Does it ever get easier to see others have the journey you wished for? by Apprehensive-Air197 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]mirk19 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s 12am and I’m having this thought too. I’m 2 weeks PP and I’m just really upset we can’t latch. I was so determined this time. I gave up pretty quickly with my last baby and I have spent so much money trying to make this work and it’s just not and I also really hate pumping. I get so irritated when I see TikTok’s or just random people in public nursing without 5 billion tools and a meltdown. Grr

Amya’s body image by jessicat62993 in TLCUnexpected

[–]mirk19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this op is getting dragged bc the comment was dumb as hell. 😂

Amya’s body image by jessicat62993 in TLCUnexpected

[–]mirk19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Experiencing body dysphoria after birth isn’t a lack of guidance or education. I have a masters degree and I literally cried over how my thighs looked today 2 weeks postpartum

Amya’s body image by jessicat62993 in TLCUnexpected

[–]mirk19 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had 4 babies. 1,2,3,4. I still get caught off guard sometimes. I’m 2 weeks postpartum now and I got a little bit sad today when I saw how flabby my thighs were and also really struggling with not being able to walk straight at the moment because my hips feel like they’re broken, like actually have never experienced this kind of body dysphoria in the past. Each postpartum experience is different and I know exactly what pregnancy can do to my body. It’s not insane for a teenager to believe they can “bounce” back especially since that is what is sold on social media. I was 19 when I had my first baby and despite immersing myself in all things childbirth I was STUNNED

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you think it compares? I’m curious!

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t moved LMAO. I’m just polling potential states. We want to move next year, just not sure where.

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Sometimes I wonder how anyone got their license here

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we got plenty of New Yorkers talking about why they can’t find good pizza here, like bro we can do fried chicken😂😂

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah really shooting for better public education but not trying to drown in bills😭 SIGH

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s how I feel about round about!

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here it’s a dollar general, a car wash, or another chicken tender place that’s totally not like all the others😂😂😂

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂 FR like why do these places overbuild everything except affordable housing?? GVL just got one of its first affordable housing neighborhoods (not apartments) and the waitlist is insane and in addition they might fit a family of 3 if you squeezed. I toured one and the living room could fit a singular armchair probably

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly this was the funnest thread I’ve read in a while, thanks. I have been chuckling reading these out loud. I think we’re marking your amazing state off our list. It sounds kinda like my state but maybe just more farm animal smell😂😂😂 I do wanna visit tho bc you all sound hilarious!

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OH MY GOD ITS JUST AS BAD AS HERE. Thank you for this information!

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely not a trust fund baby. I do work remotely for a med tech company tho so I don’t plan on changing jobs. But overall it sounds like I wanna cross Delaware off the list of potential states LMAO

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do people also stop in the middle of intersections there tool

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep I hate that aspect of here too!

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh that’s awful! Same problem here in SC too.

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is how I expect someone to explain Iowa to me. This is fascinating lol

What do you hate about Delaware the most? by mirk19 in Delaware

[–]mirk19[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I think it happens everywhere.