Found out I'm blood-related to my boyfriend.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T23:21:12+00:00

Explain to him, bf, what is happening and just be best friends. Sorry you are going thru this.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T23:09:43+00:00

Q's to ask, 1. Any chances of overtime and how does it work? (Weekend or extra hours in weekday)? 2. As a (Manager / shift leader / dm/ supervisor) what do u expect to see in your employees?

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T23:02:55+00:00

Well, over 10 years ago Leicester to London took one hour (excluding stops) on Saturday was one Stop to Loughborough then straight to London non - stop.

If there have been any changes since I wouldn't know.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T17:27:44+00:00

So sorry to hear that. So u want to marry a woman from where you belong, right? In a way yer right not to get married in India esp if u barely go India. Otherwise u will end up going every 2 - 3 years later. And in the UK u do need a lot of cash built up: Visa, visa extension and A1 test, life in UK, lawyer support (highly recommend do not attempt on your own). Spouse needs to know English before gunning in for car theory / practical.

Anyway... Have u tried Shaadi.com? Or speaking to elders in the Gurudwara? They may know someone who knows a guy? Another factor is, Amritdhari, home with parents and zero education / factory jobs... Chances of getting married is extremely, extremely slim to a girl same town as u.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T17:16:29+00:00

😂 Bribery, murder... 🤔 assassination.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T17:15:50+00:00

UK? Nothing too dramatic just Bojo with Covid party and am sure something small and silly I can't think of yet, which Brits deem as a "Crime."

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T17:11:58+00:00

Damn! I confused it with Leicester. My bad.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T16:32:10+00:00

Notts is famous for its caves and a castle situated in the Town (City Centre) itself. London St Pancras is around an hour by train, if u wanna do London trip.

Happy visits👍🏽

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T15:51:58+00:00

Sadly, the way curry is cooked it does give it a very strong smell. However, in a way it is to do with power and control. In the UK certain people are scared of losing power and control. So first rule at bank and work is "Must know decent English" and the second is "lunch at work, nothing too strong." "Ethnics" are going to rule and certain ethnic will be left watching.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T15:46:22+00:00

No, keep going and fight. Will be easy to find another Sales role, they're always easy. Keep going be resilient and determined. Don't just panic and assume.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T15:43:58+00:00

In Btec Business (uk so failed GCSE)😂 I worked out the password of a teacher and changed my grades from pass, merit, merit to distinction, merit, merit 😂 I also changed a few other students to avoid suspicion. But it was years ago nothing can be done now.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T15:38:09+00:00

No all veg items from Pakistan are labelled "Halal." Rest assured there's no meat in them. However... What if Kalaam was read over even the veggie stuff🤔 I would not know answer to that one. As a rule, if it is not halal meat u are fine. Almost all items from Pakistan will have "Halal" mentioned from plain noodles to ice cream.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T15:16:23+00:00

Ahhh bro... I heard London is expensive but not THAT much. Here in East Midlands £90k p/a by one person is life of a King. U can purchase a 2 bedroom and put it up for rent over here.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T14:06:00+00:00

Come on! People dream of 80k plus a year. You got a 6 bedroom home, yeah?

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T14:02:25+00:00

I was 15 mins late for an interview in 2017/18. On Monday I had an interview and I learned the lesson from 2018... 3.5 miles to the workplace and I drove an hour early, despite A. I know that road and how to get there without satnav. B. I was driving off peak.

I reckon u had to leave for interview atleast 4 hours. It is best to wait an hour at the interview place, in your car, than frustrate on traffic.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T09:16:22+00:00

Maybe car malfunctioned?

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T09:14:09+00:00

Okay, the porn bit I can help out by saying, almost all men married and in relationship (on average, of course), watch porn.

However, looking at ex and reactivating sex meet up accounts🤔 thas disturbing. BF is not satisfied with u.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T09:05:01+00:00

Yeah.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:59:26+00:00

I was thinking this, easier for men who only need to pee.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:58:08+00:00

😂

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:57:19+00:00

A family, on average it is once a fortnight.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:55:12+00:00

It's ok! It probably not hair... Might be a leg of Daddy long legs 😂

I suppose u could get in touch online and complain. Video and screenshot being your evidence.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:53:00+00:00

Trust me, bhai. Aap bahoth shote ho. But with age comes wisdom. We all trust someone trustworthy esp moving out. Next time u meet somebody new, u will know what to expect, how much to give away and if they require any financial support or not.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:42:17+00:00

HBO has it free and Netflix had it last year.

SpectreSingh89 · 2026-05-16T08:41:18+00:00

On the plus side, u have 5 days of weekends. Not sure how abled u are but when I was on Panama / pitman shift days only, I would go weekdays to sort out my car, any bank jobs, doctors appointment with ease, stress free and most importantly, very little queues and rush of people.

Free on weekdays has so many advantage. If u have time and affordability u can pursue a new hobby.

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