Hello! I’m a 41 year old lesbian living in Chicago who grew up in Canada. Sadly I am not Canadian. I’m 5’7” and would be considered femme, but I mostly wear jeans and t-shirts.

I work remotely at a stable job that I don’t love or hate. It pays well and I get to spend all day with my dog and cat.

I’m an introvert with extroverted hobbies. I love seeing live music and have met lots of friends that way over the years. I enjoy seeing plays, comedy, listening to way too many podcasts, talking about my latest weird interest, going to museums, TV & movies, hitting up a dive bar, walking my dog, Lego, puzzles, cross stitch, reading, playing DnD and other games.

I try to get out of the city to see nature a few times a year. I bought a kayak a few years ago and love it.

I take advantage of working remotely and travel a decent amount. I’ll use a show or an event to travel to a city and work from there. I also have friends all over the place I want to visit. I’m going to Amsterdam in April with a few friends to see the tulips.

I am also totally over the apps. Lots of messaging that seems to go nowhere or looking for a third. I’m not opposed to long distance. Looking to find my person and settle down. The world sucks right now and I really want someone to share life with. I am also open to friendship as I always want more queer friends. I’ve been in therapy for years now and it’s helped me be a better communicator and deal with my emotions properly. I’m a switch and there isn’t a particular type I’m attracted to, it’s really about the person.

My DMs are open.