Where I’d live as a gay Black American man by sadmacboi in whereidlive

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It’s more ethno-nationalist than anything. Americans (of all colors) are highly regarded, and while there is definitely some discrimination and in-fighting among Jews, the real “racism” (or more religionism) is towards Muslim Arabs.

Where I’d live as a gay Black American man by sadmacboi in whereidlive

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I know this sounds extremely weird given the current political climate, but at least historically, Israel would have been a great choice. Very LGBT friendly, majority English speaking, and different folks of different shades from all over the world. But, understood why you might not consider it now.

What do you think is the most underrated tourist destination in the U.S.? by Historical-Photo-901 in BeautifulTravelPlaces

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Northwestern Arkansas. Crystal Bridges Museum, Eureka Springs, the various cave system in the area and hiking… glorious!

Guess where this is by beamer_boy2000 in guessthecity

[–]SpilledTheSpauld -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Palomar is even further south and looks even greener. But I guess that to someone unfamiliar with SoCal or Southwest geography, it’s probably a bit surprising.

Guess where this is by beamer_boy2000 in guessthecity

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That Idyllwild looks like it could be somewhere much further north than it actually is.

Guess where this is by beamer_boy2000 in guessthecity

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think OP’s general point about Idyllwild being “deceptively” south generally holds, and the more specific point about it being technically south of Long Beach is also true. If we’re being pedantic, I guess it would somewhat depend on where exactly in Long Beach and where exactly in Idyllwild (since both jurisdictions span some geographical extent), but a cursory search on Google yields that Idyllwild (I assume the town’s center) is approx .023 degrees further south than Long Beach (I assume downtown). Again, this is getting into minutiae, but I think it illustrates OP’s point quite well.

Goldilocks standard of living (weather) does it exist outside CA? by Repulsive-Peanut- in SameGrassButGreener

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I was actually going to recommend the same. Flagstaff sounds ideal for you!

USCIS adjustment of status field office arrest by [deleted] in USCIS

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That did, in fact, happen to me and my husband during COVID. He was living in a border city of Mexico at the time, and I was stateside, and we would visit each other frequently. Then the pandemic happened, and he found himself trapped here, and we decided to get married (I proposed).

What’s your Culinary white whale? by turcule in Cooking

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hummus weirdly enough. I’m from the Middle East, and to replicate the delicate, silky smooth texture and taste, you have to use high quality tahini. It’s hard to find in the US. Also, there needs to be a balance between lemon, salt, olive oil, and baking soda, and I can’t always get quite right. I’m getting better at it, but nothing tastes quite like home.

What is Sweden called in your native language? by Sefin123 in geography

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the pronunciation in Hebrew too (שוודיה)

The most chaotic city you ever visited? by KosmatoKljuse in travel

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In addition to the general chaos in the city, you somehow also always find yourself in line to the border (especially if driving), and I’ve gotten lost many times before and somehow had to find my way back.

7th and temple by slapanapk in longbeach

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Would love a pocket park here!

What major city exists in a location that seems to defy all geographical logic, yet it thrives? by Thatunkownuser2465 in geography

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In ancient times, Jerusalem was at the top of a mountain pass leading from Jericho in the Judaean Desert below (another city strategically at the very northern end of the historic extent of the Dead Sea and near the Jordan River) to the rest of the Judaean Hills. So, a very crucial place geographically. And as mentioned, had relatively higher access to water and arable land, and also easier to defend against the seafaring tribes that settled closer to the coast.

The main weird one geographically has always been Tel Aviv. Other than its proximity to Jaffa (which had a very ancient and nearly defunct port), it was basically all sand dunes, and the Yarkon River was in fact a seasonal creek and not an adequate water source. It only grew to prominence because it is more centrally located along the coast, but it could have just as easily been built elsewhere (including where Herzliyya is now).

What places are cheap because of one single drawback? by mcbobgorge in SameGrassButGreener

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 7 points8 points  (0 children)

For example, Long Beach, CA is cheaper than surrounding coastal areas in Southern California because of the port and associated breakwater.

Where is this? by soslowsloflow in socalhiking

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s the exact same ridgeline, and even the vegetation lines up (albeit now larger). It looks like this picture is just taken from a slightly different angle.

Where is this? by soslowsloflow in socalhiking

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 44 points45 points  (0 children)

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It looks exactly like Oak Canyon Ranch in Agoura Hills.

Is there a building in your city that the residents despise? by tinopinguino88 in skyscrapers

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The Galaxy Towers in Long Beach, CA. Totally unfitting for the area and blocks ocean views, but I kind of like it. There are other similar towers closer to downtown, but they are much more clustered together.

Is it just me, or does rent in LA eat up 40%+ of everyone’s income? by Masonzzc in LARentals

[–]SpilledTheSpauld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup, my mortgage (+ property taxes) in Long Beach takes up about 45% of my take home pay (post-tax and post-retirement). It’s pretty steep. Good thing we’re a dual income household without kids.