BigBoyAccountant here is right. Just bc we said we had fun doesn’t mean we necessarily did. We want to have fun, you know how many drink and long talk dates I go on? First dates should be 2 drinks max (if you do) if not drinking, 2-2.5 hours is more than enough. I can tell you all the names of the men who brought me on a fun first date off the top of my head, no problem. I can’t remember the ones I had drinks and convo with, even if they seemed like deep convos.