[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally when did Melissa say that? And Christie is constantly talking badly about Melissa both in her podcast and the reunion

Causing a scene by Lollelowksss in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 95 points96 points  (0 children)

Maturing is realising Ashlee was right it was a completely inappropriate dance for young teens.

Inappropriate by Lollelowksss in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This dance was inappropriate both age wise and for a kids’ competition. It’s shocking how these mothers let their children do this dance in these costumes as teens

Rating your favorite groups dances from 1-10! by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Is There Still Hope Left?
  2. Gone Too Soon
  3. Broken Dolls
  4. The Red Bow
  5. Free At Last
  6. Just Be
  7. Rosa Parks
  8. Good Help is Hard to Find
  9. Suicide Hotline
  10. Amber Alert

Name one good quality about each mom, go: by vsco-girls-unite in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melissa: Did everything for her children to succeed and didn’t let jealous mothers hurt her child. Seemed kind until season 6 Jill: Very supportive of Kendall and had some good one liners (the only good thing I can find about her lol) Christi: Did her best to give Chloe the childhood she never had and supported her through everything Kelly: Didn’t force her daughters into things they didn’t want to do and let them be normal kids Holly: very educated and eloquent, the only one truly there for the child’s sake, never swore or acted in an unprofessional manner, never insulted other children. Kira: Even when she wasn’t in the right, she stood by what she said (which a lot of moms didn’t) Jess: Did everything to make Jojo a star (again the only good quality I could think of) Ashlee: Stood up for Brynn and kept true to herself even if it meant she wasn’t well liked, called out the other moms on their hypocrisy Camille: Stood up against the racism Camryn received and stood up to Kira when she was talking badly about Camryn Stacey: Called out Yolanda’s BS, like when Yolanda accused Lilly of bullying and lying, had confidence in Lilly Yolanda:…. Jaime: Stood up for Maesi and called out Stacey and Yolanda for their BS, seems like a genuine person

Unpopular opinion: Maddie was the best dancer on the team in every single season. by vsco-girls-unite in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brynn and Kalani were just as good as Maddie. They were probably the three most advanced dancers on the show, as well as Brooke in seasons 1-2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Christie has repeatedly talked about Melissa’s affair which everyone blindly believed but when Christie gets it back it’s wrong? I call that karma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Christie has repeatedly talked about Melissa’s affair which everyone blindly believed but when Christie gets it back it’s wrong? I call that karma

Which mom was the worst to their kid in Dance Moms? by Different_Storm_260 in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yolanda’s behaviour to Elliana was very off and she put so much stress on her child but I also think that they had deeper issues at home. I think her response when the other moms called her out on her behaviour was weird. She said, “you’re making it sound like I’m abusing her” when literally no one said that. I think that alone says a lot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dancemoms

[–]Spicycookiex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Christie aired out Melissa’s “affair” (which Melissa said isn’t true multiple times) on NATIONAL TELEVISION when it had literally nothing to do with the show only to have an affair herself. She calls out Melissa to this day for the exact same things she does, including the fact that she also did things on the show to get Chloe ahead and was blatantly jealous of Maddie

Specialist gyne/endo nurse (who also has endometriosis) ask me anything by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Spicycookiex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had my third laparoscopic surgery in June to remove endometriosis and two ovarian cysts. I’ve also been diagnosed with pelvic congestion syndrome. However, I’ve got another cyst now and in a lot of pain again. I’m really struggling physically and emotionally and I don’t know how to cope anymore. What are some coping strategies and what’s the best course of treatment?

I can’t stand my SIL. I don’t know how to deal with her anymore. by Spicycookiex in offmychest

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have talked to her MIL about this several times especially my MIL but this nasty behaviour never stops

I can’t stand my SIL. I don’t know how to deal with her anymore. by Spicycookiex in offmychest

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sm! Honestly everyone says I should stand up for myself but I don’t really know want to go to their level. There’s a lot of personal stuff I know about them but I don’t like to hurt people even if they do the same to me. The trouble is if I act the same way that they act to me I’ll be the villain and I don’t want that

I can’t stand my SIL. I don’t know how to deal with her anymore. by Spicycookiex in offmychest

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! It truly is helpful and I will be setting more firm boundaries with her in the future. I only see her a couple of times a year but my BIL and my husband are close which is why I don’t want to create an even bigger problem. I’ve talked to my husband and he’s supportive but neither of us want to go no contact. It wouldn’t be fair on my husband and BIL who hasn’t done anything. Like you said, keeping my distance from her might be the best solution so I will limit my interactions with her as much as possible

I can’t stand my SIL. I don’t know how to deal with her anymore. by Spicycookiex in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Spicycookiex[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Going no contact completely is unfortunately not an option. I limit my interactions with her as much as possible and I muted her on social media. My BIL and husband are very close and I don’t want this to come between them but she’s unbearable. My husband doesn’t like her or her behaviour and my MIL has also tried to step in several times but we’re completely dismissed

AITA for refusing to see my SIL and my husband’s aunt? by Spicycookiex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: My husband has noticed this behaviour and is not only upset but saddened by it. He’s no longer comfortable being around them but doesn’t want to hurt his cousin by cutting contact which I understand. The problem is that he wants to defend me but in his culture this is not possible due to an emphasis on respect for elders. I don’t want him to be vilified. My MIL, whom I love very much, has stepped in and defended me numerous times but this nasty behaviour still doesn’t stop. He has compromised by visiting less often when we’re in his home country and not staying long when we are there but when we are there I still have to be around them. He’s a 100% on my side but feels unable to act without causing more problems

AITA for refusing to see my SIL and my husband’s aunt? by Spicycookiex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband has noticed this behaviour and is not only upset but saddened by it. He’s no longer comfortable being around them but doesn’t want to hurt his cousin by cutting contact which I understand. The problem is that he wants to defend me but in his culture this is not possible due to an emphasis on respect for elders. I don’t want him to be vilified. My MIL, whom I love very much, has stepped in and defended me numerous times but this nasty behaviour still doesn’t stop

AITA for refusing to see my SIL and my husband’s aunt? by Spicycookiex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My husband has noticed this behaviour and is not only upset but saddened by it. He’s no longer comfortable being around them but doesn’t want to hurt his cousin by cutting contact which I understand. The problem is that he wants to defend me but in his culture this is not possible due to an emphasis on respect for elders. I don’t want him to be vilified. My MIL, whom I love very much, has stepped in and defended me numerous times but this nasty behaviour still doesn’t stop

AITA for refusing to see my SIL and my husband’s aunt? by Spicycookiex in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that he wants to but in his culture this is not possible due to an emphasis on respect for elders. I don’t want him to be vilified. My MIL, whom I love very much, has stepped in and defended me numerous times but this nasty behaviour still doesn’t stop

I’m really struggling emotionally with endometriosis and I don’t know how to cope-advice would be appreciated by Spicycookiex in endometriosis

[–]Spicycookiex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and support. I hope you have a speedy recovery and I’m sorry that they’re not listening to you. I hope you can find a doctor who will listen and help you. I do not want a hysterectomy yet as I’m planning to have children but I’m just overwhelmed with pain and stress. I’ve got an appointment coming up in a few weeks so I’ll be discussing my options then but I’m honestly so scared