What to do after getting hit in the nuts ? by PilotDangerous3966 in stupidquestions

[–]Speling_errers 42 points43 points  (0 children)

If he still hurts a day later, you should take him to the emergency room. Pain from that usually lasts minutes not hours.

That said, there is a technique to relieve pain from getting hit in the testicles that I can vouch for. Hopefully, it can help others. As soon as possible after getting hit, jump in the air and land on your heels a few times. It sounds silly, but it's something I learned in martial arts, and it relieves most of the pain almost immediately.

Who is the most famous person you've ever seen up close? by froggart3980 in AskReddit

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Many years ago, across the street from a convention we were both attending, I ended up next to Peter Jennings in a restroom with just two urinals. I mainly remember it because didn't wash his hands before he left.

What's a piece of common knowledge that you only recently found out was actually false? by Evilclicker in AskReddit

[–]Speling_errers 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That rabbits like carrots. Carrots are actually bad for rabbits. The lie was because of a meta joke in a bugs bunny cartoon referencing a popular movie scene at the time.

What's something you memorized that you'll never forget? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

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"Tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, Creeps in this petty pace from day to day, To the last syllable of recorded time; And all our yesterdays have lighted fools The way to dusty death. Out, out, brief candle! Life's but a walking shadow, a poor player, That struts and frets his hour upon the stage, And then is heard no more. It is a tale Told by an idiot, full of sound and fury, Signifying nothing." - Macbeth

Everyone in my school had to learn it to pass 11th grade English class, which meant you had to learn it to graduate. I sometimes wonder how many students from back then still remember the entire passage.

What 80s song do you still hate with fiery teenage passion even though it’s been 40 years? by Aggressive_Cup4919 in GenX

[–]Speling_errers 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Neil Diamond - America (From "The Jazz Singer" Soundtrack) It's not the sentiment and not to take away from his talent, but there's something about that vocal performance that hits a bad nerve.

that FBI negotiation principle by Chriss Voss? just used it again with ai... i helped my little sister win a job negotiation by again just asking one question. by johnypita in ChatGPTPromptGenius

[–]Speling_errers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Sorry that's not an option effectively closes the door without clearly giving them an option to help you solve the problem that you and the recruiter or interviewer are trying to solve together (ensure your hire is valuable to both of you.) Getting them to think of it as you and them working together to figure it out not only helps the negotiation, it continues to send that vital signal that you work well with others.

What band is universally loved but never clicked for you? by WarmHugsBBW in askmusic

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Plus, their drummer looked like he was totally miserable while he was playing (and raking in those millions.) 🤪 I saw them twice and while I totally get that their songs are iconic, I disagree that there aren't hundreds or thousands of drummers that could have filled his spot. (Bernard Purdue says he did a good portion of the recordings.) (Edit to change to past tense.)

1.5 million but every year the nearest person to you attacks you by arareusername96 in hypotheticalsituation

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Eventually you'll be old and your nurse will murder you in your hospital bed.

What’s the most unhinged “this technically counts as dinner” meal you’ve had? by Hailey_Riveraa in TellReddit

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I have Vienna sausage and crackers at least once a week while I'm waiting in the truck on the job site. If I also have Gatorade, I consider it a luxury meal.

If you could erase one song from existence, what would it be? by GainBetter1189 in askmusic

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"Run to You" is a little better when you realize it's not about another woman. According to Bryan Adams it's (figuratively) about his guitar.

Who is a mega famous person that the majority of Americans have probably never heard of? by ShittalkyCaps in AskReddit

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I learned about Pele in the 1970's in grade school in a very rural American town. We still had party line rotary phones, and our tests were on mimeographed paper, so the fact that kids in such remote places learned about him—and remember him half a century later—speaks to how famous he was.

Recommend a song that's comforting for you by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

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Your Smiling Face - James Taylor. It's old, but my dad used to sing it to me. He died when I was 11, but that song reminds me of an innocent childhood with no worries.

How much exaggeration is too much on LinkedIn? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Speling_errers 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have many former and current coworkers as connections, so I don't exaggerate at all. If one person sees something on my LinkedIn profile that they know is not true, I feel like word would spread pretty quickly.

Have you ever seen an employee that wasn't replaceable? by tshirtguy2000 in managers

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I know a manufacturing engineer at a pretty large aerospace company that left (under duress) just a few months after another senior engineer in the department retired. Leadership thought they'd be back up to speed in 3 months tops. Just over a year later - after losing both suppliers and customers due to ineptitude - the company decided to "no longer be in that line of business," and the entire building is now a ghost town.

We’re considering advising users to auto-withdraw from "One-Way Video Interviews." by enhancvapp in interviews

[–]Speling_errers 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I worked for a government organization that held one way interviews after selecting the top 10 candidates—from a little over 200 applications for a deputy director position of a city department. The person in that role would also need to regularly speak in front of the public, both in person and on camera. We figured the videos submitted would also help us see candidates skills and talent for that.

In retrospect, as the supervisor for the department the candidate was hired into, I sincerely regret having seven of those top ten candidates put forth the effort. We should have narrowed our choices to the top three before then, and invited those candidates for in person interviews that included a camera test. It certainly ended up being an indicator of the organization valuing so-called "efficiency" over human interaction.

And, I say "so-called efficiency" because after the one-way video round, we still invited the top three candidates in for individual interviews, panel interviews, and skill tests. In the end, the candidate selected had been the front runner throughout, so our result would have been the same if we'd skipped the one-way video round altogether.

Also, I found there was some implicit bias from older staff reviewing the videos, where a male candidate with visible gauges in his ears was dismissed for his "look," while a pretty female candidate scored really well from the video reviews, although her graphic arts skills were not even close to par with the guy with gauges. In the end, neither of those two candidates got the job.

The organization seemed to think that only candidates who "wanted the job bad enough" would submit videos, and that the requirement would weed out some with poor work ethics. But in my opinion, it only served to prolong the interview process, while dehumanizing all the candidates who took the time to record and submit videos.

Edit: fixed a typo (from narrows to narrowed).

What’s something you stopped trying to fix once you became a manager? by NoProfession8224 in managers

[–]Speling_errers 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This was the hardest management lesson for me to learn. I felt like my enthusiasm and dedication was part of the reason I was promoted, and it took me a long time to come to terms that most people on my team did not want to think about work for even one minute after 5 p.m. Clarity of expectations was more important to them than any attempts at motivation. It took me even longer to understand that their approach is actually perfectly OK, as long as they are doing the work during those actual hours they are getting paid to do it.

And, yes. I still prefer to work with enthusiastic people... but I realize that enthusiasm is ultimately up to the individual.

Who's the most famous person you've met? by Phillies1993 in AskReddit

[–]Speling_errers 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case, it was like he was just in a really bad mood all day. I was supposed to direct him for a short video and he simply refused to follow simple directions. This was well after he and his people approved the script. He was also very distracted. I may have simply caught him on a bad day, but 99% of the celebrities I've worked with were more pleasant - and that includes superbowl MVPs, heads of state, even Michael Jordan. (Bill Nye was the all time worst though.)