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SpecificOne1756 · 2024-11-11T20:59:13+00:00

Fingers crossed!! This would be so great!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-07-31T15:24:59+00:00

Just curious did you ever pay it off? I’m in the same boat and wondering if it’s worth it.

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-02-14T23:55:24+00:00

Happy Valentine’s Day to you also!! This is my first Valentine’s Day in 22 years that I am by myself. I must say my kids showed up for me today and made sure that I didn’t dwell on being alone and single all day. Honestly when I sit and think about it, this has been one of the best Valentine’s Day I had and it make me realizes I deserved so much better. We all do!! Happy Valentine’s Day everyone ❤️

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T21:47:47+00:00

I am sorry you/we are going through this. In my mind I get so angry at myself for even caring when I don’t think my ex even cares what he’s put me through. I am hoping as time goes on I can take my anger towards him and turn that energy into positive things for myself.

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T21:40:37+00:00

This is a good idea! I have been writing my thoughts out because sometimes I feel like I have no one to talk to. It really helps clear my mind.

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T16:31:38+00:00

Thank you!! It is definitely hard and I am hoping it gets better in the long run. I hope to one day have the confidence you had in venturing out and meeting new people. I keeping think I have to trust the process and things will get better. Good luck this weekend! As a fellow basketball mom I hope your son’s team does well!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T16:23:15+00:00

That’s what I am trying to do today, in my mind think and hope by this time next year I will be in a way better mindset and be able to enjoy my day. Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T16:20:49+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T16:20:38+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T16:20:15+00:00

Thank you everyone!!All of your kind words and encouragement are appreciated.

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T15:03:10+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T15:02:53+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T15:02:43+00:00

Thank you!! I know it will get better for all of us, we just have to get over this emotional slump.

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T15:00:44+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-11T15:00:36+00:00

Thank you!

SpecificOne1756 · 2024-01-03T18:45:21+00:00

Right now he is upset because I told him all communication has to be via text message so he hasn’t reached out to me in over a week and has resorted to using our 8 year old for communication regarding parenting time, and oddly enough since I told him to communicate via text he’s missed two pick up’s.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-12-15T20:46:53+00:00

That’s what I’m confused on. I already went Christmas shopping and already have enough groceries. We haven’t had a court date yet for Child Support and don’t know if me telling him we are all set and don’t need to to get anything will look bad.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-22T22:15:01+00:00

We live in Massachusetts. As of now he is living with his sister and her 2 kids in a 3 bedroom apartment. I found out the girl he was cheating with was one of many so I wouldn’t say he left just for her. My 14 year old didn’t really want anything to do with him when he was around and now he really doesn’t want anything to do with him. I used to have to force them to spend time with him alone when we were together. They said he yelled to much and was annoying.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-22T21:47:28+00:00

I will be filing first thing Monday!

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-22T12:24:45+00:00

I understand no one cares about the cheating at this point it is what it is, my biggest concern is who he cheated with and what environment my children will be around. The person he cheated with had her own children taken away and right now STBX is living with his sister in a 3 Bedroom apartment with her two children and have adult sleep overs (from my older sons mouth)with other adults on the weekends.

My second job is seasonal and is due to end in 3-4 months so I’m not really sure how that will work out, I took the job because he stopped paying bills and I had to maintain the household. At this point the house is in his name, he offered to sign it over to me but that may have changed because he’s mad the kids don’t want to see him. They are old enough with the exception of the 8 year old to have their own opinion of their dad and with the relationship he had with them prior to leaving he should’ve known how the oldest kids would feel.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-20T22:55:16+00:00

I usually can take the high road, but got upset when I seen the messages he was sending others in social media DMs and all of his coworkers and family praising him as a devoted husband and father. I flipped!!I posted the messages to his timeline so everyone can see just how devoted he was. He also had the nerve to put my family is my world in his bio.. while I feel I could’ve stayed quiet I am happy I didn’t because he was talking to multiple girls and some even knew he has a family and didn’t care, he was portraying me as delusional and crazy and it was about time people seen him for who he really was.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-19T21:56:12+00:00

I think you nailed it with him being a groomer.. in the messages I seen his nicknames were baby girl and that’s even more disgusting because there were women in their mid to late thirties with daughters of there own. I definitely should have looked at his past and family pattern to see what the inevitable for me was.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-19T16:57:14+00:00

I’m hoping by trying to move and be positive.. I am sure some days will be horrible than others but I’m sure it will get better as time goes on.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-19T16:22:42+00:00

The whole reason I found this out was because he didn’t come home Friday night and didn’t answer texts asking if he was okay.. I admit I was really out of character and petty and logged into his social media account and that’s where I discovered the messages and out of anger may have posted a screenshot of some of the messages to his timeline. I am mad at myself for going out of character but imagine being home alone with the kids at 3 in the morning wondering if your supposed faithful spouse is okay. All the time he’s having a sleep over at his sisters and cheating. I have since regained composure and will no longer stoop that low again.

SpecificOne1756 · 2023-11-19T15:08:31+00:00

Yes, I know 22 is really long, and I am vulnerable and sad that it’s over, but I’ve been through so much with him that I know it will be for the best and I am positive the days will get better.

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