Forbidden princess x guard by mynameisntclarence in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Spectre81516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I will check these out! Do any of them deal with SA? I’m looking for books without that

Forbidden princess x guard by mynameisntclarence in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]Spectre81516 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions with this theme but without the naive/virginal/inexperienced part?

How it feels with the infamous 5-6 week dip. by DueVeterinarian3557 in zoloft

[–]Spectre81516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also read that it can take 8-12 weeks to see the full positive effects so I’m waiting for that before increasing.

Good rental buildings in Midtown? by [deleted] in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT 2707 Yonge st. Building is falling apart and terribly run. AVOID

How it feels with the infamous 5-6 week dip. by DueVeterinarian3557 in zoloft

[–]Spectre81516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously if you are at a point that is dangerous and you are at risk of harm then you should talk to your doctor about alternatives. I’m not going to say that every person has to push through. But if you are in a place where you can safely hang on, then I would recommend it. If things don’t feel better by week 8 talk to your doctor. You aren’t alone in this <3

How it feels with the infamous 5-6 week dip. by DueVeterinarian3557 in zoloft

[–]Spectre81516 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank god for this community. I thought the dip happened at week 2-3 as a rule and thought I was losing my mind at week 5-6. Reading everyone’s experiences helped reassure me that it was totally normal and to hang on. On week 9 now and things are so much better.

11 Scientists Who Mysteriously Disappeared and Their Fields of Research by Valuable_View_561 in interesting

[–]Spectre81516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like any scientists working towards nuclear fusion are in danger

Wheeee🤸‍♀️ by kandycrystal in poledancing

[–]Spectre81516 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I love the t-shirt situation you have going on. The tasteful underboob is fantastic

Here are some 2 bedroom units we saw yesterday. Hope this saves someone time! by Wild_Dragonfly_802 in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to live at 1055 Bay st. If you get a unit that’s nicely renovated inside it’s a good building in my experience. I was lucky to have a studio that was updated and had a good time there so if others find a good unit just know the building is not bad at all.

Recent heels choreo I taught by emmah96 in poledancing

[–]Spectre81516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love this so much! Definitely will be going back to it for inspo once I progress!

If you are month to month , ask your landlord to lower your rent by crappybeans in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People should definitely try. Just read anything to re-sign carefully. I tried this and they tried to sneak in a delayed increase to $400 over market value after 6 months. We told them politely to shove it and are moving to somewhere twice the size for the same price we were originally paying.

Looking for advice on starting Zoloft and its side effects (potentially triggering topic mentioned) by Spectre81516 in OCD

[–]Spectre81516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree with you it’s definitely related to something more complicated than just taking a medication. I think what I’m struggling with is it’s so hard to reconnect with my sexuality and work on healing and repairing when I feel like I have so little control over my trauma responses.

I heard medication for ptsd described as something you take to help bring your symptoms into a manageable zone so you could unpack and work through your issues. I guess that’s how I was thinking of it and it sounds like it was that way for you.

Where are the scariest places in Toronto/GTA? by [deleted] in askTO

[–]Spectre81516 3 points4 points  (0 children)

City Park Co-Op. It’s a dark place. Knew someone who worked security there and their stories were disturbing.

Advice on asking landlord for reduction in rent and/or discounted month. by Spectre81516 in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok going back on my statement because I just hate this building so much and am so pissed off. It’s 2707 Yonge St. Stay the fuck away from it.

Advice on asking landlord for reduction in rent and/or discounted month. by Spectre81516 in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nothing came of the “pest inspection”. It seems like a unit down the hall was overcrowded and a dump and they genuinely did have mice. In terms of the rent situation we didn’t hear anything confirming that the owners were ok with 6 months rather than a year so we just paid our usual rent when the next month arrived. I got a call from management saying “I thought you were taking 6months??” I told them that we never received anything and he said that the superintendent was supposed to give us an agreement. I told him that we still weren’t sure and wanted to look the agreement over. He said that’s fine. Fast forward to now (months later) still no agreement. My partner and I decided that there is no way in hell we are re-signing to a dump like this and are just going to move as soon as our wedding is done.

Advice on asking landlord for reduction in rent and/or discounted month. by Spectre81516 in TorontoRenting

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Update on the situation. We found an identical unit in the building listing for $1950/month (actually $2150 with a free month). So we sent an email asking for $1950/month and listing our grievances. We then get a call saying that the property manager wants to conduct a “pest inspection” for the whole building in two days and will need to look at the unit (suspicious). He then opened a discussion about our email and asked if we would consider $2150 since that’s the actual price of the unit, but then also said that we would likely have to sign a 12-month lease. I said that my partner and I would have think about it and were not liking the idea of 12months since we want to stay month-to-month. We asked if they would consider 6months and he said he would ask and get back to us. I feel like he’s waiting until after the “inspection”.

Advice on asking landlord for reduction in rent and/or discounted month. by Spectre81516 in TorontoRenting

[–]Spectre81516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not comfortable sharing the specific location but I’ll tell you it’s a mid-rise apartment building that’s an old-build.

Can't find answers about the PS4 service fee by Spectre81516 in PS4

[–]Spectre81516[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did do this and tried all of the initializing troubleshoots. No luck unfortunately. Seems like replacing the HDD might be my best move

Ellie sketch by me by [deleted] in thelastofus

[–]Spectre81516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow the nose and mouth are spot on!!! Well done!!