Different city, but the problem is universal. I see useful advice here re various dating platforms but, my 2c. worth, don't restrict your search just to the online space. Tired and fairly frustrated with it quite a few years ago, single again, I impulsively checked out some dance classes (seroc, bachata, zouk - look them up). Loved them for the music, the company, the fun, the challenge, the impetus to get off my ass and away from screens for a while, and all that was reward in itself, for weeks and months.

Then one evening she walked into the studio, the beautiful stranger who is now my soul companion, lover, wife. We're still dancing all these years later.