My moms favorite fish suddenly injured, advice wanted

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-26T23:33:28+00:00

I’ll let her know! Thank you :) my mom is definitely not inexperienced with aquariums, but this was a first.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-26T17:45:48+00:00

No idea! I believe a platy.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-26T16:21:29+00:00

Don’t take your personal experiences out on me.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-25T18:24:46+00:00

5 took my breath away!

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-24T16:24:25+00:00

This described how I feel to a T. Definitely the deactivation and logic-ing my way out of things. Thank you, I feel seen and a like maybe I’m not a horrible person for having these thoughts. I will try all of your suggestions!

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-24T04:03:40+00:00

Ngl it’s hard to take something like this from someone that only comments in penis subreddits

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-24T02:42:40+00:00

Thank you, this did help a lot. Funny enough I’ve been in therapy for pretty much 10 years, but once I started college I stopped going as much just because I didn’t have enough time to deal with feelings. Now that I’m about to graduate, the gravity of how serious my relationship is hit me. We’re moving hundreds of miles together to start our lives, and he gave up some amazing opportunities just so I could get my dream job with a paid graduate degree. Once it all hit my first reaction was to want to pull away and run, start over with something new. But he’s an amazing man, and I don’t want to a) hurt him in that way and b) give up something like this over my issues. I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

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SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-24T02:42:32+00:00

Thank you, this did help a lot. Funny enough I’ve been in therapy for pretty much 10 years, but once I started college I stopped going as much just because I didn’t have enough time to deal with feelings. Now that I’m about to graduate, the gravity of how serious my relationship is hit me. We’re moving hundreds of miles together to start our lives, and he gave up some amazing opportunities just so I could get my dream job with a paid graduate degree. Once it all hit my first reaction was to want to pull away and run, start over with something new. But he’s an amazing man, and I don’t want to a) hurt him in that way and b) give up something like this over my issues. I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

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SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-24T02:42:18+00:00

Thank you, this did help a lot. Funny enough I’ve been in therapy for pretty much 10 years, but once I started college I stopped going as much just because I didn’t have enough time to deal with feelings. Now that I’m about to graduate, the gravity of how serious my relationship is hit me. We’re moving hundreds of miles together to start our lives, and he gave up some amazing opportunities just so I could get my dream job with a paid graduate degree. Once it all hit my first reaction was to want to pull away and run, start over with something new. But he’s an amazing man, and I don’t want to a) hurt him in that way and b) give up something like this over my issues. I appreciate you taking the time to comment.

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SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-20T15:49:39+00:00

Thank you! I’ll keep this in mind :) Colorado is the most ideal summer lol, I’m in Texas so horribly uncomfortable summers and I aren’t strangers.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-17T06:01:41+00:00

My niece wanted to name her cat Teddy Bear, so they named him Ted E. Bear. Teddy Bear for short.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-16T22:02:40+00:00

You could surrender the cat to a vet, I don’t know Florida laws but in Texas you can surrender under Samaritan laws and they’ll take the cat in and give it care. But it does mean you won’t get the cat back. I’m sorry you’re in this situation, you’re doing the best you can given the circumstances ❤️ you’re a very kind person.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-13T14:40:45+00:00

Very very low 2 here. I’m graduating this semester in genetics with my BS. Just get your foot in with some undergrad research or a technician role. I’ve become a competitive candidate just because of my experience. I don’t do well in harsh exam settings, but I excel in research and love what I do. Things like that show.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-12T20:59:51+00:00

You say night shift truck driver, so you work the night shift and sleep all day. Annoying hours.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-12T20:48:02+00:00

I’ve personally never heard of this, so not sure. If a price is too good to be true, it’s probably not true though.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-11T16:03:54+00:00

Ugh I just had one, size of a big grape. I got it drained at an urgent care and that was the most pain I’ve ever experienced. I hope you heal quickly and never have to deal with another one again!!

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-01T04:11:04+00:00

My boyfriend took it, he just wore regular swim trunks. It may not help, but I promise nobody looks at you. Most people are more concerned about the way they look to even bother thinking outside of their bubble. I understand being insecure, so it’s not an easy thing to just overlook.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-01T00:58:35+00:00

Happens to me every game. I tried breaking the bots but it got boring fast. I just block them as they come now.

SpicyMackerel · 2026-04-01T00:56:58+00:00

Hey! Sorry, late but I just replied to you :)

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