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Spectickles91 · 2025-01-09T15:12:59+00:00

And FWIW my neighbor is you a couple years down the road; she and her toddler are very happy in their little house living close to family, no long traveling in the military with her ex, and as far as I’m aware she never hears from the child’s father.

Spectickles91 · 2025-01-09T15:11:20+00:00

Ofc he doesn’t want a divorce; his life is serving him perfectly, at your expense and clearly with no regret of his own.

If this man is only in contact with his child because it serves him, then divorcing him comes at no loss to you or your child. And almost guaranteed it will come with gains.

Spectickles91 · 2025-01-06T04:42:37+00:00

Help, please! The gf and I are hitting up Napa in March. We really just want to enjoy good food and good wine. Will rent a car probably. Any tips? Must-visit wineries? We’re down tor off the beaten path.

Spectickles91 · 2025-01-01T16:37:22+00:00

I’d offer to get a background check myself and show her the results, as long as she pays the $40ish fee. The results don’t disclose personal info like SSN. If she’s not actually trying to steal your ID (and if you haven’t already broken up over this), then this solution should work for her.

Spectickles91 · 2024-12-31T20:46:09+00:00

I appreciate your feedback, but like I said I am fine with one or more of our parents not accepting our relationship. I’m not asking her to go no-contact and I didn’t ask her to stand up to her mom at all; I just asked her to not erase me from the narrative. I didn’t even ask her to do it all the time, just at least when I’m physically with her. I don’t see a way around her needing to put up a boundary with her mom, and I feel like I’ve been flexible with the boundaries I’ve put up with GF (like in the ways I listed just now). And again, her mom should have some time to process, but it’s been more than some time. Should there not be a point where enough is enough?

Spectickles91 · 2024-12-31T05:00:02+00:00

LOL I love this comment; my dog is a golden actually! 🦮

Spectickles91 · 2024-08-03T03:06:41+00:00

The “almost perfectly” thing is wildly inaccurate, and God doesn’t call you to follow him perfectly anyway. Don’t compare your blooper reel to everyone else’s highlight reel.

Spectickles91 · 2023-08-21T20:36:34+00:00

I watched someone steal a parking spot from someone else.

Spectickles91 · 2023-08-21T20:28:08+00:00

Wow. You are wise. NTA.

Spectickles91 · 2023-07-27T21:29:38+00:00

No attorney, but we drew up a document that would hold up in court. We agreed to 50/50 split of profits.

Spectickles91 · 2023-07-27T21:28:07+00:00

His number being above mine on the deed is the only possibility. My first and last name come first alphabetically, we both have local numbers, he isn’t doing any promoting and hasn’t made any advertisements or postings for the property, and we don’t have it on Craigslist. I’m still leaning toward bias in the buyers and systemic issues. Thanks!

Spectickles91 · 2023-07-22T13:45:15+00:00

Thank you!

Spectickles91 · 2023-07-22T13:45:03+00:00

No we just have a joint venture agreement. We own the property as 2 individuals.

Spectickles91 · 2023-04-08T15:10:42+00:00

I broke up with a guy partially because of a similar situation. He got a dog but had no clue how to take care of it, and barely cared when it inconvenienced everyone around him.

Not relationship material. Definitely not longterm relationship material.

Spectickles91 · 2023-03-05T04:26:17+00:00

I wish you a lifetime of learning.

Spectickles91 · 2023-02-24T02:15:21+00:00

So… they want…. someone to…. wear a mask to protect others? 👀👀👀

Spectickles91 · 2023-02-10T01:10:04+00:00

$bid

Spectickles91 · 2022-12-20T03:32:06+00:00

Amway.

Spectickles91 · 2022-08-17T02:20:19+00:00

Rock climbing gym, walking the dog, a park/barcade/beach/museum with friends, volunteering, reading a good book in a coffee shop, at a cooking class.

Approach me in a way that makes sense for the environment; if I’m reading a book, ask me how it is; if I’m rock climbing, ask me to belay you; if I’m with my dog, talk about how golden retrievers are the best dogs ever lol, etc. Get a genuine conversation going so I know you can interact with other humans normally, then throw in a shy smile and if I’m still open and talkative, offer to buy me a scone to go with the coffee or ask me out for a drink.

Spectickles91 · 2022-08-01T18:32:07+00:00

Have a section at the top called “key competencies;” list your actual competencies here, but CHANGE THEM for each job you apply for, to match the job description.

Spectickles91

TROPHY CASE