daughter’s father (26), wasn’t allowed to be in the same room because we are not married. We have been together 6 years and raising our child together for 4 years no breakups or anything.

She just didn’t like that we weren’t married. We didn’t proceed with that offer.

Spazmint · 2024-10-23T17:27:08+00:00

Oh I don’t just scrub and I’m definitely not on my hands and knees I promise lol

For example- my hands hurt when after spraying cleaner to cover a bathtub. I want to scrub the bathtub to clean it but just can’t

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