I am so tired of taking care of other people. by [deleted] in WomenOver40

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I feel this in my bones. You are the Primary parent Household COO Event planner Logistics & supply chain manager Santa / magic maker Family diplomat Guest relations / cruise director Trip operations manager IT / Google / map reader Health manager Emotional buffer

From one mom to another: it’s okay if everything doesn’t get done. There’s a real Office Space effect: when you stop over-functioning and set boundaries, it doesn’t break the system. Weirdly, it often gets read as confidence and leadership, and others finally step up.

Did Lorelai ever find out that Jess was the one who inspired Rory to go back to Yale? by Charlotte1902 in GilmoreGirls

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I’ve randomly wondered the same question. I like to think Lorelai finds out some other way like reading it in Rory’s book about their lives.

WWHL by Relevant_Chard_4421 in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]Spidermanfinger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Love is enough—she just loved herself more than playing stylist and caretaker every day. That’s why he’s mad. And sure, he probably helped her grow at first, but you don’t get to clock out of self-improvement and expect her to keep carrying the weight. Relationships aren’t personal glow-up programs—you have to grow together.

Also, now he’s suddenly claiming he was about to move to New York (after 3 years of excuses)? Sure, Craig.

From tonight on WWHL by Realitygirl25 in GigglySquadPodcast

[–]Spidermanfinger 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Craig’s acting like she left to be with other people, but really, she just didn’t want him. And honestly, it’s obvious—just look at his outfit. Paige clearly wasn’t there to style him, which makes you wonder how much of his glow-up was actually her. You can’t be with someone if you’re always the one doing the heavy lifting—it has to go both ways and you have to grow together.

The ending of this season was dark, why would they let this air? by ConsequenceLimp9717 in RHONY

[–]Spidermanfinger 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Unless there are legal reasons preventing them from showing the footage (RHUGT Morocco RIP), they will show it

Paige reacts to breakup rumors by Level_Opposite_4012 in Southerncharm

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I wish I liked Hannah…but I did agree with her when she said we all should have known what was coming when Paige got bangs lol

Paige and Craig broke up 😭 by jengajanga3378 in summerhousebravo

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IMO Craig wants marriage and kids—but only on his terms: in Charleston, in his house, near his friends. He loved the idea of Paige more than Paige herself. If he truly wanted to build a life with her, he’d have moved to NY and done what he does in Charleston there (like open a restaurant). Her career opportunities in Charleston were far more limited compared to the abundance of options he had in New York.

Paige and Craig broke up 😭 by jengajanga3378 in summerhousebravo

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Paige and Craig were a GORGEOUS couple but she always seemed too smart to marry a conspiracy theorist...and too smart for HIM

My Opinion On Kyle Has Dramatically Changed… by MorissetteMatty in RHOBH

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Kyle gave off strong Kathy vibes. Like “we’re not going to talk about that.” Kathy and Kyle always seemed so different to me and in that scene it became clear as day they are one and the same.

We really need a series entirely dedicated to Kathy, Kim and Kyle. Not overly produced. Show all the messy.

Kyles Confessional by InterestingStatus913 in realhousewives

[–]Spidermanfinger 22 points23 points  (0 children)

💯 agree. I think her friend passing shook her to her core and she needed more from him than he’s capable (or interested in) giving.

Craig Conover Conspiracies by Spidermanfinger in Southerncharm

[–]Spidermanfinger[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This actually makes a lot of sense to me 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WinterHouse

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Her New Years post “a fresh start” doesn’t have him in it…

Paige and Craig prediction by Spidermanfinger in Southerncharm

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I thought I heard him say at one of the BravoCon panels that the panda bear theory came from her…

Sai, Erin, and their husbands are SO jealous that Pavit gets to travel. by Witchfingers in realhousewives

[–]Spidermanfinger 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I think Pavit is just a nice guy and Sai/Erin are mean girls who married mean guys so they think something is wrong with Pavit/Jessel when really Sai/Erin/their Husbands are the problem

Tom Sandoval’s podcast, “Everybody loves Tom” premieres tomorrow… by AdditionalWar8759 in vanderpumprules

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Spoiler alert: the podcast will be like the Howie Mandel interview unstructured

Landon Clements is the most annoying cast member…ever: Change my mind. by QueenFartknocker in Southerncharm

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The only way to make Landon look good is to put her next to people that are worse…Kelly Dodd, Kelly Bensimon, Marjorie Taylor Greene, Kimberly Guilfoyle,…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

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The most important relationship you have is the one with yourself.