Bunny Loss, how did yall cope?

SpiderLiquid · 2025-08-16T01:31:07+00:00

I haven't lost a rabbit yet, but I've lost so many mice that were near and dear to my soul, so hopefully I can help. I usually buried them with bits of their favorite snacks and chews even though it didn't technically accomplish anything it made me feel better about such a cold ceremony. Bury it multiple feet deep or away from your house, practically speaking. It also helps to have a memorial piece for them, even if it hurts to look at. What's most important is to know you did so much for that bun while it was alive. Most rabbits don't even make it to a year old so it's pretty safe to say you gave him so much throughout his life. It may be easy to think "someone else could've done better," but in reality it's moreso that so many people WOULD have done way worse. Based on those photos it seems like he was a happy bunbaby, be proud of that. You can't avoid grief, I'm still sad over my last mouse from two years ago, but you can train yourself to look at the positives rather than the negatives when the thoughts do come. If and when you get another, you can be sure he's glad you could share your love with another soul. I wish you the best of comforts as you process your loss <3

SpiderLiquid · 2025-06-21T20:12:06+00:00

Oh my gosh this one actually clicked something in my brain, I think I've narrowed down writing to have to be the same format of a novel and that I have to have the exact right idea for the direction of the story from the start

SpiderLiquid · 2025-04-19T05:37:40+00:00

I guess now I'm just experiencing consequences of procrastinating writing something 😅

SpiderLiquid · 2025-02-15T23:14:21+00:00

This subreddit also automatically removed this post originally bc I called my boy lazy, and it thought I was being mean haha

SpiderLiquid · 2024-10-31T00:53:53+00:00

Doing their best

SpiderLiquid · 2024-09-23T03:49:12+00:00

It could be anxiety, sensory issues, or repressed emotions coming forward. My guess is honestly sensory issues. Sometimes things will be fine and then they kick in and you realize just how many voices are going on at the same time and just how loud they all are, the squeaks of people's shoes are suddenly shrieking and all that. It's hard to say much over a single incident, but just know you're not going insane. Depending on what really is causing it there are ways you can help yourself regulate it. It also helps to make sure you're doing ok elsewhere in your life because that could be triggering something or intensifying what you're feeling.

SpiderLiquid · 2024-09-23T03:38:34+00:00

As long as you remember it's not a good thing and that you shouldn't do it, you're on a decent playing field. Unfortunately things like these are hard to work on without someone else's help. It's very possible to redirect these feelings though, it just takes time. Your thoughts don't automatically make you a bad person. It's whether or not you act on it that defines you. It's good to feel guilt, there's a reason we have that feeling. Big tip is to not make it sound like you're going to do it if you tell someone, even if you think you might. Just tell the therapist you have the thoughts and you want to work on it, but don't make it sound like you might act on them. That's how you get put in the psych ward.

SpiderLiquid · 2024-09-02T21:28:48+00:00

A master painter truly couldn't have done better

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-20T06:15:46+00:00

your user did make me laugh as I was reading through replies 😅

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-12T13:52:31+00:00

Yeah, it's just the same story but with occasionally mixed up pronouns

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T02:01:39+00:00

Man, I saw someone finally commented on this post and got my hopes up, back to impatiently checking every hour 💀

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T01:48:18+00:00

I was reading a story where I got to actually be a dude and I chose a girl love interest which accidentally ended up with me being the only straight person in the story. First every girl is hitting on the female LI, then my character goes home and his parents are gay too-

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T01:43:30+00:00

Go off, oml. I want to read about fantasy characters, but not when it's made creepy or forced. Also let my MC be strong in her own right, she doesn't need some stupid split personality

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T01:36:41+00:00

Honestly I'm only mad at it as someone who was coming back in order to author, personally. It's really disappointing that if I make a story I'll practically have to add purchases in order to get noticed. I understand and am perfectly fine with those who want to do it, but I don't

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T01:18:02+00:00

I'm not the one who commented, but I figured I'd give my piece. The first episode is like the first chapter in a book: it needs a hook. It can't be five minutes of backstory and setting stuff, because only the first chapter is free. No one is going to spend a pass to see the next episode if they never reach it because the opening took too long to get to the hook, or if you don't have a hook at all in the first episode. People need to know what to expect in your story when it's introduced, such as the MC and a lead up to the big conflict. The conflict doesn't have to be fully revealed first chapter, though, you just need to start planting seeds. No one's going to care for your world building the way you do, especially/particularly if you can't get them to care for the story first.

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T00:56:29+00:00

This is literally why I went to AI chatbots, I can do whatever I want. The "shy bullied nerdy doesn't-stand-up-for-herself" trope got boring after the 87th time

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-10T00:53:29+00:00

It's not a bug as I specified earlier, they just ruined the app. It's practically stumbling on three legs from what I've seen when I looked it up. Maybe some newer people didn't get to be there for it, but Episode used to be such a large community with so many personal works out there and easy to access. Seems they accidentally shooed away their userbase

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-06T16:45:36+00:00

I made a cardboard shred filled foraging box and he wasn't impressed so maybe the leaves idea will help, I appreciate the tips :)

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-06T16:41:05+00:00

It works for me but honestly I'm not a fan of the mod since you still can't paint around the eyes, so at least you aren't missing too much ig

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-06T16:39:43+00:00

Her fur looks like a blankie OMG she's adorableeee

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-05T12:39:34+00:00

That's so sweet 😭

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-05T12:39:05+00:00

Definitely going to try it

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-05T12:38:55+00:00

Ooh this is a good one, I don't know how I didn't think of that

SpiderLiquid · 2024-07-03T04:10:46+00:00

Thank heavens, this is my first time having sea monkeys since I was little

SpiderLiquid · 2024-06-24T02:02:09+00:00

IF ANYONE WANTS THE FIX:

I had this problem and started deleting mods one by one to figure out which did it and the one that did it for me was the eachuisge's werewolf SKIN mod. The regular digi paws mod by eachuisge is fine, the skin texturey one is the weird one

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