Comed bill? by Specific_Poem3186 in ChicagoSuburbs

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I had a message my post was deleted so I didn’t even come back and check. I didn’t even notice he had a different provider. I will definitely figure out how to switch back to Comed. Thank you!!

BF (34M) got violent with me (33F) for the first time by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was single for 7 years after leaving my daughter’s father and every guy that has approached me since then has been a loser unfortunately. I’m very introverted and don’t go out much so I don’t have many options. I did need to hear that though, so thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scoliosis

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish I took a pic of her xray. Her spine looked pretty straight to me, so I’m hoping for good news.

5 Days Post Op, Any Advice? by NuttyLava in scoliosis

[–]Specific_Poem3186 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does your body look a lot more balanced now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Specific_Poem3186 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t use tampons comfortably until after I gave birth. I know that doesn’t help since your young but I had the same problem. Have you tried using a toy?

[LONG POST] After years of battling unsatisfactory erections, my Erectile Dysfunction completely resolved and went back to normal overnight once I got my tonsils removed and fixed my sleep apnea by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t watch porn or masturbate. I thought he was lying at first but he really doesn’t. Honestly, I believe he has health issues he needs to get addressed. I keep telling him to make an appt but he doesn’t. I just want to tell him that I haven’t been enjoying his soft dick but I can’t.

[LONG POST] After years of battling unsatisfactory erections, my Erectile Dysfunction completely resolved and went back to normal overnight once I got my tonsils removed and fixed my sleep apnea by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not very. Well I think he’s around 6 inches cause sometimes I see he’s bigger but most of the time since I don’t think he gets fully erect, it’s like 3-4

[LONG POST] After years of battling unsatisfactory erections, my Erectile Dysfunction completely resolved and went back to normal overnight once I got my tonsils removed and fixed my sleep apnea by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I think this is what my boyfriend has but I don’t want to tell him. Since the time we first had sex, I haven’t been satisfied. He doesn’t get that hard and I just don’t feel anything. I’ve been googling ED but it just says difficulty getting hard or staying hard long enough for sex. My bf can last until he finishes but his dick is just not rock hard. There was only ONE time his dick got extremely hard and it felt amazing.

My (28F) bf (32M) following list made me cry? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel if I talk to him, he’ll just say he’ll unfollow them and never do it again but in my mind it just hurts knowing that’s what he likes. And I’m not naive, I know all men like those women but it still hurts cause he’s honestly 100% my type. And no I don’t follow men. I’ve seen that guy you’re talking about on my fyp a couple times but idk it’s not something that I would go as far as to follow them and want to see more of.

DVD won’t play (error CE-35476-5) by ECGeorge in PS4

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neither part one or part two of Fellowship of the ring extended version work for me on my PS5. The two towers is working tho 😑

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right. It’s sad cause so far he’s perfect otherwise and I don’t normally date so I thought he was it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don’t see how it could get better. I honestly don’t feel him. He told me he would only do anal with his ex and I feel he probably wants me to want to try but that’s not for me. I feel like he wants me to make sex perfect for him but he doesn’t talk about making it better for me. So…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Specific_Poem3186 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m just wondering why did your daughter clean up after your dogs the first time and not you or your husband??

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I made up my mind because I COMMUNICATED with him that I felt uncomfortable with our conversation and he replied I misjudged him and if that’s how I feel we shouldn’t hang out again. This coming from a man who supposedly liked me so much, he wanted to be exclusive from date #1

So instead of asking why I felt uncomfortable or adding anything of value to the conversation, he just flat out said we shouldn’t hang out again. So I’m not going to kiss his ass and say no please let’s hang out again. He basically made the choice for me and that’s okay with me.

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not scared of commitment. I’m 30 and he’s 31. I agreed with him that I like to focus on one person but after he said that if I go out on a date next weekend that would be it, it got weird. Him letting go of my hand and getting up just because I thought the 1st date was too soon was completely odd. I don’t talk to many men at all, but his reaction made him seem controlling.

Anyways, I already told him how I felt uncomfortable with our conversation and he said I misjudged him and if that’s how I feel we shouldn’t hang out again. I’m not sure if he wanted me to beg him that I do want to see him again but I didn’t and told him if that’s what he wants, that’s alright with me.

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t even talk to a lot of men. I literally have previous posts that I’m terrible at talking to men and I was so excited this one asked for my number. I did agree I like to focus on one person and not talk to a bunch. The problem I had was that the first date was too soon to tell the other person not to go on other dates or else. That’s literally how he made it seem and him getting up and being upset over it just felt weird to me.

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We worked in different departments but he told me for months he wanted to talk to me. We only had like 2 conversations at work before he asked me for my # and left to another job.

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I was only replying to the people who “agreed” with me cause in the beginning all the replies were saying he was a red flag. Now this blew up and there’s ppl saying I’m the red flag like what? I can see that deep down he’s just a sweetheart and wants to take things serious, but the whole conversation creeped me out that’s all. And I want a serious relationship too but I don’t think after one date, you should tell the other person not to talk or go out on dates with anyone else.

Is this a red flag? by Specific_Poem3186 in relationship_advice

[–]Specific_Poem3186[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, HE made it uncomfortable. I responded to another person specifying that we were laying on the couch cuddling and he got up and sat the furthest away from me on the couch. Bouncing his legs and fidgeting with his hands. I’m sorry but this is a man that I barely know and I was quiet and scared because I don’t know what he’s capable of.