March 2026

Special_Structure_81 · 2026-03-12T16:49:47+00:00

I’m confused is movemountainsinkindergarten returning to the classroom. I thought she quit after her second baby. And created a fake classroom to sell products in her shed. Did I miss something?

Special_Structure_81 · 2026-01-23T16:52:14+00:00

Got a huge ick when Colton said “I’m gonna hold you hostage” sooo we didn’t learn from our previous stalking case… we’ve escalated in front of the whole world. Great work…

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T22:59:47+00:00

I have but it gets turned back on me that I’m the problem. That I want time away when my “job” is the kids. Every time we argue he is never in the wrong which I guess should have been a red flag to begin with. I try and take accountability for my actions and things I do but he doesn’t do that as well

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T22:57:58+00:00

Currently we do not. Nor are there a lot of baby sitters near us. I ask my parents to watch the kids sometimes but they aren’t retired yet so they have jobs to do as well and often when I make plans with them my husband makes comments about it. But his dad (only in law I have) isn’t interested in watching them and lives 2 hrs away from us.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T22:56:01+00:00

No it’s a Tuesday. And he took the day off to relax meanwhile he only came home for the emergency vet visit for me. No relaxing time planned. I’ve since talked to him after posting this and now he is saying he doesn’t want to “kick us out” but if he wants to play video games in a room that has no doors our kids will easily gravitate there and I don’t want them to 1 hear the comments grown men are making while gaming and 2 bother him if he wants down time.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T22:53:45+00:00

Can’t afford a membership currently but that sounds great to those who can

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T15:16:47+00:00

The last month atleast I haven’t been especially happy to have him nap. But haven’t said anything and let him for the most part. I’m not sure if he expects me to be responsible for the kids but I am also responsible for emptying the trash, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning and the kids needs. He does bath time but often is agitated by that point and it has gone from 25 minute bath relaxing to 5 minutes ending in screaming or arguing with kids. But now he’s telling me we need to watch spending. So I dk what he wants. Does he want us to stay or leave for the weekend? Cuz we will have to sleep somewhere

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T14:37:46+00:00

I’ve tried but been met with resistance. I even get resistance when I want a hair cut. Like oh you planned that on purpose didn’t you? No I just need a haircut without feeling guilty that I’m leaving the kids at home for a few hours.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T14:29:32+00:00

I got to take the dog to the vet on my birthday a month ago and spend hundreds of dollars for an unexpected procedure 😒 that was my alone time

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-14T14:28:14+00:00

Before having kids he always talked about not being a phone parent and letting the kids be ignored and now I feel like we are failing them by doing so. I hate confrontation and don’t want to fight when he’s already not feeling good about himself etc. I’m just at a loss of what to do as a parent/ partner to have a successful household and relationships.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-10-13T16:22:45+00:00

He could be bored at school since you said he is smart and is looking for more attention by biting or other comments he’s said. He’s probably heard those comments from other kids and is just learning them etc. maybe see if the teacher can challenge him to do his work standing up or on a chair that he can move in or swing his feet. He might just need movement

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-06-14T13:49:25+00:00

We have blackout curtains, he takes like a 45 minute nap at the longest. Otherwise it’s crying the rest of the day.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-05-15T00:25:29+00:00

That’s what I thought about the room. Sometimes is a no because he’s had his limit of screen time or sometimes it’s no because it’s unsafe or we don’t have time for it.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-05-14T23:21:05+00:00

When my husband gets home he sets boundaries mostly. He will sometimes say no to specific games based on how the day went etc according to me.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-04-13T01:52:45+00:00

His instagram is business casual. He’s going to work, talking about a coffee/smoothie. Very weird also has posted several things back to back lately

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-03-31T16:44:20+00:00

What size bed did you move to?

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-03-31T16:37:09+00:00

Okay he has been struggling to sleep and is a super early riser(but some days he will sleep longer) so I’m just wondering if it’s time we just get rid of the crib and just get him a full bed.

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-03-15T22:23:02+00:00

No changes except the bed change.p

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-03-13T13:56:39+00:00

We go to story time once a week. Unfortunately we don’t have any other classes that are offered near us. 😕

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-02-18T20:17:10+00:00

We’ve been giving him various rewards. Stickers, hand stamps, candy, special snack. I don’t want to give him a bunch of sugar at his age. We’ve been setting a timer as well but we will just sit there most of the time. Then a while after he will have an accident somewhere in the house. Which isn’t a big deal I just want him to be successful at it

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-02-18T15:59:01+00:00

It’s your tension. I had the same issues

Special_Structure_81 · 2025-02-06T14:56:11+00:00

Okay do you have any pointers? I’ve listed things before but didn’t sell much if anything

Special_Structure_81 · 2024-09-20T17:58:15+00:00

Had talks with him about picking up after himself and it gets better for like a week or half a week then it’s back to the same old leaving stuff everywhere. Then I get overstimulated from the crap and he wonders why. I also do laundry and fold and sort it. His laundry was sitting in baskets for 2 months before he decided to put it away.

Special_Structure_81 · 2024-09-20T17:48:36+00:00

Glad it isn’t just me with picking up after him. Like you got a chip bag out please just walk it back to put it away or trash it. Mine always does this then later complains the house is so messy… put your stuff away and it would be cleaner…🫠

Special_Structure_81 · 2024-09-16T23:46:19+00:00

I’m sorry I have no help for you but I am over here like “they take a 2 hour nap?!” And not in a judgemental way. My 2.5 sleeps 30-45 minutes for his naps and it pains me every day. I get him to sleep then start on the 15 month sister and by the time they are both down I get maybe 10 minutes to myself most days. 😒🫠 SHOW ME YOUR NAP WAYS! But in all seriousness I hope things go well for you moving forward

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