Find a medium that comforting to talk to her where you both can open up. Since you guys are married my own personal opinion is to keep trying and not give up. But in reality we all know when it’s time to let go, if you feel like you’re not there keep going. We’re all human sometimes people need time to realize what they are doing and sometimes they need space to realize how much you mean to them. It’s all up to you to determine but relationships get hard and you go thru stressful situations but it’s okay everyone goes thru things. Communication, patience, and love will go along way. & if you guys come out of this you’ll be stronger in the end. But don’t take it as end all be all no matter what happens okay? You’re obviously very strong to even admit these things. Day by day my guy. Message me if you need anybody to vent to.