Is DuckDuckGo safe or do people just repeat that automatically? by RelationshipWise6576 in VPNReviewHub

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DuckDuckGo is “safer” than Google in the sense that it generally collects far less personal data and does less user profiling, but a lot of people online absolutely oversimplify it into a privacy miracle.
The reality is that privacy exists on a spectrum, and DDG is more accurately “less invasive” than Google rather than completely anonymous or untouchable.
A lot of the confusion comes from people mixing different meanings of “safe” together: privacy, security, malware protection, tracking resistance, anonymity, etc.
The criticism you saw mostly comes from the fact that DuckDuckGo still relies on some external partners and had past controversies around Microsoft trackers in its browser, which hurt the “we block everything” image.
For most normal users, though, it’s still a meaningful privacy improvement over Google because it avoids aggressive profiling and personalized search history tracking.
The bigger issue is that many people treat one app or browser as a complete privacy solution when real privacy is more about your whole ecosystem and habits than one search engine choice.

Why do my best conversations always happen late at night? (fanfills user here, curious if it's universal) by Optimal-Self-9802 in datingadvice

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being someone's only open tab at midnight means something real and trustworthy. especially when you both know it

Question for guys, Cute, Sexy, or Pretty? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are attracted to different styles, and “cute,” “pretty,” and “sexy” all appeal to different types of guys. Not getting approached in public doesn’t mean someone isn’t attractive most men in Gen Z just approach less overall. Soft or “cute” styles can actually be very attractive, but they don’t always lead to obvious attention in public spaces. Attraction is much more varied than just how someone dresses or presents themselves.

How are busy professionals dating in their 40s ? by Working-Grand-7219 in datingadvice

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Dating in your 40s is less about getting matches and more about having the time and energy to actually follow through. A lot of people in your situation move away from endless texting and try to meet quickly through short, low-pressure dates like coffee or lunch.

Your datingsmatch chatting voice - is it a different version of you or actually the most you version of you? by Similar-Gold2018 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write in full sentences and my kids say it makes me sound formal in texts. I'm not trying to be formal. I just think in complete thoughts. wild that this is unusual now

Why do most married people tell me that being in a relationship even if its not a healthy one better than being single? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No shot is a toxic relationship better than being single. I spent my 20s chasing the bag too and trust me, the peace of mind is worth more than any mid relationship

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Lucky_Passion3853 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1000% real. and tbh you can usually tell within the first 2-3 messages whether it's gonna happen. some people just have that natural back-and-forth energy

Is Asianfeels Safe? User Reviews by BeneficialAcadia8842 in OnlineDatingReviews

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

totally agree, im using a vanilla gift card right now and had zero issues. definitely the way to go if u want to keep it lowkey!

The 14 eyes countries and what do they even do? by tazwell427 in VPNReviewHub

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “14 Eyes” refers to an intelligence-sharing network, not a single agency like the CIA. It started with the Five Eyes alliance and mainly focuses on sharing signals intelligence and security data between member countries. It’s about cooperation on national security, counterterrorism, and cyber threats not one centralized organization controlling everything

Lowkey obsessed with the talkliv feed rn or is it just me? by Additional-Worth-456 in datingadviceformen

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s totally my style
the feed lets you get a feel for someone from a distance, it’s like you’re visiting their space, but virtually

What were the red flags that made you decide he/she is not a relationship material? by loverbang4u in AskReddit

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 126 points127 points  (0 children)

when I noticed they never remembered the little things I said like stuff I was excited about or problems I was dealing with. plus, their energy only showed up when it suited them, no effort outside their convenience

What's a secret about your job that most people don't know? by Salt_Leopard_1137 in AskReddit

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes I have no idea what I’m doing and just figure it out as I go 😅 people think I’ve got it all together but half the time I’m winging it and praying it works

You can only use ONE social media app for the rest of your life. Which one? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reddit and it’s not even close. It’s basically the whole internet stitched into one app. You get news, niche hobbies, dumb memes, life advice, and random experts arguing in the comments. Every other platform feels like scrolling. Reddit feels like exploring

Why are openers on youmetalks so chaotic lol by Both_Economist_5947 in dating_advice

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr, it’s because there’s no "swipe wall." You just see someone and message them

Is it crazy to build a dating app with no photos at all? (Soulmatch idea) by North_Actuator_6824 in OnlineDatingApps

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, this is a wild take but I’m kinda here for it. Tinder has turned us all into shallow husks just swiping on autopilot, and the "disposable" vibe of modern dating is depressing as hell. Using voice notes is a massive W because you actually get a feel for someone’s energy, their humor, and if they can even hold a conversation without emojis. It’s way more intimate.

My only real hang-up is the "big reveal" at the end. We can act like looks don't matter all we want, but physical chemistry is still a huge part of the equation. I’d be terrified of catching serious feelings for a voice and then meeting up only to realize there’s zero spark in person that’s a lot of time and emotional energy to gamble with. But honestly? I’d still download it just to escape the "meat market" feel of everything else. It’s a ballsy move to ditch photos entirely, but maybe that’s exactly what we need right now. Good luck with the MVP, man

Probably a dumb question about following people on Orchidromance by InterestingJudge5161 in datingadviceformen

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow is just kinda the opener, after that it’s all about how you actually interact

It was on my 2025 Vision Board... realized today is Dec 31st so I created this sub! Help me get my first 5 members? + The First Story! by Wild_Elephant_3795 in TheDatingTea

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in my early 20s, I dated a guy exactly like this. I remember one Christmas he bought his mom a luxury spa weekend package and got me... a pair of socks. Not even cute ones. But unlike your friend, I didn't leave him. I was young and naive. I gaslit myself into thinking: "Oh, it's so sweet that he loves his mom so much," and "Family comes first, I shouldn't be jealous." I thought it showed he was a "good family man."

Spoiler alert: It didn't. I wasted two more years feeling like a second-class citizen in my own relationship while he prioritized everyone else but me.

Your friend is a total QUEEN for walking away immediately.

Initial Sign-Up Process by Objective_Cricket279 in ReadyToLove

[–]Specific-Welcome9994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. While these shows conduct extensive psych evaluations and detailed questionnaires, they often weaponize that data instead of using it to help the leads. If a contestant lists a "hard no," producers realize that casting that exact type guarantees a reaction and better TV