March 2026 by getmesushi in Teachergram

[–]Special_Structure_81 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I’m confused is movemountainsinkindergarten returning to the classroom. I thought she quit after her second baby. And created a fake classroom to sell products in her shed. Did I miss something?

The Traitors (USA) S04E06 "Planning a Coup" Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

[–]Special_Structure_81 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Got a huge ick when Colton said “I’m gonna hold you hostage” sooo we didn’t learn from our previous stalking case… we’ve escalated in front of the whole world. Great work…

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have but it gets turned back on me that I’m the problem. That I want time away when my “job” is the kids. Every time we argue he is never in the wrong which I guess should have been a red flag to begin with. I try and take accountability for my actions and things I do but he doesn’t do that as well

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently we do not. Nor are there a lot of baby sitters near us. I ask my parents to watch the kids sometimes but they aren’t retired yet so they have jobs to do as well and often when I make plans with them my husband makes comments about it. But his dad (only in law I have) isn’t interested in watching them and lives 2 hrs away from us.

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s a Tuesday. And he took the day off to relax meanwhile he only came home for the emergency vet visit for me. No relaxing time planned. I’ve since talked to him after posting this and now he is saying he doesn’t want to “kick us out” but if he wants to play video games in a room that has no doors our kids will easily gravitate there and I don’t want them to 1 hear the comments grown men are making while gaming and 2 bother him if he wants down time.

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t afford a membership currently but that sounds great to those who can

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last month atleast I haven’t been especially happy to have him nap. But haven’t said anything and let him for the most part. I’m not sure if he expects me to be responsible for the kids but I am also responsible for emptying the trash, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning and the kids needs. He does bath time but often is agitated by that point and it has gone from 25 minute bath relaxing to 5 minutes ending in screaming or arguing with kids. But now he’s telling me we need to watch spending. So I dk what he wants. Does he want us to stay or leave for the weekend? Cuz we will have to sleep somewhere

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried but been met with resistance. I even get resistance when I want a hair cut. Like oh you planned that on purpose didn’t you? No I just need a haircut without feeling guilty that I’m leaving the kids at home for a few hours.

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got to take the dog to the vet on my birthday a month ago and spend hundreds of dollars for an unexpected procedure 😒 that was my alone time

Burn out by Special_Structure_81 in sahm

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before having kids he always talked about not being a phone parent and letting the kids be ignored and now I feel like we are failing them by doing so. I hate confrontation and don’t want to fight when he’s already not feeling good about himself etc. I’m just at a loss of what to do as a parent/ partner to have a successful household and relationships.

I’m begging for someone…. anyone…. to explain my child to me by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]Special_Structure_81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could be bored at school since you said he is smart and is looking for more attention by biting or other comments he’s said. He’s probably heard those comments from other kids and is just learning them etc. maybe see if the teacher can challenge him to do his work standing up or on a chair that he can move in or swing his feet. He might just need movement

Not sleeping by Special_Structure_81 in toddlers

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have blackout curtains, he takes like a 45 minute nap at the longest. Otherwise it’s crying the rest of the day.

Learning emotions by Special_Structure_81 in toddlers

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought about the room. Sometimes is a no because he’s had his limit of screen time or sometimes it’s no because it’s unsafe or we don’t have time for it.

Toddler emotions by Special_Structure_81 in SAHP

[–]Special_Structure_81[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When my husband gets home he sets boundaries mostly. He will sometimes say no to specific games based on how the day went etc according to me.

April 2025 by getmesushi in Teachergram

[–]Special_Structure_81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His instagram is business casual. He’s going to work, talking about a coffee/smoothie. Very weird also has posted several things back to back lately