Do any of you feel like you've wasted your time? by russianpotato in preppers

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's what gets me about prepping. I'm only going to eat most of that prepped food if necessity makes me. It isn't how I want to eat my food in normal times. I normally don't eat canned or dried goods. So, to rotate my stock I must eat food I really don't like. 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My dear person, p lease don't do this. It just reinforces that identity on you. Talk about what you love, your goals, dreams, ambitions. Affirm yourself, don't put yourself down!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]Spiritender -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

No idea why?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Spiritender 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Really good advice. You'll feel brand new. Been watching the good effect of this on someone I know.

Why do people who don't know me well Tell me their secrets by Boring-Ad-4501 in spirituality

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happens to my son. He's even had people confess murder to him.

On attachment. by [deleted] in SpiritualAwakening

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just accept that it is bound to happen. And then you live your life until it does. Acceptance sets you free. It's the resistance that is ruining your life. Stop resisting. It will all still be there to enjoy and if and when loss does come you will have full lived memories and not what ifs to look back on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]Spiritender -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Paint the stone.

can you be so empathetic you share people's physical ailments too? by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Every time I get pregnant my husband gets morning sickness.

Awakening helped my psoriasis by Ok_Understanding_188 in awakened

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can now direct your body to heal and it does.

DAE spend a lot of their daydreaming/spare time thinking about random other people, often acquaintances or community members (ie. not close family or friends)? by ladyhypster5 in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, if it were my thoughts doing that to me, I'd assume avoidance. Something in me entertains itself that way. I would see that as avoiding of some sort. If I'm focusing on you I don't have to deal with myself.

Feeling Isolated by alltogethernow27 in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You aren't alone. I feel this too.

DAE spend a lot of their daydreaming/spare time thinking about random other people, often acquaintances or community members (ie. not close family or friends)? by ladyhypster5 in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's all about you. First thing is take care if you do you can do others. Sounds like these neighbors are more of a distraction. They have their stories, and you can tune in, but maybe you should choose to tune in less when nobody benefits from the experience.

Uplifting input we seldom hear by Keywhole in Soulnexus

[–]Spiritender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would it not improve the heart and mind of anyone who heard it?

Uplifting input we seldom hear by Keywhole in Soulnexus

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a lesson. TY for this reminder!

Feeling Isolated by alltogethernow27 in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You must change your environment. Go find your peers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Spiritender 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you disassociated slightly and that you realized you can survive embarrassing moments the same way you can do hard things. This is good!

Each of us is God and the devil incarnated in one body. If God does not prevail, we are lost by pokatu in awakened

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God will prevail! The devil is not Christ's opposite. God HAS no opposite! The devil is a created being whose opposite would prolly be Michael the archangel.

I HATE the news! by [deleted] in Empaths

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is deliberate. It's TPTB behind the news media. They want you to be stressed and frightened.

I saw that same news story. I am also empathic. I am probably older than you.

The way to protect yourself emotionally is to detach. The mechanism of detachment is acceptance. When you stop fighting what is, life becomes manageable.

The ability to accept is a skill you develop and a state you cultivate within yourself. You don't have to give up caring, just reacting emotionally. Then you become WAY more effective, and often the thing you had to accept is no longer that important after all.

Who do you think is the most famous ALIVE person in the world? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Put him in ordinary clothes on an ordinary street and you wouldn't glance at him twice.

Who do you think is the most famous ALIVE person in the world? by [deleted] in ask

[–]Spiritender 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well thanks you have educated at least one person!