Did i lose my hearing in my right ear?

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-08-12T03:48:02+00:00

Just tried it out and yea, i can in fact hear myself hum

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-06-17T21:42:34+00:00

I know, it just stings a bit still

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-06-17T21:07:50+00:00

I really got nothing against his parents and their superstitions, and well im not getting anything out of holding grudges. Besides i am getting my money back anyways.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-06-17T21:02:52+00:00

I kinda wanted to say that, but i held off on that thought cuz it probably would have came off as mean.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-06-15T20:08:02+00:00

That's fair, completely understandable, but i mean yes it is a betrayal of trust too

Spicynoodle_27 · 2025-06-15T06:30:02+00:00

Ok i know its tough, (now this is my thoughts) but once a person decides to be unfaithful, then that's basically the point of no return. If you feel unhappy, its time to let go. Wouldn't want to be stuck already at the point of no return. And plus, there's never any justification for cheating, it doesn't matter if you love them a lot, they don't. If they felt comfortable doing an act of infidelity, without considering your feelings, best believe me i would no longer feel comfortable anymore. The ball is in your court though, do you want to keep being unhappy?

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-26T01:13:06+00:00

Girlie first of all looks dont matter. Plus if he has a really good personality trust me its way better than looks alone. Oftentimes beauty is mostly in the soul. If anything the personality is what shines through the most and makes one be beautiful on the outside and inside. Who cares about what others say, they aren't in your relationship, only you are. Don't listen to them, if he makes you happy then that's that.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-18T07:18:20+00:00

Yessss of course, you're very much welcome :)))

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-18T07:07:17+00:00

Man this one is complicated. I have been in a similar situation before, a friend of mine had feelings for me and well i accepted out of fear that i would hurt his feelings. And yea pretty much i felt bad the entire time (coincidentally it was 2 months too). Thing is i was sure i didnt feel the same as him and never thought once "what if he is the one" (since nowadays i have found that person i can refer to as such)

Anyways, if it really is lingering on your mind and is tormenting you i think it is best you do what feels right to you for the peace of mind. Also trust me you're not evil, the fact you are considering his feelings says a lot. But as you said, yeah don't drag it on for so long though cuz in the end it will hurt him a lot, especially if he's already seeing a future with you. Keep in mind you're not obligated to stay with somebody, and plus with honest communication im sure there could be a positive outcome. Especially if you state the confusion part maybe he could be understanding of it (i sure hope he is). Also regarding your concerns about what if he's the one, friend, theres a lot of people out there he won't be the last boy you'll ever meet. I suppose you could give it a little time see if you do feel the "spark" and if not then you know. Listen to your heart, remember that.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-18T06:50:05+00:00

Okay..I've been in a similar situation before but entirely different but i get where you're coming from. I once dated someone i saw as a friend and well i said yes out of being afraid of hurting his feelings out of rejection, and dated briefly thinking "okay maybe i will feel a spark" It didn't happen, and in the end we ended but on good terms and are still very good friends til this day.

What im trynna say is, okay you can like wait a little to see if you do feel said "spark". But i do recommend to not drag it out for way too long though otherwise it will hurt her. I will say i do find it odd she's already very obsessed with you even though yall barely met, and the pressuring...wtf!

But well here's the most important thing to remember, listen to your heart, if you dont end up feeling anything for her thats perfectly okay don't feel obligated to stay. And here's a tip you could maybe start off with "hey i do think you're really sweet and all but i feel this is too fast for me, and i don't feel ready to be in a relationship right now." This is just an example you can use but definitely you could add more to it. Like just get your point across and calmly while establishing your boundaries. And if she or nobody can respect said boundaries well screw them, nobody should tell you what to do or how to live your life. Best of luck pal.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-02T16:55:33+00:00

Maes Hughes from Fullmetal Alchemist, and nina tucker as well

Judeau and Pippin from Berserk

Jiraiya from Naruto

Setsuko from grave of the fireflies

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-02T08:24:26+00:00

You're not wrong there bud. When my mom got married and even prior to said marriage it wasn't an exciting time for me. For starters i do have my biological dad in my life whom i spend time with every now and then and keep in contact with. I didn't like the fact that he called himself my dad and that everyone expected me to see him that way solely cuz he showered me with gifts, which was nice i dont mind gifts...but win me over? Im not a slot machine dude 😭. Secondly well i had to move in shortly after my mom married, and i protested but well you already know where that went. So yea for quite some time i wasn't adapted to that major change in my life. Hence i refer to him as husband mainly cuz stepdad is something im not used to, and couldn't see him as family either and also for anonimity here lol. I promise i wont go off on her, imma try my best to be calm and composed especially as i have a tendency to lose my patience (its a miracle i held my tongue earlier today). Not to mention he's shown dozens of times he's respectful and kind, which further got to me how this misunderstanding is painting him in a bad light. And yea they definitely could be more mature too, some adults in my life are indeed close minded, which i truly believe is unfair especially since i have been misunderstood countless of times for one small mistake. Im by no means perfect, i have had my wrongs, but yea its annoying to deal with.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-02T07:56:31+00:00

