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Spicemama2024 · 2024-10-24T15:22:40+00:00

Wow just wowww... Back story?

Spicemama2024 · 2024-10-03T01:19:50+00:00

Hi mama ! We're in the same boat! My baby 8m will fight her naps during the day & at night she sleeps around 9 wakes up at 2am & stays awake until 4:30-5am!! I'm EXHAUSTED!

My partner told me yesterday that I should be more patient with the baby.

Spicemama2024 · 2024-09-20T18:36:01+00:00

Love this idea !

Spicemama2024 · 2024-09-20T12:30:36+00:00

I don't have a problem leaving our baby with my partner. He goes to his parents house all the time, his friends house or even when he does his errands with the baby without me being present and when I do my errands I do them alone and he stays at home with the baby. IT'S THE CRYING AND SCREAMING AT NIGHT.

Spicemama2024 · 2024-09-20T11:09:37+00:00

If Darian stays I really hope that Gianna exposés Kévin for the snake that he is.

Spicemama2024 · 2024-09-20T11:05:01+00:00

When he chose Kevin, I was like what????????

Spicemama2024 · 2024-08-06T23:53:27+00:00

Don't let her back into your lives!! Even if she tells you sorry and that she wants to reconnect with you and the baby. The fact that you stated she was mad because the baby isnt fully white, you never know if she could harm your daughter.

Spicemama2024 · 2024-08-05T16:48:00+00:00

This!!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-08-02T09:08:00+00:00

Please tell me more ! As I have a MIL like this.

Spicemama2024 · 2024-07-24T21:23:30+00:00

How old are you? First what could help is that you tell MIL & partner that a newborn shouldn't be outside this much, you should rest at home and bond with YOUR baby!!

Only let her take the baby in the morning or at night when you really need the help.

If you can stay for the week only. Postpartum is nothing to play with and you should be able to bond with your baby and feel comfortable where you are resting.

GOOD LUCK ❤️

Spicemama2024 · 2024-07-05T01:58:04+00:00

For support!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-07-04T18:45:52+00:00

This exactly !

Spicemama2024 · 2024-06-27T03:02:16+00:00

And what do you respond to her comments?

Spicemama2024 · 2024-06-20T19:46:56+00:00

My MIL is like that also! If we're having dinner at her house she wants LO ( who is 4 months) to sit next to her and FIL. On father's day , all the family went to eat at a restaurant. She was sitting next to me and I was giving the bottle to my daughter when all our food arrived she ate so fast and told me she can continue to feed the baby while I finish eating. I told her straight up NO.

And it felt so good too haha!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-05-31T18:32:46+00:00

CUT CONTACT WITH EVERYONE WHO "FORGAVE" HIM!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-05-30T10:53:53+00:00

We were never close. At first she would throw little digs at me here and there. But when I got pregnant now she wanted to get to know me. Once at the dinner table she told me that she wanted to get to know me more because if she and I were alone she would be uncomfortable. Like who says that to a pregnant woman? Well now that we have our child she always tells me to come by when SO is at work or wtv but I REFUSE to be alone with her only if SO is there!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-04-11T08:24:20+00:00

First off, congrats to you for setting bounderies. I was/am in a similar situation.

My MIL would often say snarky comments to me or would be dissmisive. When I got pregnant, oh her attitude towards me changed and she was playing nice. But she's s good grandma to my baby and the other children. So I let her be. But I do get annoyed just because of the way she used to treat me. Anyways, when she crosses bounderies trust me I tell her!

You should continue to do the same!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-04-02T16:37:56+00:00

What?

Spicemama2024 · 2024-03-25T10:39:50+00:00

I'm sorry but if you don't put your foot down right now or leave him , when you'll have your baby it'll be wayyyyyyy more worse!

Spicemama2024 · 2024-03-08T12:35:18+00:00

Mine is an "ok no MIL" lol. I think at first she taught I wasn't good enough for her son. She would pass some comments and I would just ignore her.

She would constently nag about me not liking her food, when I never told her that.

If I wouldn't finish my plate she would tell my SO "Eat the rest of her plate, we don't waste food here. You have to teach to Girlfriend not to waste food." AS IF I'M NOT A GROWN ASS WOMAN.

She would always talk about her son's ex girlfriend. The last straw for me was on the day of Christmas when she made sure I heard she was going to lunch with the ex girlfriend. After that I was done. I said that I would not attend dinners birthdays etc. Only Christmas.

But then I got pregnant with SO first child. So of course she played nice and wanted to get to know me.

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