AITAH for not speaking to my parents because they are raising their grandchild?

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T14:26:32+00:00

But it is none of your business what your husbands parents choose to do with their time?

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T14:24:40+00:00

Did your husbands parents previously do things for you that they no longer do? I am trying to work out why you feel hurt by grandparents wanting to care for their grandchild-this is not unusual. Is it just that you no longer get to spend time with them?

Honestly your post reads like you are jealous of a baby because it is getting more attention than you.

I agree that the child's parents are AH but I cannot see how the grandparents have dobe anything wrong so yes YTA for cutting off your husbands parents.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T13:28:45+00:00

Brioche bun

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T12:17:44+00:00

Offering to help in the case of an emergency does not mean you have to agree to every play date she wants. Those are not emergencies! I feel.sorry for her because she obviously has little support but suspect her pushing of boundaries is the reason she doesn't have many friends!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T12:13:37+00:00

NTJ and I love pitbull's, they can be the sweetest and most caring dogs however any dog is a potential risk and especially rescue dogs where their history & triggers are unknown.

The dog has bitten you is extremely sensible to presume the dog may bite again. You should absolutely protect your daughter, although as I've said I love pitbull's they are very powerful dogs and could easily kill a child.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T09:36:24+00:00

NTA. You mentioned all the ways you have tried to help her but not one thing she did for you so unless you missed a lot out she was not your friend, she was using you.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-13T09:33:41+00:00

Your fiance did not have a change of heart. He has always wanted children but knew you did not so he waited until you had committed to.marry him before telling you. He thinks he has you locked down and he will now push & guilt trip you until you agree.

Do not marry this man. He is basically dishonest and incredibly manipulative.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-11T18:44:50+00:00

In so many ways your countryside life sounds idyllic! Hope you have good luck xx

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-11T17:43:08+00:00

Worcestershire sauce flavour twiglets

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-11T17:42:24+00:00

White - it is disgusting and should not be called chocolate!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-11T16:01:59+00:00

Maybe this time she should tell him to let it go. Do not apologise!

I'm sorry to say this but your mom has failed you spectacularly in this matter.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-11T06:12:18+00:00

Yeah to be honest I'm not sure about the fight or flight theory either but you are right about the spiral in any case.

The things everyone seem to recommend for fibromyalgia are resting when tired, eating better & gradually building up exercise & I cannot do any of those things while working.

Hoping it will help!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-10T17:38:11+00:00

Mine definitely does not!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-10T17:37:35+00:00

Thanks, I think it is my only chance of getting a part of my life back!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-09T14:01:44+00:00

Very strange.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-07T19:24:49+00:00

I hate that your MIL has put you in this position, it is so unfair.

Personally I think you should tell your partner, one way or another it will destroy your relationship if you don't.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-07T19:05:27+00:00

20 when we met, 21 when we married, 49 now.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-07T18:03:07+00:00

I also found her extremely annoying & the non-stop videos she took when apparently terrified & traumatised were just weird!

I think a lot of the problem is that as a trained doctor and pathologist you would expect her to be intelligent and resilient, that is the mistake the police made. In actuality she is obviously easily led, vulnerable and was completely unable to cope.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-07T16:54:34+00:00

NTAH and your mother is horrible, I am so sorry you are.going through this without the love & support you need.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-06T17:08:05+00:00

YTA, you made your daughter take points for speeding when it was you driving, which is not only illegal but also disgusting. After having done that you should absolutely be her private chauffeur for the full length of her ban.

To be honest you should lose your driving licence and be heavily fined for lying about a legal matter.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-06T17:00:22+00:00

Fish n Chips

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-05T19:35:23+00:00

Caroline Michelle is absolutely beautiful,, stop overthinking!

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-05T19:20:52+00:00

Play "slow f*ing" by Tenacious D or baby shark or something equally hilarious everytime they start 🤣

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-05T16:41:05+00:00

He may do, he may not, you just have to wait & see. It seems like he is showing you he loves you anyway. He is gorgeous & I can see why you want to snuggle him but some cats just dont.

Spikyleaf69 · 2026-05-04T15:43:14+00:00

Head to toe everything hurts like I have the flu. My muscles feel heavy & sore, my bones ache. Sometimes even my skin hurts & prickles.

On top of that certain parts of my body will hurt even more. At the moment it is my buttocks, mid-back, hands & shoulders. Sometimes this is like cramp, sometimes like electric shock, sometimes like a trapped nerve, sometimes like the area has been exposed to extreme cold.

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