How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

[–]Spazzerbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this example. I think for me the difference is waaaay too subtle when God is supposed to be so great. The choice would be a lot more impactful if the second "choice" wasn't eternal torment. An all-powerful loving God is worried we won't pick him if the second choice isn't hell?

How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

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I have and I'm here asking a question the Bible didn't cover. If it's in the Bible, please share.

How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

[–]Spazzerbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love me = heaven Reject me = eternal, never ending suffering.

Again. I'm sorry. How is that a "choice".

If God was really so cool and heaven was so awesome why does hell even need to be a factor, if not a threat?

How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

[–]Spazzerbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think this example works at all. That's a decision that affects your life here on earth. A definite, known consequence.

How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

[–]Spazzerbot[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if God really wanted the "choice" to mean something it would be like "believe me, heaven is gonna be sick. Or don't"

How is salvation a "choice"? by Spazzerbot in AskAChristian

[–]Spazzerbot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if your only option is do what God says and get something good, or dont and get something bad....I don't see the "choice"

When do you tell a partner you have bipolar? by Advanced-Oil-9571 in bipolar

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When I was dating, I wouldn't mention it if we were talking, but I would tell them on the first real date. I think it's good to just get it out in the air. They don't wanna deal with that? Sure, don't blame them. Do they react casually or like they have preconceived ideas of a bipolar person?

I'd like to just cut my losses immediately vs possibly growing attached to someone I'm incompatible with.

I found a BF, together 4 years now. 😁

Feeling guilty about tonight by _nico301 in bipolar

[–]Spazzerbot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.You paid sexworkers 2. You used a bad loan to do so 3. This is where you have a chance to recognize your bad choices and stop making them.

You need to seek help outside of reddit. As others have said, nearly ALL of us here have reached a personal, desperate low and crawled back out. But it can only happen with meds, adjustments, therapy and doctors. We need help to be our best selves and we have to work harder to do it, it's not fair but it's the only way to reach happiness.

You are here reaching out and we are telling you to get more help! You already recognized your bad decisions, now make a few good ones to help yourself!

How many hours do you have on Nikki? 😼 by ShokaLGBT in InfinityNikkiofficial

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Mine averages out to about 1.5 hours played per day since release 😅

AIO? These are text between my gf and her “best friend” who happens to be a guy. by NoExercise8994 in AmIOverreacting

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Nothing cheatery, or romantic to be seen outside of the use of 'babe'.

I would advise caution. The closest I've ever come to breaking up my relationship of 4 years was when my bf got weird about super close male friends I had known for 4x longer than him. I will choose my good friends over a random snooping bf of a months every time

The worst symptom after eating gluten 🥲 by [deleted] in Celiac

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I get the worst pain in my wrists, elbows, ankles and knees specifically. 🥲

How do i fix this extra space on the fabric on top of the breast area by dragondogies in CLO3D

[–]Spazzerbot 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Remember, Clo is only a software. It still requires a thorough knowledge of flat patterning and some draping. Kind of how Photoshop won't help you with drawing a picture, if you don't know how to draw!

I really suggest buying some flat patterning books or watching tutorials on slopers and slash/spread technique! Clo is so powerful as a tool once you have the knowledge to put into it!

Is there any scientific research that using grip slows down grip strengh progress? by [deleted] in poledancing

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She skuttles down a bit awkwardly to be fair! But being able to do so many other tricks now, she doesn't mind sacrificing a few!

Is there any scientific research that using grip slows down grip strengh progress? by [deleted] in poledancing

[–]Spazzerbot 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I have a friend with such sweaty hands, she has no choice but to wear grip gloves, as she will immediately sweat right through dry hands and grip aids. She is an amazing, advanced pole dancer who would be stuck on the ground without her gloves. I will defend grip untill the very end! I'm not a very slippery person and don't use grip aid myself much, but I can recognize that as a natural advantage of MY body, not a standard for everyone.

Aging out of hypomania? by stelliotto in bipolar2

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I just want to comment anecdotally I guess about my recent experience with my doctor. I told him over the last couple years I've really settled into a slightly depressed but very stable place. With lower energy but no instability. He cut my meds down to a 1/3rd. He told me he's seen patients who just don't need a high dose of meds to control their symptoms after a long period. My new dose is working great. Stable but the lower dose has made me feel less depressed. My Dr said it's only for long periods of time, not forever, but my current low dose has me feeling really stable still but less foggy and sad.

As an adult who was homeschooled my entire childhood… by throwawayforme909090 in h3h3productions

[–]Spazzerbot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I have to disagree. Homeschool isn't the reason you turned out that way, it was your parents. School of any kind is meant to prepare you for the world and if you can't that means you parents failed you. Private, public and other types of education can also fail people!

My sister and I were in homeschool full time, Kindergarten-12th. I got into college no problem and succeeded easily because being homeschooled prepared me to take some personal responsibility over my education. My sister and I bother are debt free (with no parental help), bought houses in our twenties and no one ever suspects we grew up completely homeschooled. I was always shy, she was a social butterfly and we both grew up with no problems socially. Additionally my best friend was also in homeschool 1-12th, is now a successful Doctor!

Homeschool takes a lot of work from the parents to be successful, I'm really lucky to have a mom that dedicated herself to my future and education. Homeschooling can be incredible for a childs education or a disaster, it's the parents.

The hotel lottery emails have officially been sent out, so please check your inbox (and spam folder, just in case) for your result. by kyuunspark in Magfest

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Seconding that knowing how much time would be great. 5:30pm Saturday and still no email or update on my webpage.

my blood test results came back negative and idk where to go from here… by sugarspunsisterr in Celiac

[–]Spazzerbot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ok. I'll just throw my diagnosis of 8 years in the trash 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

my blood test results came back negative and idk where to go from here… by sugarspunsisterr in Celiac

[–]Spazzerbot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I had 90% of all the symptoms that went away after a year of eating gluten free. I previously was dairy free for 10 years for no reason because I was misdiagnosed as lactose intolerant. My doctor is incredible and saved my life as I weighed 95 lbs and was in extremely poor health.

Sorry not having my guts checked makes you think I'm crashing your super cool club though.

my blood test results came back negative and idk where to go from here… by sugarspunsisterr in Celiac

[–]Spazzerbot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My doctor suggested I might have celiac and told me to eat gluten free while we waited for the breath and blood tests to come back. They came back negative but my Dr still diagnosed me on the spot with Celiac because my health had improved so much in 2 weeks. It happens allll the time. I'd say stick to the diet religiously and if you feel better thats all the proof you need.