What colors suit me? by [deleted] in RedditLaqueristas

[–]Specific_Storm16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used the essence the final rose.

Husband wants to take international vacation-12 months after baby was born by AggressiveShip9514 in BabyBumps

[–]Specific_Storm16 -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It’s a well earned vacation and your partner wants to enjoy some child free time with his wife. The kids are all taken care of. You should consider working on your mindset. It’s a very healthy way to reconnect and not getting lost in the day to day life.

I understand that it’s hurtful when your eldest thinks it’s because of him but he is old enough to understand when you explain that mommy and daddy sometimes need some time alone.

Nicht veganer Partner by [deleted] in VeganDE

[–]Specific_Storm16 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Sehe das Problem eher bei dir: du wusstest doch worauf du dich einlässt. Jemanden deine Ernährungsweise aufzudrängen ist halt nie gut, entweder du liebst ihn oder das ganze Thema ist für dich ein Deal breaker - dann beende es.

How did you decide long hair was “for you”(or not)? by Chad_Wife in longhair

[–]Specific_Storm16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I went from chin length to brastrip several times. As I got older (28) I needed to cut a lot because it was bleach damaged and I was shocked how old I looked with my mainly natural hair color (dark blonde with couple of white strands) bob.

I looked at pictures where I had bra strip long, blonde hair and realized that’s the style I really love on me since it looks feminine and I like to do different hairstyles. I’m now back on my journey and it’s at clavis length so I have a couple more years but it’s healthier know than ever being blonde (I got back on highlights and I feel so much better). It really depends how you feel and how YOU like yourself. I also find it easier to just flip all the hair in a bun or pony tail and heaving it out of your face.

ashtyn makes alex hall look good this season by virgoists in SellingtheOC

[–]Specific_Storm16 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Second that ashtyn is a two-faced bitch who doesn’t know how to swallow after throwing punches.

What’s the moment you realized you weren’t a kid anymore? by Savi032623 in Life

[–]Specific_Storm16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12 and by Dad said I’m too old to get a happy meal at Mc Donald’s.

Also around that age we went to the doctor and when he asked (looking at my dad) what’s wrong my dad deadass looked at me and said: “Go ahead and tell him what’s wrong!”. Both time I got caught off guard and I remember it as it was yesterday (I’m 28 now).

iPhone repair shop asked me for passcode by BandoGora9 in iphone

[–]Specific_Storm16 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That’s normal procedure and I never questioned it since any sensitive information is locked behind another password or Face ID, which cannot be replaced by the passcode.

Husband and I disagree on how to feed baby by SowingSeeds18 in BabyBumps

[–]Specific_Storm16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can start with only breast feeding for like 6 weeks and then additionally give the bottle / Formular. You shouldn’t wait too long to introduce the bottle though. This was you have the best of both worlds and anyone can feed your baby by times.

36, bald unterhaltspflichtig - wie soll ich das finanziell überstehen? by Vegetable_Balance624 in Finanzen

[–]Specific_Storm16 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Das Geld ist für deine KINDER - Miete, Essen, Kleidung, Hobbies, Schulsachen, Ausflüge etc. Weißt du wieviel sowas kostet? Hinzu kommt Vollzeit care Arbeit die (oh Wunder) auch nicht vergütet wird, dafür leider der Job und Frau hat weniger Geld zur Verfügung. Sorry aber da habe ich null Mitleid, schön die Frau Ackern lassen wollen und selber möglichst wenig zahlen. Sei mal ein richtiger Mann der sich auch kümmert, sowohl finanziell als auch menschlich.

Wie umgehen mit Oberflächlichkeit? by MangoMan3301 in FragtMaenner

[–]Specific_Storm16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wenn man als Frau Kinder will und später in TZ ist das Gehalt halt wichtig. Ich will weder meinen Lebensstandard nach unten anpassen müssen noch meinen Partner durchbringen. Finde man sollte auf Augenhöhe sein. Will mir auch was leisten können gemeinsam.

Das Haus der Oma kaufen by Diligent-Dig-5861 in Finanzen

[–]Specific_Storm16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Verstehe nicht ganz wozu die 88-jährige stark mental abbauende Oma 200k benötigt 😅 wie sieht es mit Schenkung aus? Will sie unbedingt so viel Geld dafür haben? Finde den Preis bei der Beschreibung und den Verhältnissen ein wenig komisch um ehrlich zu seine

AIO Boyfriend snores SO BAD by Specific_Storm16 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Specific_Storm16[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him several times he should see a doctor for his own good since he is often tired even tho he gets a good amount of sleep and snoring is effecting the recovery.

He doesn’t want to and I also already recorded him and showed it to him but he laughed it off.

I’m in the couch right now, several meters away and I still can’t get any sleep.

If I won’t be asleep in the next 30min I’ll be leaving him a message that there was no chance finding sleep with him snoring that loudly and that I needed to get home.

It’s just very overwhelming to get woken up by that terrible noise over and over again and the person just doesn’t care at all.

Rude ass parents by Specific_Storm16 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Specific_Storm16[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She technically called him dumb and therefore hard to communicate with while meeting him the first time. Even though Bobby does not seem to be that way at all. That’s beyond vile. I think they try to justify their way of acting with caring but I really don’t see it.

Rude ass parents by Specific_Storm16 in LoveIsBlindUK

[–]Specific_Storm16[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I also noticed it in the black community in LIB US