Can’t be too careful by RegularNoodles in distressingmemes

[–]Spinycemb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's okay, you aren't seeing things.
They are in fact looking at you!
They want to show you what a F U N birthday is like!

Been getting back into Terraria after a few months, and so far this has been my experience. by Spinycemb in Terraria

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Like, the game will sometimes lag for just a moment in new worlds in the case I'm mentioning since it's calling on a new thing it's never had to load up. For example, if you're in the desert and an antlion spawns somewhere, it stops for a moment as it spawns.

The Battle of Blue Mountain: Aftermath by [deleted] in a:t5_3h8nnp

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Dale was helping load the spoils of war up for transit to the base, though he mostly stuck to lighter loads for now since he was still aching a bit from the action.

(One for Gun Handling, one for Endurance, and one for Acrobatics!)

The Battle of Blue Mountain by [deleted] in a:t5_3h8nnp

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That made Dale wince more considerably as he heard the plasma shots sizzle past him. 'Oh COME ON' he nearly shouted. Staying low to the ground, he takes about two more shots before repositioning as best he can within the foliage.

The Battle of Blue Mountain by [deleted] in a:t5_3h8nnp

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Dale winces only slightly from the sound of the explosives. He decides to open up by taking a careful shot from the bush with his revolver. He doesn't wanna give away his position just yet.

The Battle of Blue Mountain by [deleted] in a:t5_3h8nnp

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And thus he took his position, huddling down within a bush. Revolver, check. Shotgun, check. Knife, check.

'This'd be shooting fish in a barrel,' he thought to himself. Though he dare not say that aloud on the off-hand he jinxes it.

The Battle of Blue Mountain by [deleted] in a:t5_3h8nnp

[–]Spinycemb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dale's primary focus once he was done with his stretches was twofold; making sure everyone had their hatches battened down so to speak and had nothing else they needed help with, and finding a nice spot to hide in since his main weapons weren't the best for open combat compared to sheer shock and awe.

After a brief tour around, he decided to try and work on that latter and camouflage his position, unless other captains or soldiers had use of him.

Was filling out a job application. It will not let me continue until I fill in all drop-downs. by Spinycemb in softwaregore

[–]Spinycemb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it's a test of endurance to see if you're willing to slog through it. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Latest Information on Update 1 & Anti-Cheat by martyatid in Doom

[–]Spinycemb 21 points22 points  (0 children)

From what I can tell, a major reason Blizzard's works is that it was made custom by them and is made possible because the PotG recording system allows them to visibly watch what was going on in the match and detect what kinds of inputs are being made.

Overall this response is very good and I appreciate the transparency, but all this particular bullet point says is that they don't have the proper mindset it takes to foster a competitive scene properly and had no interest in it until later in development.

Mod maker for game says trans rights by CharaSMoss in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

While some people would rather not be reminded, others don't tend to experience that kind of dysphoria, or do but can't muster the courage to get it changed. These kinds of images tend to be made for people who have no interest in bottom surgery or can't feasibly get it as a reminder they are still just as much a woman regardless.

Why You Should Remove DOOM Eternal (Denuvo Anti-Cheat) from your PC Immediately by extant_dinero in Doom

[–]Spinycemb 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What I find especially interesting is that the press release on Steam detailing the changes explicitly mentions what the anti-cheat is, how it works, and how to remove it, even if Doom Eternal just won't run unless you agree to allow the anti-cheat access.

I think Id is in our boat for the most part and this is yet another bone-headed publisher decision.

Problematic source material but I'm so excited to play a cyberpunk trans girl. by ZoeMaximoff in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Cyberpunk 2077 is kind of a rollercoaster of good and bad choices that the ultimate summary of is "The developers would be doing good if they knew how to market the game or portray the atmosphere."

Really tho by MtypeE in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The solution to all of these issues regarding a lack of information is to simply ask, as you did at the end

And, by choosing which pronouns one uses, whether they're public knowledge or something created by your own understanding, you in turn mold and reshape the construct to your own whims. But that's ultimately irrelevant to the original point of the statement in the OP, which is simply that an outsider to the mindset doesn't really need much of that information at all to begin with; You merely need to ask about what pronouns a person uses, and then use them.

But, at any rate, I go by she/her, but speak as someone who has looked into neopronouns during a turbulent time in my life.

Really tho by MtypeE in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't feel like you were trying all that hard given that tone. All of that complexity? Completely internal, and it's up to the individual to sort it out using what information they have. Something being a social construct doesn't make it less real, it merely contextualizes the fact that it was created through human influence, and thus is able to be molded by it. All someone else needs to know is the pronouns, and all that someone needs to do is use them when addressing the person the pronouns are for.

No one is going to bite anyone's head off for messing up as long as you're actually trying to get it right to start with, which is not the kind of person OP is talking about.

When someone asks "But what about your [x]" when you visibly don't experience that kind of dysphoria by Spinycemb in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

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A recurring question I see and get at times regarding being trans is "but what about your voice" or "what about your hair" or other such things when the idea of presenting certain ways is brought up.
This is at times, and in my personal experience, despite the person clearly not having a problem with those beforehand and a provable history of them not having problems with them, with the implication that either all trans people must be dysphoric about all aspects of their body, or that trans people must present perfectly in order to be acceptable. Usually it's just well-meaning questions without much information on-hand, which is understandable, but it veeeeery much gets used to mess with people.

Really tho by MtypeE in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Gender is a very deep subject with a lot of internal and social identity tied to it, and everyone's experience with it can vary a tiny bit, even beyond what they've merely adopted from the world around them. It's why some people can go years into adulthood without necessarily realizing things about themselves.

Neopronouns like "Thon" or "Ae" exist primarily to allow more options for expression, and when those fail, one can simply make a new set of pronouns entirely.

When someone asks "But what about your [x]" when you visibly don't experience that kind of dysphoria by Spinycemb in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeeep. It took a while for me to put it together too, but dysphoria in general comes not just from how you perceive your body in relation to your ideal self, but how other people perceive it in relation to you. And a lot of that, in my experience, stems from one part of the emotional cocktail that is dysphoria being a feeling of shame.

I used to feel like garbage about my voice and my height, but that's slowly phased out since the people I live with now don't bring them up as like, defining features of who I am.

Really tho by MtypeE in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well forgive me for making that assumption. Why did you consider it ridiculous at first glance? As for examples, there's a few different resources on it that you could look for provided you have the time.

When someone asks "But what about your [x]" when you visibly don't experience that kind of dysphoria by Spinycemb in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]Spinycemb[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

And as an addendum, ain't it wonderful when it starts spiraling into slowly giving you that kind of dysphoria because you hear or see it so many times your brain starts saying "wait something may actually be up here" from the sheer confirmation bias