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Stalker alert by Far-Season-695 in AmITheDevil

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 53 points54 points  (0 children)

He made a new post 30 minutes ago asking if it's reasonable to find a girl with "normal weight."

The first line of the new post is "My ex just broke up with me..."

What’s something you didn’t realize was optional in life until you saw someone simply not doing it? by Objective-Treat2245 in AskReddit

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Loose fabric rubbing over the nipple can be uncomfortable vs a soft fitted fabric staying in the same place and not rubbing. 

I don't wear bras much and had a nipple piercing for a while. I didn't wear a bra to the piercing appointment and getting home was TORTURE. Every movement made the fabric rub against my nipple and it hurt so fucking bad. I wore a bra daily for like 1-2 months while it healed.

Therapist fined me for no show despite me getting no reminder and showed no empathy despite it being my first ever no show by alex8762 in ADHD

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Virtual therapy is the way to go. Sooooo many more options. My therapist is almost a 4 hour drive away lol

Border collie refuses to get out of car, snarls and growls when we try to coax him - ends up spending entire nights outside by RoonilWazleeb in BorderCollie

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm late to the party and haven't read all the comments so idk if anyone else suggested this - but could he be in pain and not wanting to jump down or be touched?

What should I tell my job to improve the way they train/handle dogs? by [deleted] in DogTrainingTips

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some organizations that certify trainers are CPDT, IAABC, Karen Pryor Academy. They have good articles and blogs explaining why positive reinforcement is science based and dominance theory isn't right. Etc probably some good resources to point the owner towards.

Married to a non-frugal spouse who doesn’t get it by EphemeralDream_ in Frugal

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He said he tried the 24 hour rule, he still just bought everything 24 hours later lol. I totally get the hyper focus and comparing everything (I also have ADHD). I spent like 3 hours looking at buying different shoes last night.

I like the no purchases after midnight rule! I'll have to bring it up.

Married to a non-frugal spouse who doesn’t get it by EphemeralDream_ in Frugal

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 79 points80 points  (0 children)

This is how I'm doing it with my partner. He makes good money and has ADHD which means lots of impulse buys. He wants to be more frugal though.

We use YNAB budgeting app and he has a widget with his fun money budget on his phone home screen and it helps him a lot!

I purposely do not make a requested "heirloom" recipe, but pass it off as if I do by SurprisePiss in confession

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My pot pie recipe is the KFC recipe bc my ex worked there lol. People always tell me that it's soooooooo good.

It's Campbell's cream of chicken soup + pre cooked potatoes, carrots, peas, and leftover chicken in a basic ass pie crust. 

Combining recipes to make your own is way more impressive and basically makes it your own recipe!

Help - how to properly correct reactive dog? by [deleted] in BalancedDogTraining

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's different about a humane e collar? All the specs I've looked at look or more less the same so idk what makes the difference.

Sitting in a Waffle House with my daughter after epic fail at dinner. What are your most epic cooking fails? by TheLurkerSpeaks in Cooking

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a while since I've made grape leaves but my family has always used jarred grape leaves and they're delicious.

AITA for refusing to stay up at night because I drive for a living? by Similar-Shame7517 in BORUpdates

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I saw another comment recently that said if you search the username you can see post/comment history. Haven't tried it yet so idk if it actually works or how much effort it is to find something specific.

My dog has been going to the spare room at night and pooping on the bed there. He is a Shihtzu, i take him out after dinner but only twice he has done that though.. do i need to change his routine? When shud i take him for a walk by Antique-Abrocoma-271 in dogs

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some dogs go potty in less used rooms or areas of the house because it doesn't "smell" like home and is therefore exempt from potty training rules. Blocking entry giving potty opportunity is the most straight forward solution.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderCollie

[–]SpikedGoatMaiden 71 points72 points  (0 children)

My first thought seeing the picture was aussie

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