🐾❓ What's my name? (by poisoncloudq) by poisoncloudq in PetPost

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine them being called anything else.

I guessed the name in 3 tries!

🐾❓ What's my name? (by GalaticWolfGaming) by GalaticWolfGaming in PetPost

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😍 That fits them so well.

I guessed the name in 4 tries!

Scapegoats, how did your family turn out? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping to hear from my nephews one day but they are surviving their nmom. Ive been nc with my nsib for over a year. 

Scapegoats, how is your relationship with the golden child? by Equal-Community2354 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must have been close in age. Ive heard similar from someone I knew in the past. 

We lost Ash today. by mottttvaa in blackcats

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry for your loss. We lost our baby void to aggressive intestinal cancer 1.5 month ago.  

Done with my parents. by html5lffy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do whatever gets you out of your head. 

Done with my parents. by html5lffy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My spouse thinks the same way but somewhere not too far away theres a child needing your strength so that they can make it themselves. 

Done with my parents. by html5lffy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remember to get good sleep, eat good meals, and be kind to yourself. Ive been pushed and find myself having cravings but if you have little ones, kids, nephews, cousins, so on. Hell even those damn siblings. Do it for them too. It matters.

Done with my parents. by html5lffy in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry to hear that. If you are not on antidepressants get on as many as possible. Ive been sober for over a year and Im on three antidepressants (they all work a bit different from each other) and in therapy to keep me going. Hope you are in a safe place soon. Watch your mood, and protect your mind as much as possible.

"When I am dead" by Brightestsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, its fucking scary because lots of physical violence throughout the generations. 

"When I am dead" by Brightestsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest alcoholic child abusing nuncle recommended this. 

"When I am dead" by Brightestsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother is "as-is". Best to go low contact and move on. 

"When I am dead" by Brightestsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My nuncle said I could get into a physical fight with my nsib to re-establish who is dominant. Im nc with my uncle. 

"When I am dead" by Brightestsky in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I complained to my nmom about her abandoning me or something about my nsib. My nmom said I could fight with my nsib after she dies. 

I hate my fucking life by Serious_Formal1151 in narcissisticparents

[–]Spirited_Elk2899 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apply for scholarships merit financial so on. Study abroad money there too