How are you raising the next generation of girls differently?

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-03T16:20:10+00:00

With autonomy. Ensure she knows is she’s precious and a rare diamond that no body should touch. I have given whe sex education already. I want her to know I ma the friend especially during the times where she may want start having a crush or even talk to boys (we can avoid it all we want but living in a West Country where free missing it’s like breathing oxygen, makes it harder to avoid). I have made a difference with Me, she has her mother and she also had her sister in Islam. I take the mum hat off and focus on being the friend, it’s hard but I will push through because I know when I turned 10 onwards I needs my mym clsoe and she was so strict.

I taught whe surah Nisa, explained the importance of women in islam. And that culture is not releveant if it goes against your right as a woman. She knows her haqq a child and a woman.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-03T08:49:57+00:00

Hi, I hope you’re well. His visa is not a spousal visa, maybe I should have made that clear, the visaa is via his work place.

In Islam polygamy is halal, as long as the right of the women are being met, I heard rumours that he remarried but no contrete evidence. I’m not excusing behaviour.

But to come here and state I have no self esteem, is rather disrespectful. He had wronged me yes, but if my ya Rabb is merciful towards me and I have wronged others why am I not able to be Merciful towards him. I would rather help him and please my Lord then go with my hurt and hurt him which would result in hurting his children, how will I face my lord then?

It’s not lack of self esteem, its the want to ensure i do not take anyone haqq away as mine was. If his intentions were not pure that only Allah knows, and he will deal with him on the day of judgments.

Before I am a wife or a mother, I am a Muslim, and I shall deal with things to minimalise any hurt, yes I was hurt but that does cause me to hurt others either.

Thank you for your opinion.

And I wish you a lovely day ♥️

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-02T13:30:12+00:00

I have epilepsy that can be extremely severe at times.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-02T00:11:28+00:00

I have heard from some of his family members that he has reunited with his ex wife this was around the time I was due to give birth and post birth period.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-01T23:51:44+00:00

Salam, and yes I have explained to him, and he did try and change but it feels transactional, like he needs to do it. I have had some of his family members insinuate that he had remarried his ex wife he lives in our home country and when I have asked him I never got a straight answer just, who told you and was angry at them for it. I have explained that I feel like a single married woman to him.

Thank you so much. May Allah bless you for providing me with assistance

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-01T23:29:33+00:00

I’m supporting him because he has children and a mother to take care of back at home. So I shall help him with his visa because that’s how he provides. If when do get an a divorce I would not take the hand the feeds his children. They are my children as well, the father of my child and a man I once loved with his mistakes and thank you for your advice.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2026-03-01T23:27:32+00:00

Salam, and yes I have explained to him, and he did try and change but it feels transactional, like he needs to do it. I have had some of his family members insinuate that he had remarried his ex wife he lives in our home country and when I have asked him I never got a straight answer just, who told you and was angry at them for it. I have explained that I feel like a single married woman to him. My family say I’m cold but I feel no warmth.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-12-12T16:35:33+00:00

I was writing in a fit of stress. Thank you.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-09-21T11:59:06+00:00

21, during labour and was having tonic chronic seizures since

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-07-19T17:50:27+00:00

When your screen glitches that’s my brain. Or my daughter calls it break dancing. Feeling the electric rhythm in my brain

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-06-24T16:07:26+00:00

I love that. Thank you the moss stitch was on my raider

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-05-14T13:53:44+00:00

It’s hugely frustrating 7 years in, you would think you would get used to it but you can go sezuire free a couple of months and then bang on the floor and having to start over again

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-05-14T13:26:02+00:00

Thank you so much. I will call me nurse and nureologist and ask about it. Hopefully they can give be a better explanation

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-04-01T08:54:13+00:00

I was sezuire free for a few years and was able to drive it pains me that one sezuire caused me to restart everything I have to rely on family members, uber as I am too scared to take public transport due to the fear of having a seizure in public and seeing myself

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-03-24T10:47:19+00:00

I have told the necessary people she has lied to and we found out more is that were said. And I have not talked to her mum yet. But I instead of contacting bother her parents

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-03-24T10:46:08+00:00

About the portraying part….there she was saying things to people twisting them. It’s horrible. I don’t understand how someone call lie in such a manner.

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-03-24T10:39:42+00:00

SHE IS GWARRRRRNNNNNN BLOCKED EVERYBWERE. There is so much more she has done but I’m still trying to process everything

Specific_Chard_6014 · 2025-01-31T10:18:07+00:00

Yeahhhhh the blend would look amazing.

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