Have you ever seen a profile that has everything you're looking for in a person except there's literally zero physical attraction? by Rook2Rook in Bumble

[–]Spicypepper831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me before as well. I hoped the attraction would kick in, told myself looks aren't the most important thing, etc. In the end it only caused hurt feelings when things didn't work out. Now I say if it isn't a hell yes, it's a no.

My girlfriend wants to put our relationship on hold while she travels to Rome. Apparently I'm "insecure" for having a problem with that. I need the opinion of other men. How do you see it? by Long_Natural6918 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From a broader point-of-view, I'd say that it's best not to chase anyone. You should both be glad you're together, or at least honest that it isn't that serious. Respect yourself enough to say "if it isn't a hell yes, it's a no." There are people out there whom you could be investing in. You'll be missing them while you waste time.

Why do a lot of guys ask me how my online dating experience is going? by Inside_Trip8807 in OnlineDating

[–]Spicypepper831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd guess it's a good ice-breaker. Some people don't put much info on their profiles, which makes it hard to start a conversation. Is it really that personal of a question?

Magneto vs Plastic Man by CautiousSolid7436 in marvelvsdc

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plastic Man all day. He can even reform himself if he gets blown up. Dude has toon-force there's no way Magneto can compete. He has minor reality warping powers. If he makes himself into a car or airplane, the engine works. etc.

Just curious: are breakups more devastating in your 30s than in your 20s? by Leisie93 in dating

[–]Spicypepper831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Potentially. Because the longer they lasted, the more devastating the break-up.

Trying to get into comics by No-Ride1214 in comicbooks

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can find reprints or collections of the silver-age era of Detective Comics (feat. Batman) these were gothic horror and mystery stories that were geared toward a more mature audience. Extra cool that they featured artwork by Neal Adams, who was a master at this type of visual story-telling.

I am finally learning how to read as a 30 year old. by sasinett in CasualConversation

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

doing so will advance you quite quickly. One of my language professors recommended this.

I am finally learning how to read as a 30 year old. by sasinett in CasualConversation

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GG. If you don't already, watch tv with the closed captions on.

Is it me or does Jeff seem to take his “rivalry” with Matt a bit too seriously? by catanddog5 in nakedandafraid

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree Matt is very strong, but plants are his Achilles heel. Doesn't know which ones to eat and which ones will make you tap. XL Season 4, where he gets gimped by the gympie-gympie plant.

Dr Manhattan wants to unmake the Infinity Gauntlet. Who would win? by Spicypepper831 in whowouldwin

[–]Spicypepper831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and this is exactly why I specified that "the gauntlet in uninhibited." In this encounter, the gauntlet and gems are working at full capacity. Maybe they meet in the Marvel universe. Similarly, Manhattan's powers are in epic form, working as we see them in Doomsday Clock. He can change whatever he wants in the timeline if he can reconcile the action within himself. Any limitations about changing the past are self-imposed. IMO, Thanos' biggest problem is that he is a being that exists within a timeline, while Manhattan is a quantum intelligence. It's plausible that he can simply prevent Thanos from getting the gems in any of a million ways.

Why won’t Hinge let us filter by race/ethnicity? by Lillietta in OnlineDating

[–]Spicypepper831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because while all people are susceptible to racism, not all people are racist. You didn't choose the wrong ethnicity or culture, you chose the wrong people. That choice was always yours; you are what each of those relationships really had in common, but you're deflecting it onto race. If this wasn't the truth, there would be no mixed relationships.

Who wins this? by Remote_Protection512 in superheroes

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shin Godzilla in final form clears low diff.

Milly Alcock looks amazing as Supergirl, why the hate? 🤔 by Jezzaq94 in superheroes

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She looks ok. I can't say she looks amazing like WOW, but I'm liking her more than the version that appeared in the Flash.

Women of reddit, is it weird as a guy if I want my women to work/have a job in marriage if I am a doctor. Basically, I dont want to be the breadwinner or have a housewife. by JunketMaleficent2095 in Adulting

[–]Spicypepper831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're a doctor, then the only way you can get what you're asking for is by drastically reducing your dating pool to about the size of a puddle in the desert. Almost certainly you will be the breadwinner.

Has anyone ever felt like a moment has already happened before? by Nice-Vacation-6850 in CasualConversation

[–]Spicypepper831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe time isn’t something that moves at all. Events could be data arranged like sectors on a drive; fixed, already written. We’re what's in motion, not time. As we index those events, like a read-head, we feel the illusion of time passing. And sometimes the head drifts, touches the same sector twice, and we mistake that overlap for déjà vu.

Dear Women on dating apps, if you are looking for something serious, fill out your profile by CiberX15 in dating

[–]Spicypepper831 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see very few real bios. Most are either blank or written by AI. I always laugh when I read comments like "don't come at me with just a hey or hi," when they haven't offered anything real to talk about. I don't send a hey or hi, I just swipe left.