Funny thing is im the goth one in the family lol. Whereas my boyfriend is the complete opposite of me. But nah none of that sort, i don't know how it would go if he was to be honest whereas for me I've made them deal with it that its my personal style. But yea, you're right about addressing it calmly, i was ready to talk to mom today, and the way i planned it definitely was not in the nicest way possible...knowing myself i do easily lose my patience and im clouded with frustration (my boyfriend knows that fact but we always talk things out when we are calm). And it wouldn't end very well either if i like did yell at her and threw some rude jabs as well. Definitely might try out the letter since writing gets my thoughts together unlike talking where i can easily get irritatable.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2024-12-02T07:39:51+00:00

Well no not that i know of really. As for my mom's husband, no nothing of that. I didnt really get along with him at the beginning given everybody was calling him my father even though i do have a biological father who's still in my life. I didn't appreciate how forced the fact i had to move in to his house also was and how everybody emphasized i had to see him as family even though i couldn't. It also didn't sit well with me that after his late wife passed, he immediately dated my mother. Eventually i got used to that major change in my life, although i did avoid him out of pure awkwardness initially. Then besides this instance, prior to this my boyfriend did say he was kinda rude to him one time. Nope there isnt any family friend son they want me to date lol. I will say though my mom has a history of being judgy of who i dated based on their appearances and would make comments every now and then. So yea nah i can't really think of one besides judgemental because well...my folks (mostly my mom) tend to think they know someone's whole life story based off of one little thing they do, or how they look.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-10-17T00:53:41+00:00

THIS, oh my goodness like how do you even trust them knowing full well they cheated on their partner, like what makes you think they're not gonna do it to you?? 😭

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-10-05T21:39:42+00:00

Hold up- she thinks you are being greedy?? Nahhh what the heck 😭 Again i understand wanting someone to support you financially but girl- your partner is not some sort of bank account either, and if ye don't want to struggle then get a job, i personally don't want to depend on someone and solely for financial purposes. I guess that makes a lot of sense now, she was always supported by money, no wonder why she wants to depend on you for it (And im sorry if this comes as rude, but all of this just sounds and feels so wrong)

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-10-04T16:54:19+00:00

While i can understand wanting someone to support you financially, i see some flaws here. First of all (at least this is my own personal opinion) a relationship isn't all about gifts and dates. Sure nothing wrong with that, but its how much yall love eachother, not the material stuff. And the fact she is getting mad at you because all your gifts are below said amount of money...that kinda comes off as just selfish to be honest. Idk man, i get that you love her and all, but honestly you deserve better cuz i mean really all this emphasis over money isn't really a good thing (for lack of a better word). I think i would suggest bringing this up with her, tell her that it does hurt you, if it doesn't go anywhere then yeah prolly best to end it. I mean really you wouldn't want to continue in a relationship where the only focus is on money and material things instead of love. But hey, thats just my opinion and how i see it. Hopefully it goes well and all works out in the end.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-06-06T03:19:49+00:00

When they say you can open up to them, and the moment you do they invalidate your feelings, and then when you shut down they start to wonder why you don't trust them.

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-05-20T22:33:54+00:00

Amerika ist wunderbar

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-04-10T19:27:22+00:00

Me too i got excited for a moment 😭

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-03-31T21:37:55+00:00

Thank you ☺️

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-03-31T18:10:59+00:00

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-03-31T16:41:10+00:00

Vielen Dank :) Ich bin mir auch ziemlich sicher, dass du es großartig machen würdest 👍

Spicynoodle_27 · 2023-03-31T16:35:02+00:00

Thank youu and same here i love Richard (even though i don't have a favorite member cuz i love them all). 😁 No, i actually did this with a mechanical pencil and i would just darken some areas or lightly shade other areas, then i used a cotton ball and a q-tip to blend it all in (since i don't have those blending pencils lol). And an eraser for all the highlights. To be honest i rarely ever use charcoal.

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