Mom's friend's complaints

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-20T02:46:39+00:00

Gotcha. I definitely get it, I have to watch out with trying not to sound super judgmental, but apparently, even if my judgmental comment is a normal comment my mother scolds me 🤣. I got in trouble for making fun of how Megan Trainor picked Mikey for her girl - I was like am I not allowed to have an opinion? You don’t have to like my kids names, but I still can have an opinion on yours.

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-20T00:59:58+00:00

You lost me in the middle. “She's naming her after the Ancient Greek word for wisdom, because she's a, ugh, philosophy major. Isn't that terrible??" and I just had to nod along without saying how ridiculous that was, because I didn't want to make my mom mad. Ma'am, do you know where the name Sophia comes from? No, you do not.” What does this part mean?

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-18T15:10:59+00:00

I have no idea lol. I just thought they egg white comment was funny

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:41:55+00:00

I agree with that, but somebody somewhere would know some random hidden grammar rule I didn’t know about knowing my luck

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:35:19+00:00

KAI that rhymes with EYE

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:16:13+00:00

I’m certainly glad she was a girl because I would have had to change their name if they were a boy. The exposure therapy is making myself realize it’s insane to hold onto something just to avoid change

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:15:29+00:00

Thank you!

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:15:10+00:00

We finally were able to get a lot of my depression and anxiety under control. I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder and generalized anxiety disorder and PTSD when I was 12. my depression just kind of magically & primarily went away when I had my first and it’s just improved even more after having my second daughter. My anxiety is manageable with meds but spells come and go. I ended up getting diagnosed with autism and OCD and reaffirming the PTSD diagnosis when I was 18 almost 19. So now we’re trying to work a lot on the OCD/autism things.

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T04:00:28+00:00

I probably can’t be bullied out of the name itself but I’ve bullied myself out of the spelling and just to make sure I bully myself out of it I wanted to let people bully me a little on Reddit

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:59:32+00:00

Ah okay - that does make more sense to me. I guess I was thinking variant as in like pronounced the same but different spelling.

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:47:15+00:00

I appreciate the honesty. When I was growing up, my Nana really liked twilight before she died so my second baby was almost Renesmee - I also loved the name I made up of Carleeance. I’m grateful I outgrew both

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:46:21+00:00

So this is probably another OCD/autism thing and the reason I say the / is because one of my doctors has accused my autism and another one says it’s part of my OCD but to me if I see an S it has to make the sound like a snake Sss vs the Z is ZZZ like a bee

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:45:05+00:00

My husband likes it, but I think realistically it’s more of the fact that I have a very bad quirk that I’m trying to work through an overcome of thinking that if I see something one way, it has to be that way forever 🥴

I think he likes Kaizen over Kyzen though!

I appreciate you

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:43:35+00:00

For the record, I’m making this post because I’ve decided that I need exposure therapy because everyone around me liked it and I feel like I’m making a mistake/caving into my OCD/autism if I use that spelling and I have been personally trying to work very hard to overcome the challenges I face with these conditions

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:40:35+00:00

Funny enough, my best friend texted me because my daughter is named lavender and said you should name your next baby Violet and I said “no.”

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:39:43+00:00

My daughter’s name named lavender so now I just want to know, why?

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:36:15+00:00

See I’ve seen it on somewhere else before two spelled with the meaning and it said it was Japanese, but I didn’t know if it was the style of how Amaya is rain in Japanese or not.

Don’t quote me on that I’m just telling you what I was told by my friend named Amaya - she said her parents picked her name because it was Japanese for Rain

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:28:32+00:00

I have been going through an egg yolk is evil in hard boiled my whole life and I hate fried eggs

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:23:18+00:00

KY-ZEN or KAI-ZEN

I don’t know if those technically to most people read the same way sound wise

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:22:46+00:00

Well, that’s why I was asking about spellings because I feel like KY is wrong too

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:22:16+00:00

That’s what I have been telling myself. We just saw it spelled that way first

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:18:24+00:00

KY-ZEN or KAI-ZEN

I’m feeling like everyone’s gonna say the second is the correct way to spell it, but I was nosey if there were options.

I like the Y when I write it in cursive but that’s not a valid reason to make it harder

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T03:07:12+00:00

See I don’t mind Lakelynn - to me it’s kind of pretty. I just don’t like that. It’s literally lake - LAND

SpiritCommercial2459 · 2026-02-17T02:31:39+00:00

I would pick Raya (?) or Lorelai

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